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By *ee19 OP Man 39 weeks ago
Elgin |
New to this scene. I want to try out sex clubs. I'm a 37 year old single male and straight as an arrow. Although I'm very anxious to actually go. I don't know what holds me back whether it's because I'm new or will be alone or both.
Anyone have any advice to overcome? Thanks in advance. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Am sure alot of single guys feel the same even single females, maybe try get to a social and meet people before hand, theres usually stuff on the forums about people meeting up for a drink before heading to a club |
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By *uietbloke67Man 39 weeks ago
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"New to this scene. I want to try out sex clubs. I'm a 37 year old single male and straight as an arrow. Although I'm very anxious to actually go. I don't know what holds me back whether it's because I'm new or will be alone or both.
Anyone have any advice to overcome? Thanks in advance. "
Go in. |
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By *ife2010Couple 39 weeks ago
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Shower!
Shave!
Brush your teeth!
Deodorant!
Clean pants!
Aftershave, not too much.
Remember when you are talking to a couple that he is as important than her.
Not all encounters will lead to sex but we all talk, you might not be right for us but you may be right for others.
Drop that ‘straight as an arrow’ nonsense! You’re going to meet people that aren’t. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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As above, we go in with no expectations other than have a good general night out with blethers. Anything else is a bonus, don’t put too much pressure on yourself.
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"New to this scene. I want to try out sex clubs. I'm a 37 year old single male and straight as an arrow. Although I'm very anxious to actually go. I don't know what holds me back whether it's because I'm new or will be alone or both.
Anyone have any advice to overcome? Thanks in advance. "
Clubs are not for me but been to Cjs, the social scene is brilliant and everyone is so nice, friendly, chat and make you feel welcome. Go with no expectations and treat everyone with respect. Be clean, presentable and I'm sure you will have a blast, socially or even asked to join in for some fun
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By *ee19 OP Man 39 weeks ago
Elgin |
Thank you for all the advice so far folks.
Yes, I think that's maybe it. I think of it as a different night outing and something new putting pressure on myself. If I think as you mentioned, it maybe is just that (: |
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By *eebzMan 39 weeks ago
Falkirk |
"Thank you for all the advice so far folks.
Yes, I think that's maybe it. I think of it as a different night outing and something new putting pressure on myself. If I think as you mentioned, it maybe is just that (: "
I was much the same mate,get yourself booked up and go for it,it is nerve racking attending yourself for the first time but once you getting chatting and socialising with likeminded people you will have a blast
I’ve been to CJs in Glasgow and AD in Edinburgh and the staff at both places were very friendly and welcoming. |
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Best thing I can suggest is, update profile. Have a bit more to say about you. Chat to people and try and get to one of the socials if possible.
The clubs can fill up quite fast and read the FAQs they have.
Find out if others are foing on certain dates and arrange to meet up prior and chat about things.
If you are polite and follow the rules you can't go wrong. But don't expect sex. If it happens it's a bonus. |
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