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Why is it so hard to find a fwb?
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Why is it so hard to find a regular Fwb? I mean, I’ve had offers BUT I have a liking for a certain spice and vanilla just doesn’t do it for me.
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Yup I've exactly the same issue people are either too far away or can't accom. Or not my type which is fair enough. Seems almost impossible these days to find a regular fwb. Years ago it was so easy on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"Why is it so hard to find a regular Fwb? I mean, I’ve had offers BUT I have a liking for a certain spice and vanilla just doesn’t do it for me.
Has anyone else had issues finding what they like here too? Any advice? "
Everything is about choices and females especially have plenty of choices on here. The elusive FWB is definitely out there, its just finding that one who falls into what you are looking for/desire etc..
Are they into what you like or prepared to experiment to see if you are compatible together, fun wise of course, can they accom or you accom for that matter, where do they live, too far away or even too close etc.. so many things.
Unfortunately in Fab human nature, it can be like a firestick that is chipped, you can get every tv series going but you spend ages going through the lists and trailers cause there is so many and you never have time to sit and watch a tv show as your too busy skipping past the good ones.
A different kind of analogy but thought, feck it, some may get it
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"Why is it so hard to find a regular Fwb? I mean, I’ve had offers BUT I have a liking for a certain spice and vanilla just doesn’t do it for me.
Has anyone else had issues finding what they like here too? Any advice?
Everything is about choices and females especially have plenty of choices on here. The elusive FWB is definitely out there, its just finding that one who falls into what you are looking for/desire etc..
Are they into what you like or prepared to experiment to see if you are compatible together, fun wise of course, can they accom or you accom for that matter, where do they live, too far away or even too close etc.. so many things.
Unfortunately in Fab human nature, it can be like a firestick that is chipped, you can get every tv series going but you spend ages going through the lists and trailers cause there is so many and you never have time to sit and watch a tv show as your too busy skipping past the good ones.
A different kind of analogy but thought, feck it, some may get it
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Great analogy and so true. Too much choice is sometimes bad too.
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Like it's been said many times to men before in the forum , a lack of profile doesn't bode well , In looking at your profile it doesn't tell anyone anything about you .
You get out of fab what you choose to put into it .
Maybe try telling folk what our looking for and hoping to find you might have a little more success in what your seeking .
I get its easier for a woman with a lack of profile to meet as there isn't enough to go around but really that means probably it will be folk looking for a hookup . Most folk men and women needs to be intrigued and there attention grabbed . |
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"Why is it so hard to find a regular Fwb? I mean, I’ve had offers BUT I have a liking for a certain spice and vanilla just doesn’t do it for me.
Has anyone else had issues finding what they like here too? Any advice? "
Suppose it depends how niche your spice is. |
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The biggest struggle for me hasn't been finding people who want that, but finding people who want that and are close enough to travel to. XD Things have been looking up in that regard recently, though. |
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Best way of doing it here is stick to the swinging scenario. You find the person and be very clear it’s for swinging. You will fuck others and no attachment will come of it. Honesty is the best option. xx |
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Time away from fab, real life getting in the way, distance…..all play a part in preventing me finding a real FWB. A ‘friend’ with benefits is more than a casual hook up, even if there is little social interaction and it becomes regular sex, you still build a connection .
I’ll keep looking! |
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By *uffinMan 18 weeks ago
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Too many judgemental people, looking for perfection when they miss the point that it's a bit on the side.
Meet people and see their attraction and learn their kinks instead of seeking an Adonis or glamour gal.
As for time wasters grrrr!
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"Too many judgemental people, looking for perfection when they miss the point that it's a bit on the side.
Meet people and see their attraction and learn their kinks instead of seeking an Adonis or glamour gal.
As for time wasters grrrr!
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Everyone has preferences, some are attraction driven (most I'd say) and some are need driven .. then there's some who are driven by attraction and need . |
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"Too many judgemental people, looking for perfection when they miss the point that it's a bit on the side.
Meet people and see their attraction and learn their kinks instead of seeking an Adonis or glamour gal.
As for time wasters grrrr!
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So if it's a bit on the side then any old munter will do.... okay  |
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Because the UK swingers scene for single women isn't a legitimate lifestyle community. It's a sex only site for guys who can't commit to friendship or repeated sex. You just have to either have multiples who make up a set of regulars or not expect anything from the site.
Keep searching blocking and seeking.. eventually those who understand the reward will rise above the shit show of time wasters.
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"Too many judgemental people, looking for perfection when they miss the point that it's a bit on the side.
Meet people and see their attraction and learn their kinks instead of seeking an Adonis or glamour gal.
As for time wasters grrrr!
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Preference not judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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I'm definitely not looking for an adonis cause I am far from perfect myself. But someone I can chill with feel comfortable with and have fun regularly with. I've been lucky over the years to have found this but this time is proving near impossible. Maybe its my age lol |
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I actually gave up trying to get meets about 2 years ago and only came back on here 6 months ago and now just go to ecclesia for some play x it's much easier x I either live too far away or live too close x I was chatting to someone the other day and I sent a face pic and when I asked for one she blocked me lol |
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I used to go on phone e.chat lines about 20 years ago and met women very easily , I think cos you were actually chatting to the person 121 it was easier to get a rapport than anonymous texting on here |
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"Why is it so hard to find a regular Fwb? I mean, I’ve had offers BUT I have a liking for a certain spice and vanilla just doesn’t do it for me.
Has anyone else had issues finding what they like here too? Any advice? "
Not had fwb for yrs kinda miss them |
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By *aylorMan 18 weeks ago
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It can be difficult to find someone that finds you pleasing on the eye and enjoys your banter, isn't too far away or too near and then you have to find them pleasing on the eye and enjoy their banter also.
(Unless your kink is going with people you are unattractred to)
I've had a few fwb in the past from here but for some reason they've always wanted more. 24/7 isn't for me though.
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hang in there OP
