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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???   "
How do you seduce the male counterparts you're interested in?
Genuinely this thought is only mine (I legit cannot be fucked making any sort of effort here or elsewhere when I can get what I want anyways why am I going to chase? What's worth chasing? ) I do love forums here though. |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers??? "
It’s a sign of the times everyone wants it RFN no patience to attract or entice any more . Fast food fast fashion everyone wants things right now if not yesterday .
Anyway FAF ?  |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
Oh a conversation would be nice. Ach, it’s how it goes I guess."
You’re rather good at engaging in a blether, no? |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
How do you seduce the male counterparts you're interested in?
Genuinely this thought is only mine (I legit cannot be fucked making any sort of effort here or elsewhere when I can get what I want anyways why am I going to chase? What's worth chasing? ) I do love forums here though."
Hmmm two part answer…
How do I seduce??? I’ve always found conversation, flirting, the verbal exchange of wit … which sounds dry but… wit, cheek, banter on both parts leads to seduction.
If you “can’t be fucked” then dunno what you mean, “what’s worth chasing” only you can decide that. Good you love the forums though… who knows where they can lead  |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
It’s a sign of the times everyone wants it RFN no patience to attract or entice any more . Fast food fast fashion everyone wants things right now if not yesterday .
Anyway FAF ? "
Think you nailed that there Steph and I always Fancy A Fishsupper |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
It’s a sign of the times everyone wants it RFN no patience to attract or entice any more . Fast food fast fashion everyone wants things right now if not yesterday .
Anyway FAF ?
Think you nailed that there Steph and I always Fancy A Fishsupper "
Fish supper? I'm in, but my local chippy is shut now...
Quite agree by the way, it used to be the case that my eloquence and witty repartee were sufficient to begin the chase and have a bit of a laugh with someone or someones, but these days... Either I've totally lost the ability to converse with other intelligent life forms, or there's a dearth of them available...
Probably me tbh.  |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
It’s a sign of the times everyone wants it RFN no patience to attract or entice any more . Fast food fast fashion everyone wants things right now if not yesterday .
Anyway FAF ?
Think you nailed that there Steph and I always Fancy A Fishsupper "
FAM I meant  |
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"OK nothings personal again but what yours effort in male counterparts you're interested in ? Wait for a message ?"
No im happy to start a conversation with someone and have many times. To be honest it was a lighthearted comment intended to inspire some chat here as it seems rather dead these days… |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
It’s a sign of the times everyone wants it RFN no patience to attract or entice any more . Fast food fast fashion everyone wants things right now if not yesterday .
Anyway FAF ?
Think you nailed that there Steph and I always Fancy A Fishsupper
FAM I meant "
 still think a fish supper sounds good tbh |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
This isn't a Pink Floyd thread?"
Hahaha feel free to converse on any topic you like |
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I’ve spent a whole car journey being teased by words by the guy I’m dating. He really knows how to push the right buttons. I can give as good as I get and it definitely made for a lot of fun when we did finally get to play.
Seducing the mind is definitely a huge turn on for both of us. |
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"I’ve spent a whole car journey being teased by words by the guy I’m dating. He really knows how to push the right buttons. I can give as good as I get and it definitely made for a lot of fun when we did finally get to play.
Seducing the mind is definitely a huge turn on for both of us. "
Sounds like you have a great connection, that definitely makes a difference  |
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I don't think conversation is dieing out there just seems to be less effort put in from certain folk. And judging by the messages my wife gets there's a severe lack of imagination. Personally I love a good chat and flirt doesn't necessarily mean thers going to be a meet but it's atleast a start. |
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"I understand I seem like a dick I'm just asking your personal effort
No probs, I’ve already answered you in the above reply… no comment on the dick bit "
Definitely a dick. However I would like to apologise for the replys to this thread last night sorry |
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"I don't think conversation is dieing out there just seems to be less effort put in from certain folk. And judging by the messages my wife gets there's a severe lack of imagination. Personally I love a good chat and flirt doesn't necessarily mean thers going to be a meet but it's atleast a start."
Agreed there and kinda my thoughts too |
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"I understand I seem like a dick I'm just asking your personal effort
No probs, I’ve already answered you in the above reply… no comment on the dick bit
Definitely a dick. However I would like to apologise for the replys to this thread last night sorry "
Aww thanks, that’s lovely of you and definitely NOT dickish  |
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Off the back of 2 fantastic meets where the conversation flowed, great eye contact and no awkward silences. It helps when the person opposite you is very attractive, there is some light flirting and touching.
It also helps if you can chat for Britain and smile. |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
It’s a sign of the times everyone wants it RFN no patience to attract or entice any more . Fast food fast fashion everyone wants things right now if not yesterday .
Anyway FAF ?
Think you nailed that there Steph and I always Fancy A Fishsupper
Fish supper? I'm in, but my local chippy is shut now...
Quite agree by the way, it used to be the case that my eloquence and witty repartee were sufficient to begin the chase and have a bit of a laugh with someone or someones, but these days... Either I've totally lost the ability to converse with other intelligent life forms, or there's a dearth of them available...
Probably me tbh. "
I agree totally, I’m sure it’s not you at all |
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"Off the back of 2 fantastic meets where the conversation flowed, great eye contact and no awkward silences. It helps when the person opposite you is very attractive, there is some light flirting and touching.
It also helps if you can chat for Britain and smile. "
A cheeky smile and a blether is very engaging |
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There’s a difference between being able to have a great conversation in person and having any idea what to say in the forum, or even more difficult that all important first message to someone who’s caught your eye on here. |
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There’s a moment when you’re just fed up with “yeah” and “sure” answers to a paragraph or two. Had some very decent convos here in the past but 95% of them feel like talking to Kevin Malone when he discovered that using less words is better. Just amplified.
When reading some folk lists of 80 requirements including “don’t just say ‘hi’ and expect an answer”, these profiles more often than not reply with stuff that can’t be considered a sentence. So yes, after a while you feel like putting effort in is pointless. |
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"There’s a difference between being able to have a great conversation in person and having any idea what to say in the forum, or even more difficult that all important first message to someone who’s caught your eye on here. "
Fully agree buddy. I moved away from the lounge because it just takes one to misunderstand you and then their pal joins in, the white knights gallop in then the whole manbashing brigade come out in full on the bandwagon and you're fooked.
People 'get me' f2f but on here, doubtful. Same for loads I guess. |
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"Off the back of 2 fantastic meets where the conversation flowed, great eye contact and no awkward silences. It helps when the person opposite you is very attractive, there is some light flirting and touching.
It also helps if you can chat for Britain and smile.
A cheeky smile and a blether is very engaging "
Agree. It always helps if the messaging goes well and there is some light flirting before the meet. I find that of there is a little cheekiness before, then the social goes really well. Chemistry is irreplaceable and you know you have it fairly early on in my experience.
If not, pull out phone, pretend you are needed and pay the bill telling the other person you have someone to save. Luckily it's never come to that.
*Crosses fingers |
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By *ibliosWoman 30 weeks ago
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I get some people aren't always great 'in print' and can be different in person, but to be honest if the chat is dull or there's little or no effort it doesn't inspire me to want to meet someone one on one!
The amount of "how r u" around here suggests while perhaps not lost, it's definitely under threat of extinction! |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers??? "
Am no asking to be wined and dined, but see these, "come suck my dick in 20 minutes" like you do such a thing and are available as a sex doll av not blocked all categories nobody can message me unless I message them thank fook |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers??? "
I've been known now and then to keep a conversation going that extra distance
The younger ones right enough, ffs now that's a different story  |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
I've been known now and then to keep a conversation going that extra distance
The younger ones right enough, ffs now that's a different story "
Plenty of convos with you |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
I've been known now and then to keep a conversation going that extra distance
The younger ones right enough, ffs now that's a different story
Plenty of convos with you "
Yeah I know, fecking murder when you try to shut me up |
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Seeing the messages that some my female friends get frightening.... you would think some of the accounts were a parody.
I like seeing good manners, wee joke and a wee flirt and talk to people like people and not an object.
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"There’s a difference between being able to have a great conversation in person and having any idea what to say in the forum, or even more difficult that all important first message to someone who’s caught your eye on here. "
I agree the forums can be daunting but with a little effort I do think some great connections can be made |
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"I get some people aren't always great 'in print' and can be different in person, but to be honest if the chat is dull or there's little or no effort it doesn't inspire me to want to meet someone one on one!
The amount of "how r u" around here suggests while perhaps not lost, it's definitely under threat of extinction!"
Yes this is very true and as someone else said maybe part of the whole online thing. Doesn’t explain the crudeness you get sometimes though. |
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"… of conversation? Surely it’s the precurser to seduction? Seems a lost art these days. Thoughts dear fabbers???
I've been known now and then to keep a conversation going that extra distance
The younger ones right enough, ffs now that's a different story
Plenty of convos with you
Yeah I know, fecking murder when you try to shut me up "
She’s doing well if she can you’re a lovely blether
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"I lament at the lost årt of written conversation on here. The joy attributed to exchanging some wonderfully thought-provoking words, keeping two people enthused and excited."
Hello dear Nero, you must be Fab’s best example of how to charm and converse here  |
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"Seeing the messages that some my female friends get frightening.... you would think some of the accounts were a parody.
I like seeing good manners, wee joke and a wee flirt and talk to people like people and not an object.
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Hallelujah to that |
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"I lament at the lost årt of written conversation on here. The joy attributed to exchanging some wonderfully thought-provoking words, keeping two people enthused and excited.
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Hello dear Nero, you must be Fab’s best example of how to charm and converse here "
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Worst of all possible responses I've had to an in-progress conversation?
"lol"
It's a total chat killer (and I'm old enough to still think txtspk is barely a form of communication anyway).
I think I'd have preferred to be told to eff off... |
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"Worst of all possible responses I've had to an in-progress conversation?
"lol"
It's a total chat killer (and I'm old enough to still think txtspk is barely a form of communication anyway).
I think I'd have preferred to be told to eff off... "
Lol |
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"Worst of all possible responses I've had to an in-progress conversation?
"lol"
It's a total chat killer (and I'm old enough to still think txtspk is barely a form of communication anyway).
I think I'd have preferred to be told to eff off...
Lol"
Eff off. |
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"Worst of all possible responses I've had to an in-progress conversation?
"lol"
It's a total chat killer (and I'm old enough to still think txtspk is barely a form of communication anyway).
I think I'd have preferred to be told to eff off...
Lol
Eff off. "
Fuck aye! That's the spirit! |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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This, plus when you're trying to drive the conversation, ask questions etc and all you get back is one word answers or statements that don't naturally drive the conversation forward. |
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"Hard to initiate conversation with someone with a hidden profile 
Hahaha surely one can engage in from the forum as an introduction … IF someone’s hidden
Nah, that's stalker tactics "
Nah it’s keep the “faf” messages down tactics |
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By *evils PuddingCouple 30 weeks ago
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"Hard to initiate conversation with someone with a hidden profile
Hahaha surely one can engage in from the forum as an introduction … IF someone’s hidden
Nah, that's stalker tactics
Nah it’s keep the “faf” messages down tactics "
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"Hard to initiate conversation with someone with a hidden profile
Do you want to hear from our Graham for a quick reminder?"
He's gorra lorra lorra stuff to remind yer of
(I'm aware this reference proves how old I really am ) |
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Tremendous thread and top marks to the OP - loving your work ??
It’s not lost on me that the definition of a conversation with a new person you don’t know is now extended to tapping into a daft wee electronic device and second guessing how it will be construed on the other side.
That said - it’s probably a bit more effective at being demonstrably erudite than slavvering shouted pish into someone’s ear at 2am whilst your shoes are stuck to the beer sodden floor and only picking every fourth word of your intended ‘conversation partner’ and attempting to move your body in any manner that suggests you obtain any sort of rhythm.
Progress.
(And almost as if to prove my point my original post contained s-laver rather than slavver, but was banned as can’t say a word containing s-lave. I give up ??…..). |
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