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lets get fab back to being fab,
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"I'm fairly new, so got nothing to compare it to. What's changed? " Its full of people complaining they cant get a shag | |||
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"I think it's still the same(ish) fab and there's still plenty of fun to be had. Just think, as I posted on the other thread, that this forum has changed for the worse. That's only a tiny part of fab though." 
There are 100's that dont use the forums....
Thats the ones that make it FAB for me  | |||
"I think it's still the same(ish) fab and there's still plenty of fun to be had. Just think, as I posted on the other thread, that this forum has changed for the worse. That's only a tiny part of fab though.
There are 100's that dont use the forums....
Thats the ones that make it FAB for me "Tbh without the forums I find it hard getting to know people. They seem a good way of breaking the ice etc without the pain of sending an email that inevitability gets ignored? | |||
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"I think it's still the same(ish) fab and there's still plenty of fun to be had. Just think, as I posted on the other thread, that this forum has changed for the worse. That's only a tiny part of fab though.
There are 100's that dont use the forums....
Thats the ones that make it FAB for me
Tbh without the forums I find it hard getting to know people.
They seem a good way of breaking the ice etc without the pain of sending an email that inevitability gets ignored? "Oh it is a great way to get to know people.... | |||
"I think it's still the same(ish) fab and there's still plenty of fun to be had. Just think, as I posted on the other thread, that this forum has changed for the worse. That's only a tiny part of fab though.
There are 100's that dont use the forums....
Thats the ones that make it FAB for me
Tbh without the forums I find it hard getting to know people.
They seem a good way of breaking the ice etc without the pain of sending an email that inevitability gets ignored?
Oh it is a great way to get to know people....
"Yeah, seems to be! Really enjoying myself so far! | |||
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"Not moaning,just saying," never said u were, its a general point lol | |||
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"It used to be a swinging and sex site. Alas...." | |||
"So...if your not putting a shit boring what did you have for dinner post...your moaning? Ok...Iv got it "Dont mind some of the mundane silly threads... But the "What you having for dinner" and the "Suck,fuck, avoid, hug, kiss, smack about, punch fk outta" threads...... Jeez... | |||
"So...if your not putting a shit boring what did you have for dinner post...your moaning? Ok...Iv got it "I had a bhoona thingy for dinner auds if I could just add,over the years, swinging may have changed,but you've still got a cracking ass. | |||
" But the "What you having for dinner" and the "Suck,fuck, avoid, hug, kiss, smack about, punch fk outta" threads...... Jeez..." SHAG | |||
" But the "What you having for dinner" and the "Suck,fuck, avoid, hug, kiss, smack about, punch fk outta" threads...... Jeez... SHAG "LOL..............sod off | |||
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"So...if your not putting a shit boring what did you have for dinner post...your moaning? Ok...Iv got it "forums are.same as the chatrooms, its not needed to be all about sex..just dont be surprised it harks back to sex or people have ulterior motives why they agree/disagree with folks and I use both forums and chatrooms very very rarely for meets anyway..and really only use the forums..and use the scottish forums even less so who do I mostly communicate with, regarding getting a shag..namely those I know who are meeting currently, whether its finding out on my own or networking with others So throwing the same opinion around once more, I think fab has changed, if its negatively changed then it needs to be turned positive, the only way to do that is by adapting to whats happening Remember when the site changed to the new chatrooms?remember when a whole influx of people started using the site as it gained notoriety?-people just adapted perhaps most of us should start bumping into each other in the future, and its not about asking for a fuck...just being better at communicating whats happening on the scene, and specifically if it has more at heart a swinging sexual touch to it | |||
" What I use the site for has nothing to with the forums..... Its a completely separate thing for me.... I comment on threads....but it in no way takes the fun out of "swinging" for me.... Its a separate thing for me too, but if you debate a point your to be avoided, if you just be cute and agreeable, boom yer ok, way it works, seems. " | |||
" What I use the site for has nothing to with the forums..... Its a completely separate thing for me.... I comment on threads....but it in no way takes the fun out of "swinging" for me.... Its a separate thing for me too, but if you debate a point your to be avoided, if you just be cute and agreeable, boom yer ok, way it works, seems. " Thats my point.... Not going to agree or disagree just to appear "nice"....If people dont like what I say on any thread....Thats their problem, not mine ...and they are free to avoid me!
It doesnt and never will have an effect on the fun I have....  | |||
" What I use the site for has nothing to with the forums..... Its a completely separate thing for me.... I comment on threads....but it in no way takes the fun out of "swinging" for me.... Its a separate thing for me too, but if you debate a point your to be avoided, if you just be cute and agreeable, boom yer ok, way it works, seems. Thats my point.... Not going to agree or disagree just to appear "nice"....If people dont like what I say on any thread....Thats their problem, not mine ...and they are free to avoid me!
It doesnt and never will have an effect on the fun I have.... "Well yes, with respect, your a single woman on here, you can tell 50% of guys to f*** off, the other 50% will still be eager to meet, a single guy does same and he litteraly is f***ed. | |||
" Well yes, with respect, your a single woman on here, you can tell 50% of guys to f*** off, the other 50% will still be eager to meet, a single guy does same and he litteraly is f***ed." If I see a guy comment on posts, and I think that he is only saying what he thinks others what to hear or just to look like he a nice agreeable sod.....I wouldnt give him time of day.... You see it alot on the forums....Guys being sooooo nice and trying to stay in good books with people..... Some women also, but I dont care about them.... | |||
" Well yes, with respect, your a single woman on here, you can tell 50% of guys to f*** off, the other 50% will still be eager to meet, a single guy does same and he litteraly is f***ed. If I see a guy comment on posts, and I think that he is only saying what he thinks others what to hear or just to look like he a nice agreeable sod.....I wouldnt give him time of day.... You see it alot on the forums....Guys being sooooo nice and trying to stay in good books with people..... Some women also, but I dont care about them.... "As i've said before, there are some threads that rapidly turn into 2 people chatting, to the point you feel like a forum hi-jacker or gooseberry. Wheres an apt moment to add a comment? Ohhhh its just fun we are being fun etc,, no really, not if yer feeling awkward about daring to comment. I'm all for fun, but fun for all more importantly, not daft self indulgent fun , where everyone else feels like they don't qualify. | |||
" Well yes, with respect, your a single woman on here, you can tell 50% of guys to f*** off, the other 50% will still be eager to meet, a single guy does same and he litteraly is f***ed. If I see a guy comment on posts, and I think that he is only saying what he thinks others what to hear or just to look like he a nice agreeable sod.....I wouldnt give him time of day.... You see it alot on the forums....Guys being sooooo nice and trying to stay in good books with people..... Some women also, but I dont care about them.... " | |||
"So...if your not putting a shit boring what did you have for dinner post...your moaning? Ok...Iv got it
I had a bhoona thingy for dinner
auds if I could just add,over the years, swinging may have changed,but you've still got a cracking ass. "   | |||
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"Nobody said, can/cant or should/should not. But if the place becomes 100% full of silly/childish threads i bet some folks may just wonder who is on fab generally." yeah but it's not 100 percent. Of any one type of thread, there are all different threads if you have a look right now at the first ten threads here. How many can you say are honestly silly. | |||
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"I like the forums wether it's silly fun posts or the serious debating ones, I find myself sometimes disagreeing with someone on one thread then agreeing with them on others.... Doesn't make me want to avoid them! Surely everyone has their own opinion and as adults that should be accepted! Now who wants a shag "I totally agree iv had couple run ins but then had a good chat later. The forums are great as you get to meet _ustcutie, eh Ye I fancy a shag x  | |||
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"I like the forums wether it's silly fun posts or the serious debating ones, I find myself sometimes disagreeing with someone on one thread then agreeing with them on others.... Doesn't make me want to avoid them! Surely everyone has their own opinion and as adults that should be accepted! Now who wants a shag "ME! | |||
"Im in with the bricks since almost day one lol Fab hasnt changed its the people who have changed in my opinion . It seems to be the long standing members who have the most complaints about the site just now . You use the site and take from it what you want no one is going to make it any better for you so you have to change what your doing to make it the way you really want it . If you dont like posts n the forums then ignore the forums If you dont like chat then ignore it Everyday now we have posts from people asking has fab changed is it more a social site than a swinging site the answer is NO its not its a swinging site always has been always will be,just because people choose to meet socially first does not mean they aint taking it any further as only those people who are ultra discrete know that . With rgards to the forums time and time again people making comments about people licking ass ..for christ sake lighten up its a bit of harmless fun im probably one of the females who make more use of the forums than any other and thats because i really enjoy the forums for some light hearted fun,and believe it or not some people are genuinly nice all the time not just in the forums ..you cant change peoples personality just because you dont like it ....Happy swinging people life far too short for being unhappy "Oh no once again I agree with you jacs... Better stop this or folk will talk | |||
"Im in with the bricks since almost day one lol Fab hasnt changed its the people who have changed in my opinion . It seems to be the long standing members who have the most complaints about the site just now . You use the site and take from it what you want no one is going to make it any better for you so you have to change what your doing to make it the way you really want it . If you dont like posts n the forums then ignore the forums If you dont like chat then ignore it Everyday now we have posts from people asking has fab changed is it more a social site than a swinging site the answer is NO its not its a swinging site always has been always will be,just because people choose to meet socially first does not mean they aint taking it any further as only those people who are ultra discrete know that . With rgards to the forums time and time again people making comments about people licking ass ..for christ sake lighten up its a bit of harmless fun im probably one of the females who make more use of the forums than any other and thats because i really enjoy the forums for some light hearted fun,and believe it or not some people are genuinly nice all the time not just in the forums ..you cant change peoples personality just because you dont like it ....Happy swinging people life far too short for being unhappy "Opinions get termed complaints? Quite often we read of newbies being told, maybe check out the forums,join in, or go in chat get yourself known etc, but if they dont like forums or chat, they should ignore them and say nowt?  | |||
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"Im in with the bricks since almost day one lol Fab hasnt changed its the people who have changed in my opinion . It seems to be the long standing members who have the most complaints about the site just now . You use the site and take from it what you want no one is going to make it any better for you so you have to change what your doing to make it the way you really want it . If you dont like posts n the forums then ignore the forums If you dont like chat then ignore it Everyday now we have posts from people asking has fab changed is it more a social site than a swinging site the answer is NO its not its a swinging site always has been always will be,just because people choose to meet socially first does not mean they aint taking it any further as only those people who are ultra discrete know that . With rgards to the forums time and time again people making comments about people licking ass ..for christ sake lighten up its a bit of harmless fun im probably one of the females who make more use of the forums than any other and thats because i really enjoy the forums for some light hearted fun,and believe it or not some people are genuinly nice all the time not just in the forums ..you cant change peoples personality just because you dont like it ....Happy swinging people life far too short for being unhappy
Opinions get termed complaints?
Quite often we read of newbies being told, maybe check out the forums,join in, or go in chat get yourself known etc, but if they dont like forums or chat, they should ignore them and say nowt? "Thats not what i said so please dont turn it around ,everyone is entitled to their opinions but yes sometimes those opinions do turn into complaining about what happens on here . Far to often peoples opinions get forced down people throats and not in the nicest of ways,say whay you have to but not at the cost of trying to belitle others in an open forum . | |||
"Maybe I'm just being blonde but I don't understand your last post Aston....if they don't like forums or chat no one is forcing them to use them.. So surely they would just ignore them?? "Im highlighting the contradiction of the advice, "go in chat, try the forums" but we prefer it if you say nowt if they dont appeal to you ? | |||
"Maybe I'm just being blonde but I don't understand your last post Aston....if they don't like forums or chat no one is forcing them to use them.. So surely they would just ignore them??
Im highlighting the contradiction of the advice, "go in chat, try the forums" but we prefer it if you say nowt if they dont appeal to you ?"Ah got you..... I don't think that's how it is at all, as has been said everyone has their own opinions and are free to express them, but it is a forum so you can't expect everyone to agree with what's said .... More newbies means more varied opinions and that's surely a good thing? | |||
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"Maybe I'm just being blonde but I don't understand your last post Aston....if they don't like forums or chat no one is forcing them to use them.. So surely they would just ignore them??
Im highlighting the contradiction of the advice, "go in chat, try the forums" but we prefer it if you say nowt if they dont appeal to you ?"My own advice to people is join in with forums,chat, socials and the fun elements, i wouldnt say if you dont like a comment then dont post but what i would say is think before you post because far to often on here its not the comments that people are offended by but the person posting the comments and thats where the problem lies really . | |||
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"Lets get fab back to being fab,, thats the title of this thread. Think before you post, i agree with that totally. We had a lovely example of that simply not happening the other day, there was a thread that was litteraly un-understandable, yet it gained various responses. Yet how often do we see a genuine ask for advice/opinion by someone (quite often new to forums) and it sits for days with zero input. I dont understand that personally." If I see a new thread by a newbie I always read it. Sometimes I post on it, sometimes I don't. I've even been know to reply privately as I've felt that was more appropriate. I only found the forums in the new year although I've been on fab for a couple of years but I am always willing to answer people's questions and offer advice if I'm asked for it. | |||
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" If I see a new thread by a newbie I always read it. Sometimes I post on it, sometimes I don't. I've even been know to reply privately as I've felt that was more appropriate. I only found the forums in the new year although I've been on fab for a couple of years but I am always willing to answer people's questions and offer advice if I'm asked for it. "I agree, sometime a private reply is far more appropriate in some instances. | |||
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"Seems to me that a lot of these kinds of threads just get turned into slagging ofthe regular forum posters...... I personally only post on threads that I have something to say about, it's hardly constructive to post on things I don't know about..... And if that's the case and they have no replies why don't you reply to them if it's bothering you? "Just as you say, it may be an ask about something i know nothing about,therefore i dont respond, find it hard to believe that amongst hundreds of us, nobody can likewise respond though. | |||
"Fab is a swinging site nothing has changed its the same as when it started ..what I do think has changed is that there seems to be alot more people thinking its insantshag.com and kick off when It becomes apparent that its not what they thought ..the forums and status updates are awash with it ...fab is what u make it I for 1 love fab and will be staying for hopefullly a long time yet "Phew thank god...... I've no had ma shag yet | |||
"Seems to me that a lot of these kinds of threads just get turned into slagging ofthe regular forum posters...... I personally only post on threads that I have something to say about, it's hardly constructive to post on things I don't know about..... And if that's the case and they have no replies why don't you reply to them if it's bothering you?
Just as you say, it may be an ask about something i know nothing about,therefore i dont respond, find it hard to believe that amongst hundreds of us, nobody can likewise respond though."I agree but unfortunately neither you nor I can answer for them | |||
" Phew thank god...... I've no had ma shag yet "Oh no need to worry there ...i def wont leave until you do | |||
" Phew thank god...... I've no had ma shag yet
Oh no need to worry there ...i def wont leave until you do "You both been here long enough...get it done!!!!!!!! | |||
" Phew thank god...... I've no had ma shag yet
Oh no need to worry there ...i def wont leave until you do
You both been here long enough...get it done!!!!!!!! "Too many men.... Not enough time | |||
" Phew thank god...... I've no had ma shag yet
Oh no need to worry there ...i def wont leave until you do
You both been here long enough...get it done!!!!!!!!
Too many men.... Not enough time "I'll be quick lmao | |||
" Phew thank god...... I've no had ma shag yet
Oh no need to worry there ...i def wont leave until you do
You both been here long enough...get it done!!!!!!!! "Yes miss | |||
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" It does seem however that some people take any comment on the standard of the forum as a personal attack on them. " | |||
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"People will use the site as they wish, which is fine. It does seem however that some people take any comment on the standard of the forum as a personal attack on them. " Trust me it does happen on a daily basis on here just because it doesnt happen to you doesnt mean it doesnt go on . | |||
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"I like the colours, shades, variety, difference of all the different types of (ahem) "swingers", even the moaning, bitter, older, fossilized "swingers", & the moaning "swingers". Though I do like the sweet, funny, humorous, witty, positive "swingers". I find myself attracted to their light, their charm, their brilliance - much the way I'm attracted to that type when I look for someone to enjoy a bit of rumpy pumpy with. To be honest I don't tend to go to bed to have a serious, staid, somber discussion on the benefits of swinging. I'm not knocking anyone who does wish to sit online & reminisce about the old days, but I much prefer to use the online medium to find like-minded people who look forward to a positive encounter be that a social or sexual encounter. Happy err "swinging" folks. "
Stands up....my name is Auds
And Im a moany bitter old swinger...
And proud
I am not a "yes" person
And i dont follow the gang.
So Yip...Im proud to be WHO i am and not what either want me to be/Say.
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"If its a personal attack.... Report them..." ohh i never hesitate too xxx | |||
"People will use the site as they wish, which is fine. It does seem however that some people take any comment on the standard of the forum as a personal attack on them. Trust me it does happen on a daily basis on here just because it doesnt happen to you doesnt mean it doesnt go on ." You may need to read my post again. I think we're discussing different things. | |||
" Stands up....my name is Auds And Im a moany bitter old swinger... And proud
I am not a "yes" person
And i dont follow the gang.
So Yip...Im proud to be WHO i am and not what either want me to be/Say.
Xx "Ditto... Except the Auds and moany bitter old swinger part....LOL | |||
"People will use the site as they wish, which is fine. It does seem however that some people take any comment on the standard of the forum as a personal attack on them. " Yes, you see it here on this thread, its subtle granted, but its here. I term it opinion, someone else opts to term it complaining, opinion reads well, "complaining" suddenly makes the person look bad, not fun,miserable etc. | |||
