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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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We're just wondering what success, if any, you couples are having when the male half has permission to meet alone?
We're starting to message women and couples saying that the male half can play alone but either getting ignored or not believed.
Would it be better to set up a single male profile too?
Cheers for any replies.
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As above; we'd ignore.
Your profile is written entirely from the Male POV. Regardless of the solo play for males, you want the profile to read as if we're getting to know both of you.
As for the solo play/permission for Mr, we found it most effective to actually give the username of a solo account belonging to Mrs. That way, any potential meets can drop her a message and know they're talking to her, and I genuinely have permission. Using just the couples account, or a male account is still a little seedy with no proof you actually do have permission to play solo.
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We think it would be pretty difficult. Huge competition with the number of single guys and you add the complication of any meet wondering if you have permission. Reckon this is more difficult than just being a single guy and that’s hard enough. |
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I (Mrs) have played with a few men from couples (only when mrs has been fully aware)
Normally as i’ve met the couple at clubs/events
As long as everyone is in the know it’s fine, I won’t sneak around that’s just asking for trouble
but i know know a few couples profiles where they play solo via couple account |
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By *ACOLCouple 39 weeks ago
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"As above; we'd ignore.
Your profile is written entirely from the Male POV. Regardless of the solo play for males, you want the profile to read as if we're getting to know both of you.
As for the solo play/permission for Mr, we found it most effective to actually give the username of a solo account belonging to Mrs. That way, any potential meets can drop her a message and know they're talking to her, and I genuinely have permission. Using just the couples account, or a male account is still a little seedy with no proof you actually do have permission to play solo.
N x"
Great idea to be fair.
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