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By *hoebe OP Woman 4 weeks ago
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Im Worried about a friend on here. He hasn't been on on here just over a week. I know gab isn't the be all and end all, but he is usually always on. Like every day, multiple times.
I wondered if maybe he'd lost his phone, but his account is still up and always has been. Would it still show as logged in of his phone was off?? |
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"Hey
Im Worried about a friend on here. He hasn't been on on here just over a week. I know gab isn't the be all and end all, but he is usually always on. Like every day, multiple times.
I wondered if maybe he'd lost his phone, but his account is still up and always has been. Would it still show as logged in of his phone was off??"
I'm sure if he didn't log off after a certain length of time you automatically get logged out.
Maybe he's just having some time out or perhaps he's on holiday or something like that . |
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By *ennyjMan 4 weeks ago
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"Hey
Im Worried about a friend on here. He hasn't been on on here just over a week. I know gab isn't the be all and end all, but he is usually always on. Like every day, multiple times.
I wondered if maybe he'd lost his phone, but his account is still up and always has been. Would it still show as logged in of his phone was off??"
Do uou know any his mutual friends or other social media accounts ?, may be way too find out if all ok |
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By *hoebe OP Woman 4 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
"Thanks for the replies
I dont know any of his friends on here so cant contact anyone.
Just have to hope he's OK. It's hard being worried tho.
What exactly are you worried about?
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That he's not replied to my messages, when we've messaged daily for approx 6 months. In case he's ill/in hosp/in trouble somehow |
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"Thanks for the replies
I dont know any of his friends on here so cant contact anyone.
Just have to hope he's OK. It's hard being worried tho.
What exactly are you worried about?
That he's not replied to my messages, when we've messaged daily for approx 6 months. In case he's ill/in hosp/in trouble somehow "
Is there another less serious possibility? |
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I hate to be the one to say it if it's showing as logged in he's logging in , if your sending him multiple messages and he's not reply to any then that tells you he's not interested .if he was he'd reply to you . Not wanting to sound crass this does come across quite bolierish ,maybe move on to someone who will x |
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"Not being a bunny boiler!!
I haven't sent multiple messages. He hasn't logged on in nearly a fortnight, which is really unusual for him.
I'm worried for a friend, that's all. "
Surely your relationship blossomed to more than the clunky shite Fab message service and you made it to Telegram or something?
Maybe that in itself is a clue to what's happened here? |
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By *hoebe OP Woman 4 weeks ago
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"Not being a bunny boiler!!
I haven't sent multiple messages. He hasn't logged on in nearly a fortnight, which is really unusual for him.
I'm worried for a friend, that's all.
Surely your relationship blossomed to more than the clunky shite Fab message service and you made it to Telegram or something?
Maybe that in itself is a clue to what's happened here?"
We do use a messaging app too. That's why im worried
Just leave it now. Thanks
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"Not being a bunny boiler!!
I haven't sent multiple messages. He hasn't logged on in nearly a fortnight, which is really unusual for him.
I'm worried for a friend, that's all.
Surely your relationship blossomed to more than the clunky shite Fab message service and you made it to Telegram or something?
Maybe that in itself is a clue to what's happened here?
We do use a messaging app too. That's why im worried
Just leave it now. Thanks
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Then I don't think there is any more you can do .
So I'd say just wait and see if they make contact with you.
It has happened with me too and the person got intouch eventually to explain the reasons why .
Be patient & if you mean as much to them as you do to them then I'm sure they will be back in touch . |
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"Not being a bunny boiler!!
I haven't sent multiple messages. He hasn't logged on in nearly a fortnight, which is really unusual for him.
I'm worried for a friend, that's all. "
That he's not replied to my messages, when we've messaged daily for approx 6 months. In case he's ill/in hosp/in trouble somehow
Not having a dig but u did say he wasnt replying to your messages . Also a fortnight off the scene really isnt that much real life can get in the way .The level of concern is worrying , I totally get folk can get swept up in messaging but honestly if he was that into you there would most definitely be another form of communication , kinda eludes he could have something to hide and not wanting any evidence on there fone of communication with a woman , after 6 months the alarm bells would be ringing .My honest advice is to put it behind ye and move on. |
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By *hoebe OP Woman 4 weeks ago
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"I don’t get logged out automatically if I use my phone.
There’s lots of reasons why he hasn’t been in touch. Have you actually met up?"
Yes, multiple times over the last 6 months. We were due to go away for the weekend and he just vanished on the day.
I ghosting is a thing, but I really don't think he'd do that. This is why im worried. All I'd like is to know he's ok. If he doesn't want to see me again, that's fine. No dramas from me. I'm just a worrier I guess. |
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