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By *avelman OP Man 11 weeks ago
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Right folks.
My profile or patter must be rubbish..
What is it that catches your eye with a profile for a single guy?
Kind of pics/profile pic?
Long or short about yourself/looking for?
Need to up my game.. help needed.
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Cock shot as a profile pic or every pic being a cock pic is a no, no. Makes people think he must be a cock. Be creative or at least varied in your pics.
We are looking for something other than sex, so there would have to be some indication they have similar fetishes and kinks, either in interests, pics or written bio.
The ability to hold a conversation to be able to articulate intelligently what you're looking for (have been approached by people who never wrote more than 4 words).
They would also have to seem to know what it is they're looking for, if not at least what areas they might want to explore.
Honesty, Intelligence, Confidence & Clarity too....  |
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Your profile pics are just a series of cock pics, that gives the impression that your cock is your only asset.
Your bio doesn’t say anything about what you’re like as a potential partner, what you’re looking for, what you like etc.
personally we wouldn’t respond to a message from you because we have nothing to go on to make a judgement on whether there’s any compatibility - imagine how many profiles there are out there the same as yours, we’re not going to waste our time
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For us and just our opinion but not a fan of knob pictures especially as a main profile we are about vibe and connection and that kind of picture puts us off instantly especially me as a male haha I'm not wanting see the boabby.
We like veris that show and tell who a person is roughly and a profiles that show who they are no harm in one knob picture but not plastered all over by every angle show us you dressed up, show us something interesting that stands out from someone else show personality.
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The 1st thing that catches the eye is a picture and sorry dick pics are just blah
A couple of the guys we/I talk to I reached out because their pics were so good.
The 2nd thing, I would go to info, I picked this 1 up, we don’t meet smokers, if who was messaging was a smoker, we would not reply.
3rd I look at the interests, just to see what that person is into.
And 4th, the profile text, I want to know a bit about the person, I want to get a feel for them. I want to feel as though we would have something to talk about. |
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Unfortunately people bypass those of us who cannot accommodate.. this is not because we are hiding it from our spouses ( though a few do) . Personally I have adult kids living with me so my place is not suitable for meets . |
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