As a couple we have been ern,discussing swinging and now look close to our first encounter(think that was a movie title)for us it's been 4 years in the making!! Would love to hear how couples and singles first started |
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We met a very cool guy called Silvio on a nudist beach in Majorca.
He invited us to his club in Palma , we didn't know it was a swinger club ! I was quite an experience as we were not expecting what was there . Nothing happened the first time we went .
We went again , we never looked back and had a fantastic number of adventures over many years ! Mainly Europeans who seem to be much more liberal than us Scots . Wonderful times ! |
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By *vcarolTV/TS 5 days ago
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"I think for now the club thing is a step to far  ,we have went down the route of a meeting at a hotel to see how things go.though a club in a foreign land and a beach is under discussion "
A wee tip, for your first time at a club, don’t go to play, just go to look. Take in the atmosphere, see what happens- think of it as a really friendly pub, one where people’s bits fall out.
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I was dating an older girl at the time in London (I was 24 and she was 36). She invited me to a friends party so I went along. Turned out it was a swingers party.
What really surprised me was the normality of it all. Chatting to people like you would at a normal party, getting to know them. I found the whole situation amazing |
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By *echnaMan 5 days ago
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The first club I visited I went with no expectations of joining in. Spent 90% of the night dressed and talking to regulars over drinks. It was a similar to a standard night out. Walked about, took a look around and generally chilled out.
The conversations took it further and I was invited to join in.
Very similar experience when I went to my first private party.
Clubs, parties or events and meets should (in my opinion) be treated as a night out with no expectations or preconceived ideas. If you are comfortable go with it. If you are uncomfortable stop. |
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"The first club I visited I went with no expectations of joining in. Spent 90% of the night dressed and talking to regulars over drinks. It was a similar to a standard night out. Walked about, took a look around and generally chilled out.
Seems clubs as a first time is more common than I thought
The conversations took it further and I was invited to join in.
Very similar experience when I went to my first private party.
Clubs, parties or events and meets should (in my opinion) be treated as a night out with no expectations or preconceived ideas. If you are comfortable go with it. If you are uncomfortable stop. "
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