There is a lot of decent people on this site and the time just isn’t there to reply to everyone especially if a profile gets lots of messages.
Also it can be the nicest message from the greatest of person but if the mood or timing is wrong that can come into effect also.
I think the key is expect nothing back and don’t take it personal a no reply can be for multiple of reasons that’s not even anything to do with the sender |
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By *exsaCouple 4 weeks ago
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"There is a lot of decent people on this site and the time just isn’t there to reply to everyone especially if a profile gets lots of messages.
Also it can be the nicest message from the greatest of person but if the mood or timing is wrong that can come into effect also.
I think the key is expect nothing back and don’t take it personal a no reply can be for multiple of reasons that’s not even anything to do with the sender "
Yes to all of this  |
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"There is a lot of decent people on this site and the time just isn’t there to reply to everyone especially if a profile gets lots of messages.
Also it can be the nicest message from the greatest of person but if the mood or timing is wrong that can come into effect also.
I think the key is expect nothing back and don’t take it personal a no reply can be for multiple of reasons that’s not even anything to do with the sender
Yes to all of this "
Absolutely yes to all this |
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By *j2015Couple 4 weeks ago
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Maybe we are too naive but we always respond to all “messages”!
For clarity
The one line vulgar comments and “hey”’s are just deleted on site but anything that has taken 60s+ to type deserves the same in respect as far as we are concerned… (for now 😅😈)
If we dont want messages we turn them off, the setting is right there 🤷♂️. I hate the idea of ignoring genuine messages if you are open to receiving them. We answer the way we want to be answered… even if that means “no thank you” |
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"Maybe we are too naive but we always respond to all “messages”!
For clarity
The one line vulgar comments and “hey”’s are just deleted on site but anything that has taken 60s+ to type deserves the same in respect as far as we are concerned… (for now 😅😈)
If we dont want messages we turn them off, the setting is right there 🤷♂️. I hate the idea of ignoring genuine messages if you are open to receiving them. We answer the way we want to be answered… even if that means “no thank you”"
Quite agree with that x |
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Inboxes can be overwhelming especially if just posted a new picture or status update. Let’s all keep it kind and considerate. With all the will in the world no one has time to reply to every message received. That being said there is no need for vulgar and hateful messages once “ignored” or rejected. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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No different to getting the old school
“Knock Back” when I was younger lol one of those things but upto yourself a no thanks is just a way of cutting it off quickly. Most are grown up enough to not dwell on it and move on lol You can’t be everyone’s type  |
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