Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ? |
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"Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ?"
Tbf it’s either seen as networking or being too lazy to research himself . Might besmirch your good name if your mentioned as the recommender of said profile .  |
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Tbf it’s either seen as networking or being too lazy to research himself . Might besmirch your good name if your mentioned as the recommender of said profile . "
That's what I think tbh , seems lazy and can't be arsed putting in the graft to get a meet ,but wanting to use my name with folk I know , I've been chatting a couple of days with him and he could turn out to be a complete whalloper , I'm taking no part in it at all .. I get we all have to start somewhere , he is verified so he's obviously met before and said its a minefield finding couples and single females who are genuine , I do get that .. just made me back off totally |
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Tbf it’s either seen as networking or being too lazy to research himself . Might besmirch your good name if your mentioned as the recommender of said profile .
That's what I think tbh , seems lazy and can't be arsed putting in the graft to get a meet ,but wanting to use my name with folk I know , I've been chatting a couple of days with him and he could turn out to be a complete whalloper , I'm taking no part in it at all .. I get we all have to start somewhere , he is verified so he's obviously met before and said its a minefield finding couples and single females who are genuine , I do get that .. just made me back off totally "
By the way do you know any ladies looking for a tv french maid if you can pass my name on ta .   |
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"Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ?"
Danger Will Robinson!!! |
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Being able to guide in the direction of where and how to find these people would be best in my opinion.
But not to introduce or suggest people as per say, never know who your introducing or for what reasons.
So yes red flag I would say as well |
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"Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ?"
It sounds like a random direction to take a conversation to that's for sure.
Concentrate on the beauty before you, don't ask if she's got any friends. What a shit move! Total red flag on various levels.
Cya..... block....
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"Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ?
It sounds like a random direction to take a conversation to that's for sure.
Concentrate on the beauty before you, don't ask if she's got any friends. What a shit move! Total red flag on various levels.
Cya..... block....
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This. Any guy asks me that he gets told I don't pimp oot ma pals.
Do yer own legwork. Lazy fucker |
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By *opeyXWoman 5 weeks ago
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"Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ?"
Yup met someone and thought they were sound socially, straight after we started messaging and he did the exact same thing and just went on about what he enjoyed sexually. Never asked me anything. Total turn off. |
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You wouldn’t recommend a restaurant or hotel that you haven’t used so why should a guy be any different?
I have had friends ask about people I have met but would never pass on the details of any friends to anyone whether I’d met them or not. If they were that keen then they can come along to a social. |
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"Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ?"
I think the strangest thing is that he's chatting to you and not trying to arrange a meet with you!
After a quick look at your profile that's exactly what I would be doing! Send him on his way and speak to someone who's worth your time.
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"it really isn't about whether he wanted me or not .. its about me not knowing him and him asking/expecting me to pass him onto my friends and people I know .x"
I agree with your thoughts on this completely. It’s definitely wrong and personally if someone I knew was “recommending me” to others I’d be furious X |
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By *ookie69Man 5 weeks ago
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"Recently got chatting with someone , just mails and very recently , and the conversation went down the route of can I suggest women or couples to him .
I'm all for filling your boots but it's kinda a red flag , been chatting under a week I've never met with him not had a conversation away from here so I don't know him. I really don't think it's my place to be setting him up with others when I haven't even met with him so I feel really uncomfortable sending him on to others profiles kinda like with my backing .
Too me it's a red flag or am I over thinking it ?
I think the strangest thing is that he's chatting to you and not trying to arrange a meet with you!
After a quick look at your profile that's exactly what I would be doing! Send him on his way and speak to someone who's worth your time.
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Why would you be trying to arrange a meet with the OP when her profile states she isn’t meeting?
That’s kinda strange to |
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Why would you be trying to arrange a meet with the OP when her profile states she isn’t meeting?
That’s kinda strange to "
This 100%.. it really isn't about meeting as I made it clear I'm not meeting at the moment , the chat did get a bit flirty and I reiterated I wasn't meeting , he then said while he was waiting for me to start meeting again if I would suggest profiles of folk I knew ,as if I was a purveyor of fanny . |
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"it really isn't about whether he wanted me or not .. its about me not knowing him and him asking/expecting me to pass him onto my friends and people I know .x
I agree with your thoughts on this completely. It’s definitely wrong and personally if someone I knew was “recommending me” to others I’d be furious X "
Me too . I'd be furious if I was on the receiving end of people getting directed to me for meets xx |
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"it really isn't about whether he wanted me or not .. its about me not knowing him and him asking/expecting me to pass him onto my friends and people I know .x
I agree with your thoughts on this completely. It’s definitely wrong and personally if someone I knew was “recommending me” to others I’d be furious X
Me too . I'd be furious if I was on the receiving end of people getting directed to me for meets xx"
Sounds like your gut instincts were spot on   X |
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"it really isn't about whether he wanted me or not .. its about me not knowing him and him asking/expecting me to pass him onto my friends and people I know .x
I agree with your thoughts on this completely. It’s definitely wrong and personally if someone I knew was “recommending me” to others I’d be furious X
Me too . I'd be furious if I was on the receiving end of people getting directed to me for meets xx
Sounds like your gut instincts were spot on X"
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Definitely go with the gut instinct. That's usually 99% right.
Such a bizarre thing to ask someone you're chatting with. Surely if you're chatting with then they would be asking you for a shag? Haha. Definitely a red flag for me. |
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I get the fact the people may discuss others that they have met in terms of they were great company or they are a good laugh or they ain't weird but asking someone to recommend others is a wee bit odd for me especially if you don't know that person that well at all |
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Why would you be trying to arrange a meet with the OP when her profile states she isn’t meeting?
That’s kinda strange to
This 100%.. it really isn't about meeting as I made it clear I'm not meeting at the moment , the chat did get a bit flirty and I reiterated I wasn't meeting , he then said while he was waiting for me to start meeting again if I would suggest profiles of folk I knew ,as if I was a purveyor of fanny . "
You mean your circle of lady friends and yourself aren’t in constant contact discussing who’s the horniest and waiting suitably madeover finest lingerie on waiting suiters rushing to them for clandestine frolics ? ( think that was my dream of course ) |
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Why would you be trying to arrange a meet with the OP when her profile states she isn’t meeting?
That’s kinda strange to
This 100%.. it really isn't about meeting as I made it clear I'm not meeting at the moment , the chat did get a bit flirty and I reiterated I wasn't meeting , he then said while he was waiting for me to start meeting again if I would suggest profiles of folk I knew ,as if I was a purveyor of fanny .
You mean your circle of lady friends and yourself aren’t in constant contact discussing who’s the horniest and waiting suitably madeover finest lingerie on waiting suiters rushing to them for clandestine frolics ? ( think that was my dream of course ) "
With the odd pillow fight thrown in for good measure  x |
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It's not right him asking you to do this, it might have been tongue in cheek though.
I once had a social with a woman and she started telling me about another woman on here who she is supposedly good friends with was married, even although this information had never been disclosed on her previous profiles or current one.
We never did meet again |
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Why would you be trying to arrange a meet with the OP when her profile states she isn’t meeting?
That’s kinda strange to
This 100%.. it really isn't about meeting as I made it clear I'm not meeting at the moment , the chat did get a bit flirty and I reiterated I wasn't meeting , he then said while he was waiting for me to start meeting again if I would suggest profiles of folk I knew ,as if I was a purveyor of fanny .
You mean your circle of lady friends and yourself aren’t in constant contact discussing who’s the horniest and waiting suitably madeover finest lingerie on waiting suiters rushing to them for clandestine frolics ? ( think that was my dream of course )
With the odd pillow fight thrown in for good measure x"
Only with the finest silk pillow slips of course . |
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Why would you be trying to arrange a meet with the OP when her profile states she isn’t meeting?
That’s kinda strange to
This 100%.. it really isn't about meeting as I made it clear I'm not meeting at the moment , the chat did get a bit flirty and I reiterated I wasn't meeting , he then said while he was waiting for me to start meeting again if I would suggest profiles of folk I knew ,as if I was a purveyor of fanny .
You mean your circle of lady friends and yourself aren’t in constant contact discussing who’s the horniest and waiting suitably madeover finest lingerie on waiting suiters rushing to them for clandestine frolics ? ( think that was my dream of course )
With the odd pillow fight thrown in for good measure x
Only with the finest silk pillow slips of course . "
And the finest duck feathers |
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