We older mature guys seem to be getting overlooked by couples and women . Plenty of guys willing to meet but couples and women put up age criterias that stifles us.( we can't even message them if we're one year out). Any advice other than suck it up .lol |
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By *nRMan 3 weeks ago
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We were active in the lifestyle for years. Over a year ago I lost my wife. I have been trying to get back into the life. Nobody seems interested in meeting a mature man. If I’m honest when Dawn was alive we weren’t interested in meeting single males. Dawn would often chat to single men, more so when she was ill. I can’t be critical of people that are doing exactly what we did. I have thought about using clubs; however, I would feel awkward going to a club on my own and can’t seem to find a woman that would like to go to one with me. It feels like a no win situation. |
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"We were active in the lifestyle for years. Over a year ago I lost my wife. I have been trying to get back into the life. Nobody seems interested in meeting a mature man. If I’m honest when Dawn was alive we weren’t interested in meeting single males. Dawn would often chat to single men, more so when she was ill. I can’t be critical of people that are doing exactly what we did. I have thought about using clubs; however, I would feel awkward going to a club on my own and can’t seem to find a woman that would like to go to one with me. It feels like a no win situation. "
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"We older mature guys seem to be getting overlooked by couples and women . Plenty of guys willing to meet but couples and women put up age criterias that stifles us.( we can't even message them if we're one year out). Any advice other than suck it up .lol "
Yep, just suck it up... Age criteria is there for a reason.... They don't want too meet you... Simple.... So messaging would be pointless any way |
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"We older mature guys seem to be getting overlooked by couples and women . Plenty of guys willing to meet but couples and women put up age criterias that stifles us.( we can't even message them if we're one year out). Any advice other than suck it up .lol "
it's not just an age thing .
There has to be attraction & sexual chemistry if that's not there then people won't be interested .
To have sex with someone you need both attraction & sexual chemistry to make it all work out .
Being on the same sexual wavelength definitely has to be there for me as well as the attraction .
If you sexually click with someone it can be amazing  |
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By *nRMan 3 weeks ago
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"We older mature guys seem to be getting overlooked by couples and women . Plenty of guys willing to meet but couples and women put up age criterias that stifles us.( we can't even message them if we're one year out). Any advice other than suck it up .lol it's not just an age thing .
There has to be attraction & sexual chemistry if that's not there then people won't be interested .
To have sex with someone you need both attraction & sexual chemistry to make it all work out .
Being on the same sexual wavelength definitely has to be there for me as well as the attraction .
If you sexually click with someone it can be amazing "
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