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By *ATDOM OP Man 12 weeks ago
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I have just met a lovely Lady who has been widowed for 18 months. She is lovely and explained to me the phenomenon of widows burn.
Has anyone else experienced this.
Any widows please PM if interested
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Took me around 9 months after I became a widow.
Apparently it's a void you need filled.
It's was around 5 years before I actually realised the kind of sex I wanted,
My ex FWB used to say he needed extra hands & cock's.
He was right! I much prefer group sex over one on one.  |
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"It’s also known as widows fire, experienced it myself and I recon its a way of dealing with grief. "
Kind of but no. Honestly after dealing with his illness and death, it was an intense need to feel a connection of some kind.
And it was just weeks after he died that it started  |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"It’s also known as widows fire, experienced it myself and I recon its a way of dealing with grief.
Kind of but no. Honestly after dealing with his illness and death, it was an intense need to feel a connection of some kind.
And it was just weeks after he died that it started "
I tried to dm you but you have filters set.
I had very similar experience and time scale, like most people on fab always been horny but last two years was nuts. I’m going through a guilt trip last few months as I had meet some lovely woman and i totally fecked them about. Just starting to get back to some normality well if that is a thing. 🙄 |
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Widows fire is something that is discussed a lot at the meetings I go to.
I feel it myself from time to time.
There is a website dedicated to it, and although it IS meant to just be for Widows, there does seem to be others on it that aren't.
Widows Fire describes the (sometimes) uncontrollable and all-consuming desire for sex following bereavement.
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"I have just met a lovely Lady who has been widowed for 18 months. She is lovely and explained to me the phenomenon of widows burn.
Has anyone else experienced this.
Any widows please PM if interested
Pat"
Do you mean widows fire? |
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"I met a lady last year, she was widowed and is a believer in it. She said since her husbands passing her libido has gone through the roof, she just can't get enough of it. And she proved it  "
You did meet a woman with widows fire… and it’s still burning brightly!
I can confirm it’s definitely a real phenomenon and is connected to the part of the brain that processes grief. The libido skyrockets and the urge for skin to skin contact is overwhelming. From around 6 months post loss to now (6 years) it’s taken over my life |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I met a lady last year, she was widowed and is a believer in it. She said since her husbands passing her libido has gone through the roof, she just can't get enough of it. And she proved it
You did meet a woman with widows fire… and it’s still burning brightly!
I can confirm it’s definitely a real phenomenon and is connected to the part of the brain that processes grief. The libido skyrockets and the urge for skin to skin contact is overwhelming. From around 6 months post loss to now (6 years) it’s taken over my life "
6 years no way I’m over 2 years and thought I had started to ease off. But it’s not, I try to keep my mind off it bye working all the time and putting myself under stress, then once I accomplish something the stress seems to lift off for a short period and I’m straight back on it. |
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