This might be boring to some as I’ve seen many posts like this one before but…
Why am I not getting anywhere with the ladies? Is my profile bad? Are my pictures bad?
I try to send non creepy messages, I am polite and complimentary but I literally get zero replies ever. #sadface
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OP, your profile is fine, probably one of the better ones I've seen. That verification, the one you currently have displayed, appears to be a double-edged sword. People aren't in a rush to meet after a few messages... however that one is inferring you met after a year of chatting! I suspect that some may find that a tad off-putting. People wish to meet but they're not looking for penpals. |
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"OP, your profile is fine, probably one of the better ones I've seen. That verification, the one you currently have displayed, appears to be a double-edged sword. People aren't in a rush to meet after a few messages... however that one is inferring you met after a year of chatting! I suspect that some may find that a tad off-putting. People wish to meet but they're not looking for penpals."
I can see how it may look like we had been chatting for a year, but what the verification doesn’t say is we started chatting for a week or so, she then got herself a boyfriend and hid her profile and suddenly a year later she messaged me again. The other verification I have is from a lovely lady who is no longer on the site. I feel like I need to display at least one verification so people know I’m not fake. I need a new one hence my post haha |
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"You have two verifications so surely you know how to interact with people. What did you do right there??? There’s many would envy your success. "
2 rides in a year is not successful. I have needs! Haha |
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"OP, your profile is fine, probably one of the better ones I've seen. That verification, the one you currently have displayed, appears to be a double-edged sword. People aren't in a rush to meet after a few messages... however that one is inferring you met after a year of chatting! I suspect that some may find that a tad off-putting. People wish to meet but they're not looking for penpals."
I disagree with this and reckon it's all relative - I've been chatting up a few ladies on here for around a decade now and I'm thinking, perhaps, they're the ones that do the 4 hour blowjobs.
I'll confirm once they eventually relent. |
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By *ost-girlWoman 28 weeks ago
lost in Edinburgh somewhere |
Nothing wrong with your profile or pics really, but maybe this kind of wording isn't helping lol
" 2 rides in a year is not successful. I have needs! Haha"
Maybe you could try going out to events or socials and get chatting to others could be a way to help you get more meets.
Lx
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By *iimonMan 28 weeks ago
glasgow |
Unless you do some club nights, Fab is brutal for single guys. Get some nights booked in, get chatting with people and see where it might go.
Also, never go to a club night and assume you’ll get some action, you’ll see some, but you still need to put in some effort and chat |
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"Nothing wrong with your profile or pics really, but maybe this kind of wording isn't helping lol
2 rides in a year is not successful. I have needs! Haha
Maybe you could try going out to events or socials and get chatting to others could be a way to help you get more meets.
Lx
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Well it was intended to be tongue in cheek. Maybe my problem is noone gets my humour 
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By *exxerMan 28 weeks ago
Livingston |
The first couple of months I was on here I used to beat myself up about this. Now I just accept it’s how the site is. Many, many more men than women. It’s nearly impossible to stand out and once the few that meet your matches have viewed you it’s hardly worth being here. I’ll wait for my gold supporter thing to lapse then quietly slip out the back door unnoticed. |
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"The first couple of months I was on here I used to beat myself up about this. Now I just accept it’s how the site is. Many, many more men than women. It’s nearly impossible to stand out and once the few that meet your matches have viewed you it’s hardly worth being here. I’ll wait for my gold supporter thing to lapse then quietly slip out the back door unnoticed. "
One less competitor to worry about  |
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By *exxerMan 28 weeks ago
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"The first couple of months I was on here I used to beat myself up about this. Now I just accept it’s how the site is. Many, many more men than women. It’s nearly impossible to stand out and once the few that meet your matches have viewed you it’s hardly worth being here. I’ll wait for my gold supporter thing to lapse then quietly slip out the back door unnoticed.
One less competitor to worry about "
Hahahah. Believe me, you’ve nothing to worry about from me. |
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