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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it is wrong
Swinging is about trust..
If you aint got that then its time to take a step back
Why feel jealous if you trust someone?
Auds xx  "
Cause u find out by being noisy, but how much freedom does he need? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally depends on ur own situation but cant think why they would need to go on another site if you both have an understanding of what you both find acceptable on here?"
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"Yes it is wrong
Swinging is about trust..
If you aint got that then its time to take a step back
Why feel jealous if you trust someone?
Auds xx
Cause u find out by being noisy, but how much freedom does he need?"
It's all about trust.
If you need to check up on him, methinks there's a problem. |
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If your agreement is that he/she can go find another partner with the others knowledge and consent that's one thing.
Doing it behind your back is cheating plain and simple, would expect that there would have been an argument put up like "I thought you'd be fine with it" but that wouldn't hold any water with us.
When we swing we swing, when we live our ordinary life we have ordinary parameters that we live by. |
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Think its best to deal with things private other than on here as i imagine the relationship is on the brink.
Posting here will just have all the guys offering you a sympathy fuck in private and payback....bad form  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think its best to deal with things private other than on here as i imagine the relationship is on the brink.
Posting here will just have all the guys offering you a sympathy fuck in private and payback....bad form "
Think your right about the guys, maybe she just needed it off her chest. Hope all gets sorted for them  |
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By *exyasMan
over a year ago
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"Think its best to deal with things private other than on here as i imagine the relationship is on the brink.
Posting here will just have all the guys offering you a sympathy fuck in private and payback....bad form "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think its best to deal with things private other than on here as i imagine the relationship is on the brink.
Posting here will just have all the guys offering you a sympathy fuck in private and payback....bad form "
Pp u know me better than that, |
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swinger or non swinger ,if your partner isnt open and upfrount about anything that could potentially affect your realtionship thats not on ! if hes joined another site and not said anything to you then id be asking myself why hes kept it secret . maybe time to both step away from swinging at all untill some clear bounderies and exspecations are set . good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"swinger or non swinger ,if your partner isnt open and upfrount about anything that could potentially affect your realtionship thats not on ! if hes joined another site and not said anything to you then id be asking myself why hes kept it secret . maybe time to both step away from swinging at all untill some clear bounderies and exspecations are set . good luck x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I (mr dlt) should have discussed it first and accept the way it was done was wrong and have apologised for it,and am also aware of the amount of stick im going to get for it  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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This is obviously just my opinion but the need to post this on a public forum why?? Should this not be something discussed solely between you both and sorted out. Never seen the need to air dirty laundry in public, just my take! |
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heres the thing as I see it the mr has apologised and they are working it out. before I read that post I was wondering if he had gone to a different site to find a surprise for the mrs. maybe to learn something and didn't want her friends to find out he was learning this for her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is obviously just my opinion but the need to post this on a public forum why?? Should this not be something discussed solely between you both and sorted out. Never seen the need to air dirty laundry in public, just my take!"
Ever thought that getting an opinion from ppl that don't know you, will give you an honest answer than sugar coat it,
Also you can't always talk to vanilla friends about it, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"heres the thing as I see it the mr has apologised and they are working it out. before I read that post I was wondering if he had gone to a different site to find a surprise for the mrs. maybe to learn something and didn't want her friends to find out he was learning this for her."
He has, big time, just waiting for the flowers now, |
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