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I’m so annoyed with this place. 
I honestly thought this was a swingers website, but it appears that it’s mostly just single men trying to find hook ups.
‘Pump and dump’.
I know this isn’t a dating site per se, but surely there’s some genuine people out there?
Or is it just me?
Am feeling so deflated right now ..
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It is what you make of it plus it goes through phases of being more swinger leaning than at others usually depending on if it’s been mentioned in the mainstream media recently which happens on occasion then get a surge of people joining thinking it’s easy pickings on here, then after a bit that dies down again.
Make use of the tools available (filters, block button etc) and be like me and not take any prisoners  and you’ll be grand. |
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I'm sorry to hear you're feeling deflated OP.
This site is for whatever people choose for it to be — be it hookups, FWB/NSA arrangements, swinging, the social aspects, to release their voyeuristic tendencies on Cams, forums and so forth.
It's an all encompassing site where everything is on equal footing.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I’m so annoyed with this place.
I honestly thought this was a swingers website, but it appears that it’s mostly just single men trying to find hook ups.
‘Pump and dump’.
I know this isn’t a dating site per se, but surely there’s some genuine people out there?
Or is it just me?
Am feeling so deflated right now ..
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Sorry you feel this way
There's plenty of genuine people/swingers on here who love the social side just as much as the fun side, even together.
There different groups, some go to clubs, some go to house parties, some go to small and big socials that have been arranged. There socials on here listed for the year and sure there will be more, just keep a look out   |
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"I’m so annoyed with this place.
I honestly thought this was a swingers website, but it appears that it’s mostly just single men trying to find hook ups.
‘Pump and dump’.
I know this isn’t a dating site per se, but surely there’s some genuine people out there?
Or is it just me?
Am feeling so deflated right now ..
Well said, couldn’t agree more. I’m exactly the same and reason I’ve chose not to meet for some time.
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By *xybumWoman 26 weeks ago
East Kilbride |
"I’m so annoyed with this place.
I honestly thought this was a swingers website, but it appears that it’s mostly just single men trying to find hook ups.
‘Pump and dump’.
I know this isn’t a dating site per se, but surely there’s some genuine people out there?
Or is it just me?
Am feeling so deflated right now ..
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Hep op I became disillusioned with fab a while ago too, I just come on for the forums and sometimes going to clubs, why not block single guys for a while and just message the ones you look the like of yourself? |
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By *xybumWoman 26 weeks ago
East Kilbride |
"I’m so annoyed with this place.
I honestly thought this was a swingers website, but it appears that it’s mostly just single men trying to find hook ups.
‘Pump and dump’.
I know this isn’t a dating site per se, but surely there’s some genuine people out there?
Or is it just me?
Am feeling so deflated right now ..
Hep op I became disillusioned with fab a while ago too, I just come on for the forums and sometimes going to clubs, why not block single guys for a while and just message the ones you look the like of yourself?"
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Couldn’t agree with OP more
There are other sites purely for hook ups
People should use them
I will block men /hide profile from time to time as it gets very tedious
I think the amount of time wasters has massively increased over the last few years since covid
It’s a nightmare |
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As said above, I'd agree to just turn off DMs for a bit. They are exhausting and its generally a waste of time. Message the people you're interested in, and if you want to join the swinging scene properly then it's all face to face. Clubs, parties and socials.
I basically call fab social media for swingers. It's far from ideal but everyone is here so I keep up with friends and events using it. The rest happens in real life.
Jigs x |
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"Couldn’t agree with OP more
There are other sites purely for hook ups
People should use them
I will block men /hide profile from time to time as it gets very tedious
I think the amount of time wasters has massively increased over the last few years since covid
It’s a nightmare "
I go with the mindset that fab is for whatever you want it to be. If people are not looking for the same as you then they are not compatible. No need to banish them to other sites |
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By *utzdeepMan 26 weeks ago
aberdeenshire |
"As said above, I'd agree to just turn off DMs for a bit. They are exhausting and its generally a waste of time. Message the people you're interested in, and if you want to join the swinging scene properly then it's all face to face. Clubs, parties and socials.
I basically call fab social media for swingers. It's far from ideal but everyone is here so I keep up with friends and events using it. The rest happens in real life.
Jigs x "
I think this is a great point, more women should reach out. It’s happens just not often. |
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