Alas, chatting up in the finest of cocktail bars is a thing of the past. It's a place where I go to reminisce and look back with sensual fondness on how things used to be. Many a clandestine encounter or a romantic tryst was established on the back of woo'ing a woman at a bar or across the floor as she was seated on a vintage leather banquette.
We live in sad times. 🩶 |
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"Alas, chatting up in the finest of cocktail bars is a thing of the past. It's a place where I go to reminisce and look back with sensual fondness on how things used to be. Many a clandestine encounter or a romantic tryst was established on the back of woo'ing a woman at a bar or across the floor as she was seated on a vintage leather banquette.
We live in sad times. 🩶"
I agree, pulling on a night out is a dying art. Loved socialising in pubs and clubs in my teens and twenties. Chatting to everyone, flirty looks across the room, bumping into your new winch while waiting at the bar.
My kids don’t get to experience any of that now. Everyone is face down in their phones.
Everything being prearranged on a dating app……theres no spontaneity or excitement. |
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"Alas, chatting up in the finest of cocktail bars is a thing of the past. It's a place where I go to reminisce and look back with sensual fondness on how things used to be. Many a clandestine encounter or a romantic tryst was established on the back of woo'ing a woman at a bar or across the floor as she was seated on a vintage leather banquette.
We live in sad times. 🩶"
I can picture it very clearly. You have a way with words Mr Nero😜 |
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By *hyme2020Woman 1 week ago
Glasgow Scotland |
I definitely have noticed it is a dying art, but the last time I was out in Glasgow I was chatted up by a younger guy and we had a lovely evening 🤣🤣so maybe I have just been going to the wrong pubs |
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Always managed to pull no bother on nights out .. like everything else .. failure means you learn .. if you don't have a go you'll never know lol .. just wish (usually younger) women didn't immediately put a barrier up that you have to fight to break down first. |
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As someone who was out most/every weekend in there late teens, 20’s and most of 30’s, occasionally in my 40’s - NEVER had a vanilla one night stand, and NEVER had a guy chat me up/offer drink etc!
As a super confident, social butterfly had plenty guy friends try to explain to me why..! Fab does wonders for my confidence that bars don’t! |
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"What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?
I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it. "
Most guys feel intimidated when a female appears more confident than them, or the whole ‘punching above their weight’ mindset |
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By *rs23Man 5 days ago
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"What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?
I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it.
Most guys feel intimidated when a female appears more confident than them, or the whole ‘punching above their weight’ mindset "
Love a confident woman as well from time to time  |
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By *exsaCouple 5 days ago
Dunfermline |
"What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?
I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it.
Most guys feel intimidated when a female appears more confident than them, or the whole ‘punching above their weight’ mindset "
Ahhh i kinda thought as much. Trouble is, im looking at them thinking i am punching too 😂 |
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By *opeyXWoman 3 days ago
Dun Dee |
"Is this still a thing or is it all online now?
Ocasionally still happens when I'm out. 
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Cause you're a hottie🔥🤣
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You are both hóttìes. Hot enough to melt the hearts of Knights and Paladins. †"
Tenner in the post Sassie.
Nero you smooth talker! |
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