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Age Limits Got Me in a Pickle—Care to Chat?
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By *weetRoll OP Man 5 days ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
Hello, you lovely ladies!
I’m fairly new here and have been getting the hang of things over the past few weeks. It’s been an interesting ride so far, but I find myself in a bit of a pickle, and I could use a little help.
I’d genuinely love to connect, chat, and maybe even meet some of you amazing people if the chemistry is right. However, there’s a small hiccup: a lot of profiles I’m interested in have a lower age limit set at 25.
The thing is, many of these wonderful women are in my local area or nearby, which makes it tricky for me to connect without expanding my search radius significantly. And while long-distance messaging is fine, let’s be real—it does come with its own set of challenges. Meanwhile, I’m seeing plenty of women in their 20's who are also into older guys. So trying to meet people my age through fab locally or nearby is no easier. It’s all bit of a head-scratcher to navigate (that's an understatement).
So, for the small percentage of you fabulous ladies within, say, 50 miles who might be open to meeting a 23-year-old who’s sincere, grounded, and genuinely excited to connect—but perhaps have your lower limit set just a tad higher than my age—I humbly ask: give my profile a peek! If you are not personally interested but know someone who could be, do let them know about me -- id really appreciate that too.
If you like what you see (and read), please don’t hesitate to drop me a message. I’d love the chance to chat and get to know more of you.
Thanks for reading, and here’s hoping for some great conversations ahead! 😄
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By *weetRoll OP Man 4 days ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
"(Meanwhile, I’m seeing plenty of women in their 20's who are also into older guys.)
You ain't gonna have much sympathy on here.  "
Garnering sympathy is not the intention here. I just anticipated the stock response to be "look for women around your age" so I'm providing context that it isn't so simple.
Look,
I'm well aware that I'm playing the "game" on hardcore mode. As a straight single male that's not living in a major city, who cannot accommodate and is under 25; its a small miracle that I've had any meets at all in such a short span of time. 
The forums are but another means of connecting with people even if it is very small percentage, no harm in using it.  |
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Look at this from different perspective OP. Whether you have all the future ahead of you, and will eventually fit into people’s age bracket in no time, we older people won’t get any younger and most of us are out of most people age range already.
Hope this helps so don’t stress yourself too much about it. |
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By *weetRoll OP Man 4 days ago
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"Look at this from different perspective OP. Whether you have all the future ahead of you, and will eventually fit into people’s age bracket in no time, we older people won’t get any younger and most of us are out of most people age range already.
Hope this helps so don’t stress yourself too much about it."
Well... I just hope I'll be able to make the time for it by then.
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"In the advanced search. Tick the box that says 'I'm age they're looking for'
I appreciate the suggestion, but I've already been using it.
However locally its just not enough people. "
You're kinda stumped then🤷♀️ |
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By *weetRoll OP Man 3 days ago
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"In the advanced search. Tick the box that says 'I'm age they're looking for'
I appreciate the suggestion, but I've already been using it.
However locally its just not enough people.
You're kinda stumped then🤷♀️"
Pretty much. I'm on other sites as well so not got all my eggs in one basket. Just doing what I can.
Hopefully some of the women that haven't seen my message will get round to it and something fruitful can begin. |
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Try going to social events, because although on fab there is age limits, you might find that getting to speak to folk in person will see how, and I'm quoting you here, grounded and sincere you are, that might work in your favour |
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By *weetRoll OP Man 3 days ago
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"Try going to social events, because although on fab there is age limits, you might find that getting to speak to folk in person will see how, and I'm quoting you here, grounded and sincere you are, that might work in your favour"
 Going to more clubs definitely on my to do list. I have already Attended my local swingers club once a few weeks ago and it was pleasant. But they are pricey for single males and I'm a full time student so its not something I can do regularly. Maybe like every 3-4 months. |
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