So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing? |
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Not all clubs do the dress down thing at all events. Think what he would wear to a good quality vanilla club or on a dinner date.
Clean (you would think people would know this - not always!), tidy and groomed are generally the preferred boxes to tick.
We ladies make a hell of an effort, the men should too.
Personally I’m a sucker for a smart suit, funky waistcoats and ties, a bit of personality, suits don’t have to be plain! There are some amazing colourful and stylish ones available in various fabrics. Something tactile tends to go down well too. |
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"I saw someone in a restaurant today.
Super skinny crop trousers smart shoes & tight shirt. Oooft was super sexy look.  "
in my younger days I used to wear my brothers white shirts ironed stiff wee belt sexy heels, |
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"All very good suggestions, is there anything you enjoy seeing a man in once the suit/shirt and tie comes off? Or is just a nice pair of boxers is enough?"
I'm sure most women on here live in hope that the men's underwear isn't stained.. Lol
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"All very good suggestions, is there anything you enjoy seeing a man in once the suit/shirt and tie comes off? Or is just a nice pair of boxers is enough?"
Did you see the male dancers from Spain on Eurovision this year. Maybe your good man would be interested in this get up. |
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers."
We are of the same opinion. Dress down lingerie night, woman have all the options including heels, for men it's a boxer type thing and a non flattering flip flip, slider or worse, Croc...
The moment you deviate from the norm, it puts the majority off, as it comes across a bi/gay.
New boxers are the basic, but if you want to go a little left field love honey do a range of sheer, wetlook and lace boxers/briefs. You could venture to the butt lift shorts or jockstrap, but that may be to much.
I have added a sheer man's shirt to change it up before.
Could also go goth or fetish route with a fishnet top, or leather/latex boxers.
Can't help much with stylish footwear. I'm still working on a solution to thr problem, hate flip flops, sliders and crocs.
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"We are of the same opinion. Dress down lingerie night, woman have all the options including heels, for men it's a boxer type thing and a non flattering flip flip, slider or worse, Croc...
The moment you deviate from the norm, it puts the majority off, as it comes across a bi/gay.
New boxers are the basic, but if you want to go a little left field love honey do a range of sheer, wetlook and lace boxers/briefs. You could venture to the butt lift shorts or jockstrap, but that may be to much.
I have added a sheer man's shirt to change it up before.
Could also go goth or fetish route with a fishnet top, or leather/latex boxers.
Can't help much with stylish footwear. I'm still working on a solution to thr problem, hate flip flops, sliders and crocs.
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You've hit the nail on the head here! There are so many options when it comes to lingerie for women but J doesn't want to give off the wrong impression by wearing something that is associated more with the gay community as he doesn't swing that way.
He was thinking of harnesses in particular as he likes how they look but again, it has certain connotations. |
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"We are of the same opinion. Dress down lingerie night, woman have all the options including heels, for men it's a boxer type thing and a non flattering flip flip, slider or worse, Croc...
The moment you deviate from the norm, it puts the majority off, as it comes across a bi/gay.
New boxers are the basic, but if you want to go a little left field love honey do a range of sheer, wetlook and lace boxers/briefs. You could venture to the butt lift shorts or jockstrap, but that may be to much.
I have added a sheer man's shirt to change it up before.
Could also go goth or fetish route with a fishnet top, or leather/latex boxers.
Can't help much with stylish footwear. I'm still working on a solution to thr problem, hate flip flops, sliders and crocs.
You've hit the nail on the head here! There are so many options when it comes to lingerie for women but J doesn't want to give off the wrong impression by wearing something that is associated more with the gay community as he doesn't swing that way.
He was thinking of harnesses in particular as he likes how they look but again, it has certain connotations."
More the look of a Bavarian beer drinker lol .  |
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"All very good suggestions, is there anything you enjoy seeing a man in once the suit/shirt and tie comes off? Or is just a nice pair of boxers is enough?"
Straight jacket & ball gag ?  |
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing?"
Attending a club or party, suppose depends on exactly what it is I'm going too but could be smart casual or smart dressed.
I cant say what I wear is sexy, what I wear makes me feel good so hoepfully it has the desired effect.  |
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing?
Attending a club or party, suppose depends on exactly what it is I'm going too but could be smart casual or smart dressed.
I cant say what I wear is sexy, what I wear makes me feel good so hoepfully it has the desired effect. "
I think thats key to being sexy !! Being comfotable in what ur wearing, and its different for everyone.
Different shaped people look good in different things, but its rhe confidence the ooze too !! Was at after 8 one night underwear night and there was a bigger lass there ( much like me) she had this baby doll thing on and dam could not keep my eyes off her she just ooozed sexy !!!
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing?
Attending a club or party, suppose depends on exactly what it is I'm going too but could be smart casual or smart dressed.
I cant say what I wear is sexy, what I wear makes me feel good so hoepfully it has the desired effect.
I think thats key to being sexy !! Being comfotable in what ur wearing, and its different for everyone.
Different shaped people look good in different things, but its rhe confidence the ooze too !! Was at after 8 one night underwear night and there was a bigger lass there ( much like me) she had this baby doll thing on and dam could not keep my eyes off her she just ooozed sexy !!!
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Agreed, if comfortable and makes you feel good, there will be an aura of confidence, not over baring but enough that when they are in the room, the rest knows.
I'm like that when I enter the room a big 6ft 1, powerful, sexy lad walking into the room, (in my mind), everyone just looks in silence watching me, but then I fecking realize the toilet paper is stuck to my shoe for everyone to see
DAMG  |
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing?
Attending a club or party, suppose depends on exactly what it is I'm going too but could be smart casual or smart dressed.
I cant say what I wear is sexy, what I wear makes me feel good so hoepfully it has the desired effect.
I think thats key to being sexy !! Being comfotable in what ur wearing, and its different for everyone.
Different shaped people look good in different things, but its rhe confidence the ooze too !! Was at after 8 one night underwear night and there was a bigger lass there ( much like me) she had this baby doll thing on and dam could not keep my eyes off her she just ooozed sexy !!!
Agreed, if comfortable and makes you feel good, there will be an aura of confidence, not over baring but enough that when they are in the room, the rest knows.
I'm like that when I enter the room a big 6ft 1, powerful, sexy lad walking into the room, (in my mind), everyone just looks in silence watching me, but then I fecking realize the toilet paper is stuck to my shoe for everyone to see
DAMG "
Or they are looking at your clothes because you haven’t removed the labels |
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing?
Attending a club or party, suppose depends on exactly what it is I'm going too but could be smart casual or smart dressed.
I cant say what I wear is sexy, what I wear makes me feel good so hoepfully it has the desired effect.
I think thats key to being sexy !! Being comfotable in what ur wearing, and its different for everyone.
Different shaped people look good in different things, but its rhe confidence the ooze too !! Was at after 8 one night underwear night and there was a bigger lass there ( much like me) she had this baby doll thing on and dam could not keep my eyes off her she just ooozed sexy !!!
Agreed, if comfortable and makes you feel good, there will be an aura of confidence, not over baring but enough that when they are in the room, the rest knows.
I'm like that when I enter the room a big 6ft 1, powerful, sexy lad walking into the room, (in my mind), everyone just looks in silence watching me, but then I fecking realize the toilet paper is stuck to my shoe for everyone to see
DAMG
Or they are looking at your clothes because you haven’t removed the labels "
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I need to labels, they all have my name and address printed on them so i can be pointed in the right direction to home |
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing?
Attending a club or party, suppose depends on exactly what it is I'm going too but could be smart casual or smart dressed.
I cant say what I wear is sexy, what I wear makes me feel good so hoepfully it has the desired effect.
I think thats key to being sexy !! Being comfotable in what ur wearing, and its different for everyone.
Different shaped people look good in different things, but its rhe confidence the ooze too !! Was at after 8 one night underwear night and there was a bigger lass there ( much like me) she had this baby doll thing on and dam could not keep my eyes off her she just ooozed sexy !!!
Agreed, if comfortable and makes you feel good, there will be an aura of confidence, not over baring but enough that when they are in the room, the rest knows.
I'm like that when I enter the room a big 6ft 1, powerful, sexy lad walking into the room, (in my mind), everyone just looks in silence watching me, but then I fecking realize the toilet paper is stuck to my shoe for everyone to see
DAMG "
Or its yer skirt tucked into yer knickers (not you personally) well maybe it is  |
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"So J was recently thinking about what he could wear that counted as sexy clothing, especially if we were attending a club. There seems to be a million different options for sexy lingerie/outfits for women but when it comes to men all that comes to mind is a nice pair of boxers.
Guys, what's your go-to when dressing sexy? Do you have the same struggle?
Ladies, is there anything in particular that you love to see men wearing?
Attending a club or party, suppose depends on exactly what it is I'm going too but could be smart casual or smart dressed.
I cant say what I wear is sexy, what I wear makes me feel good so hoepfully it has the desired effect.
I think thats key to being sexy !! Being comfotable in what ur wearing, and its different for everyone.
Different shaped people look good in different things, but its rhe confidence the ooze too !! Was at after 8 one night underwear night and there was a bigger lass there ( much like me) she had this baby doll thing on and dam could not keep my eyes off her she just ooozed sexy !!!
Agreed, if comfortable and makes you feel good, there will be an aura of confidence, not over baring but enough that when they are in the room, the rest knows.
I'm like that when I enter the room a big 6ft 1, powerful, sexy lad walking into the room, (in my mind), everyone just looks in silence watching me, but then I fecking realize the toilet paper is stuck to my shoe for everyone to see
DAMG
Or they are looking at your clothes because you haven’t removed the labels . pmslllll
I need to labels, they all have my name and address printed on them so i can be pointed in the right direction to home "
The last time I had my name on labels was school holiday to Dunoon in the 80s I’m sure your not that bad at finding your way home |
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Anything considered smart casual usually does the trick. Chinos/nice jeans/shirt/tshirt. If I'm going a bit spicier, maybe a white shirt and black leather harness over the top.
Basically, just go dressed like you would to a really nice restaurant!
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no underwear no top just the jeans 