Hey so I'm still new to the swinging world and recently really turned on at the thought of meeting a couple and trying to build a connection. Iv messaged a few but dont seem to get a good vibe with many wanting to meet single men. Do couples mind meeting first timers? What am i doing wrong ? Lol cry for help x |
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"We would definitely meet someone that’s not done anything before but your profile is very basic you don’t stand out much . Peter "
Appreciate that peter. Ill see if i can improve it and try make it more appealing. Im really bad at selling myself and writing things up. Find it much easier to chat but totally understand first impresions x |
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Unfortunately I'm in the same scenario.. I'm a bit on the older side and couples seem to prefer the younger generation. It does give you a kick in the bollocks but I keep plugging away .. 9/10 they just don't reply( I know they get inundated with messages) .but a simple no thanks would do. Hopefully 2025 will be different.. |
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"Unfortunately I'm in the same scenario.. I'm a bit on the older side and couples seem to prefer the younger generation. It does give you a kick in the bollocks but I keep plugging away .. 9/10 they just don't reply( I know they get inundated with messages) .but a simple no thanks would do. Hopefully 2025 will be different.."
Feel your pain bud. Im trying to make a effort but yeah its not easy |
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By *hyme2020Woman 6 days ago
Glasgow Scotland |
I recently had my first mfm and I’m a single woman on here. I had two fwb who I had built up a lot of trust with separately, and thankfully I then managed to get them both together at the same time and it was everything I hoped for. I had many opportunities previously to meet 2 men on here but for me it wasn’t about me just meeting random men. I knew how I wanted it to be and I am glad I waited for it to be how I wanted. My point is, maybe you don’t necessarily have to join a couple unless that’s your actual fantasy. The dynamic is possible in other ways. Hope you fulfil it in 2025  |
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"I recently had my first mfm and I’m a single woman on here. I had two fwb who I had built up a lot of trust with separately, and thankfully I then managed to get them both together at the same time and it was everything I hoped for. I had many opportunities previously to meet 2 men on here but for me it wasn’t about me just meeting random men. I knew how I wanted it to be and I am glad I waited for it to be how I wanted. My point is, maybe you don’t necessarily have to join a couple unless that’s your actual fantasy. The dynamic is possible in other ways. Hope you fulfil it in 2025 "
Thank you for that. Im hoping this is the year i can meet new friends and build some connections |
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