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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them. "
lol, don't get pent up on it, it happens, things change, views change, there maybe other factors.
if someone is really interested then they will continue to chat, if someone blocks then that means they do not want to chat any longer, that's all.
Just enjoy yourself and if you find what your looking for then its all good   |
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By *ibliosWoman 32 weeks ago
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At least she didn't hurl a bunch of insults and obscenities and *then* block you (presumably on the assumption you'd reply in kind given the chance) - it's a fairly common MO hereabouts so I'd say take it as a win! |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple "
You should have started with that.
So why make the post?
She just said you were not for her and then just blocked you. That's absolutely fine for her and for you  |
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"lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
You should have started with that.
So why make the post?
She just said you were not for her and then just blocked you. That's absolutely fine for her and for you "
He said all she had to do what say that .. she didn't actually sat that to him if you read what he had said |
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them.
lol, don't get pent up on it, it happens, things change, views change, there maybe other factors.
if someone is really interested then they will continue to chat, if someone blocks then that means they do not want to chat any longer, that's all.
Just enjoy yourself and if you find what your looking for then its all good "
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"lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
You should have started with that.
So why make the post?
She just said you were not for her and then just blocked you. That's absolutely fine for her and for you
He said all she had to do what say that .. she didn't actually sat that to him if you read what he had said "
No she's made it simplistic.
This is a sex site to some or a swinging site to others or both but she says he's handsome but not for her, and i take it she's not knocking him or being negative, he's just not for her, so to save all the hassle, which probably would have happened in the future she just blocked.
This happens a lot and has happened to me but being blocked because your not for them is, i think, totally fine. so thats what I meant by, why make the post us, this should be known as standard |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Try not to take it to heart.
I'm never offensive but get blocked all the time. If I'm not to someone's taste ( in my case I'm bi and looking for a MF couple) then thats fine. If its mid conversation then I simply view it as a bullet dodged. Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks. There's also a distinct lack of humour on here at times when it comes to messaging. In contrast to the forums which can be a hoot
Its a bit of fun being on fab. Some folk need to get the poker out their arse.
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Try not to take it to heart.
I'm never offensive but get blocked all the time. If I'm not to someone's taste ( in my case I'm bi and looking for a MF couple) then thats fine. If its mid conversation then I simply view it as a bullet dodged. Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks. There's also a distinct lack of humour on here at times when it comes to messaging. In contrast to the forums which can be a hoot
Its a bit of fun being on fab. Some folk need to get the poker out their arse.
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What ever clubs have people with pokers up their ass, then I aint going, feck that. I have enough hassle telling people that cucumbers and bananas wont hurt them   |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I honestly don't get why folk get so wound up by a block , its a stranger that has zero bearing in your life ,it's better to block than to drag something out that's no going anywhere , unfortunately alot of women get abuse when they say no thanks , or they're still messaging regardless of the no thanks , there's alot of reasons why someone blocks doesn't necessarily mean that reasons bad just that they lose interest and it's easier to block than it is to explain . I'd say take it as it is and move along to the next person of interest . |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"I honestly don't get why folk get so wound up by a block , its a stranger that has zero bearing in your life ,it's better to block than to drag something out that's no going anywhere , unfortunately alot of women get abuse when they say no thanks , or they're still messaging regardless of the no thanks , there's alot of reasons why someone blocks doesn't necessarily mean that reasons bad just that they lose interest and it's easier to block than it is to explain . I'd say take it as it is and move along to the next person of interest . "
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"I honestly don't get why folk get so wound up by a block , its a stranger that has zero bearing in your life ,it's better to block than to drag something out that's no going anywhere , unfortunately alot of women get abuse when they say no thanks , or they're still messaging regardless of the no thanks , there's alot of reasons why someone blocks doesn't necessarily mean that reasons bad just that they lose interest and it's easier to block than it is to explain . I'd say take it as it is and move along to the next person of interest . "
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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" Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks.
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It's nothing to do with being thick , I always say how guys get the raw end of the deal on the site , but you need to see it from a womans point of view aswell it is easier to block than constantly have to defend themselves while being called fat slag , a whore, a slut , ive been shamed because I've got kids ,told my fanny must be rancid , be like throwing a link up a close .. that's just a few of the highlights of the names women are called daily because they either change their mind about someone and say no thanks . |
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"I honestly don't get why folk get so wound up by a block , its a stranger that has zero bearing in your life ,it's better to block than to drag something out that's no going anywhere , unfortunately alot of women get abuse when they say no thanks , or they're still messaging regardless of the no thanks , there's alot of reasons why someone blocks doesn't necessarily mean that reasons bad just that they lose interest and it's easier to block than it is to explain . I'd say take it as it is and move along to the next person of interest .
See if I didn't love you so much, I'd block you and take ma pal Cheesy fur a pint "
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"I honestly don't get why folk get so wound up by a block , its a stranger that has zero bearing in your life ,it's better to block than to drag something out that's no going anywhere , unfortunately alot of women get abuse when they say no thanks , or they're still messaging regardless of the no thanks , there's alot of reasons why someone blocks doesn't necessarily mean that reasons bad just that they lose interest and it's easier to block than it is to explain . I'd say take it as it is and move along to the next person of interest .
Hallebloominlujah!!! "
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Try not to take it to heart.
I'm never offensive but get blocked all the time. If I'm not to someone's taste ( in my case I'm bi and looking for a MF couple) then thats fine. If its mid conversation then I simply view it as a bullet dodged. Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks. There's also a distinct lack of humour on here at times when it comes to messaging. In contrast to the forums which can be a hoot
Its a bit of fun being on fab. Some folk need to get the poker out their arse.
What ever clubs have people with pokers up their ass, then I aint going, feck that. I have enough hassle telling people that cucumbers and bananas wont hurt them "
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By *ee69Man 32 weeks ago
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"Try not to take it to heart.
I'm never offensive but get blocked all the time. If I'm not to someone's taste ( in my case I'm bi and looking for a MF couple) then thats fine. If its mid conversation then I simply view it as a bullet dodged. Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks. There's also a distinct lack of humour on here at times when it comes to messaging. In contrast to the forums which can be a hoot
Its a bit of fun being on fab. Some folk need to get the poker out their arse.
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100% m8 all this blocking , ghosting and blanking is just mental it happens all the time , usually after more than s couple messages lol , some nice folk but a lot up there own hole too lol, a have defo learnt I’m too common for most folk lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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" Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks.
It's nothing to do with being thick , I always say how guys get the raw end of the deal on the site , but you need to see it from a womans point of view aswell it is easier to block than constantly have to defend themselves while being called fat slag , a whore, a slut , ive been shamed because I've got kids ,told my fanny must be rancid , be like throwing a link up a close .. that's just a few of the highlights of the names women are called daily because they either change their mind about someone and say no thanks ."
The examples you give are perfectly valid reasons for instantly blocking if not reporting. In fact, there is no such thing as an invalid reason as lets face it, none of is on here are obliged to respond to anyone.
My comment about people being thick is in reference to the original poster, who mentioned being blocked mid conversation. Some folk simply dont have the wherewithal between their ears to end an exchange. Just thank god you are not in a relationship with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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" Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks.
It's nothing to do with being thick , I always say how guys get the raw end of the deal on the site , but you need to see it from a womans point of view aswell it is easier to block than constantly have to defend themselves while being called fat slag , a whore, a slut , ive been shamed because I've got kids ,told my fanny must be rancid , be like throwing a link up a close .. that's just a few of the highlights of the names women are called daily because they either change their mind about someone and say no thanks .
The examples you give are perfectly valid reasons for instantly blocking if not reporting. In fact, there is no such thing as an invalid reason as lets face it, none of is on here are obliged to respond to anyone.
My comment about people being thick is in reference to the original poster, who mentioned being blocked mid conversation. Some folk simply dont have the wherewithal between their ears to end an exchange. Just thank god you are not in a relationship with them. "
It's a one sided reason the op's given there's always 3 sides to every story . I'm not saying he's done or said anything offensive but you never know what rude vile comments someone had to put up with in the mails they've recieved on the site , but even at that surely a block is a no thanks , it's a conversation online , these things happen. It's not the big deal it gets made out to be .. everyone male or female has the right to stop chatting or use their block in whichever way they see fit . But calling folk thick because they potentially want to swerve an awkward exchange . Not every one online has their shit together ,some folk are socially awkward , some folk like tge attention , some folk maybe get bored a bit easily, there can be a number of reason why it's happened each one valid for them . |
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" Some folk are just too thick to say no thanks.
It's nothing to do with being thick , I always say how guys get the raw end of the deal on the site , but you need to see it from a womans point of view aswell it is easier to block than constantly have to defend themselves while being called fat slag , a whore, a slut , ive been shamed because I've got kids ,told my fanny must be rancid , be like throwing a link up a close .. that's just a few of the highlights of the names women are called daily because they either change their mind about someone and say no thanks .
The examples you give are perfectly valid reasons for instantly blocking if not reporting. In fact, there is no such thing as an invalid reason as lets face it, none of is on here are obliged to respond to anyone.
My comment about people being thick is in reference to the original poster, who mentioned being blocked mid conversation. Some folk simply dont have the wherewithal between their ears to end an exchange. Just thank god you are not in a relationship with them.
It's a one sided reason the op's given there's always 3 sides to every story . I'm not saying he's done or said anything offensive but you never know what rude vile comments someone had to put up with in the mails they've recieved on the site , but even at that surely a block is a no thanks , it's a conversation online , these things happen. It's not the big deal it gets made out to be .. everyone male or female has the right to stop chatting or use their block in whichever way they see fit . But calling folk thick because they potentially want to swerve an awkward exchange . Not every one online has their shit together ,some folk are socially awkward , some folk like tge attention , some folk maybe get bored a bit easily, there can be a number of reason why it's happened each one valid for them ."
I get it. I stand by my original point though; some folk are thick. Not all, some.
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"At least she didn't hurl a bunch of insults and obscenities and *then* block you (presumably on the assumption you'd reply in kind given the chance) - it's a fairly common MO hereabouts so I'd say take it as a win!"
This is what I normally get |
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"lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
You should have started with that.
So why make the post?
She just said you were not for her and then just blocked you. That's absolutely fine for her and for you
He said all she had to do what say that .. she didn't actually sat that to him if you read what he had said
No she's made it simplistic.
This is a sex site to some or a swinging site to others or both but she says he's handsome but not for her, and i take it she's not knocking him or being negative, he's just not for her, so to save all the hassle, which probably would have happened in the future she just blocked.
This happens a lot and has happened to me but being blocked because your not for them is, i think, totally fine. so thats what I meant by, why make the post us, this should be known as standard "
She said he's handsome. She didn't say he's not for her.
Anyway OP, wouldn't worry too much about it. Random blocking is very common on here. And personally I very much would prefer that over the time wasting the no shows.
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"lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
You should have started with that.
So why make the post?
She just said you were not for her and then just blocked you. That's absolutely fine for her and for you
He said all she had to do what say that .. she didn't actually sat that to him if you read what he had said
No she's made it simplistic.
This is a sex site to some or a swinging site to others or both but she says he's handsome but not for her, and i take it she's not knocking him or being negative, he's just not for her, so to save all the hassle, which probably would have happened in the future she just blocked.
This happens a lot and has happened to me but being blocked because your not for them is, i think, totally fine. so thats what I meant by, why make the post us, this should be known as standard
She said he's handsome. She didn't say he's not for her.
Anyway OP, wouldn't worry too much about it. Random blocking is very common on here. And personally I very much would prefer that over the time wasting the no shows.
Onwards and upwards! x"
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
You should have started with that.
So why make the post?
She just said you were not for her and then just blocked you. That's absolutely fine for her and for you
He said all she had to do what say that .. she didn't actually sat that to him if you read what he had said
No she's made it simplistic.
This is a sex site to some or a swinging site to others or both but she says he's handsome but not for her, and i take it she's not knocking him or being negative, he's just not for her, so to save all the hassle, which probably would have happened in the future she just blocked.
This happens a lot and has happened to me but being blocked because your not for them is, i think, totally fine. so thats what I meant by, why make the post us, this should be known as standard
She said he's handsome. She didn't say he's not for her.
Anyway OP, wouldn't worry too much about it. Random blocking is very common on here. And personally I very much would prefer that over the time wasting the no shows.
Onwards and upwards! x"
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Read a couple of posts down from original post, he then added the following:
[lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple]
That's why it sounded as if everything was fine but she didn't want to continue so just blocked and sounds to me as if there was no hassle between them both. |
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them. "
"lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple"
There's two things to this post
1. the actual OP's experience in this one exchange of messages with a female.
Both chatted, no nastiness, got on well but female just said that he wasn't for her so to save hassle she just blocked, which the Op needs to realise, on here that it totally fine and should just move on. So to me the OP has had correct answers.
2 the post has grown in cross proposes about blocked in general about what happens in chat exchange like: nasty messages, arguments, not getting on, not for each other etc.. the list goes on and on.
Simplistic things: If you think your having a decent chat but the person is not for you and they become nasty then i think this is great as that person gives you ahead up that they are a tool, so just block. as I said to some this is a sex site, to some this is a swinging site and to some think its both then there's no harm in blocking someone if not for you. The person blocked should not take offence and just move on
That's my take on the 1 part and the 2nd part |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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""All she had to say was you're not my type." That to me means she didn't actually say it. "
Agreed, what I'm meaning is, she didn't want to go any further, so she blocked.
She might have even said those words and still blocked, its the same effect for the OP, so it shouldn't be a big deal to him
she just didn't want to carry on and just blocked |
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them. "
Just get your rubber doll out and move on,these things happen. |
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By *ookie69Man 32 weeks ago
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them. "
Don’t worry about the people who have zero interest,
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them.
lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
There's two things to this post
1. the actual OP's experience in this one exchange of messages with a female.
Both chatted, no nastiness, got on well but female just said that he wasn't for her so to save hassle she just blocked, which the Op needs to realise, on here that it totally fine and should just move on. So to me the OP has had correct answers.
2 the post has grown in cross proposes about blocked in general about what happens in chat exchange like: nasty messages, arguments, not getting on, not for each other etc.. the list goes on and on.
Simplistic things: If you think your having a decent chat but the person is not for you and they become nasty then i think this is great as that person gives you ahead up that they are a tool, so just block. as I said to some this is a sex site, to some this is a swinging site and to some think its both then there's no harm in blocking someone if not for you. The person blocked should not take offence and just move on
That's my take on the 1 part and the 2nd part "
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them. "
unless we are told no one knows why others choose to block just accept that for one reason or another they decided to block and just that .
Don’t worry about those who clearly arnt interested in you and put all your time & effort into those who are |
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them.
lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
There's two things to this post
1. the actual OP's experience in this one exchange of messages with a female.
Both chatted, no nastiness, got on well but female just said that he wasn't for her so to save hassle she just blocked, which the Op needs to realise, on here that it totally fine and should just move on. So to me the OP has had correct answers.
2 the post has grown in cross proposes about blocked in general about what happens in chat exchange like: nasty messages, arguments, not getting on, not for each other etc.. the list goes on and on.
Simplistic things: If you think your having a decent chat but the person is not for you and they become nasty then i think this is great as that person gives you ahead up that they are a tool, so just block. as I said to some this is a sex site, to some this is a swinging site and to some think its both then there's no harm in blocking someone if not for you. The person blocked should not take offence and just move on
That's my take on the 1 part and the 2nd part
Your take on part 1 is still wrong "
Oh fiddlesticks I need to start proofreading twice
1. The actual OP's experience in this one exchange of messages with a female.
Both chatted, no nastiness, got on well but female decided to block without saying why, confusing OP but most of us think that she just didn't want to waste time as he might not be for her, which the Op needs to realise, on here that it totally common and fine and he should just move on. So to me the OP has had correct answers.
Ya fecking dancer if Ive got it right this time
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"I don’t understand why people block you when you’re having a conversation with them. I was just messaging a lady and I was totally respectful in our conversation and suddenly she blocks me? I understand that a lot of times there are guys who are really rude and nasty towards ladies but I’m not one of them.
lol she called me very handsome and we were talking good all she had to say was sorry you’re not for me x simple
There's two things to this post
1. the actual OP's experience in this one exchange of messages with a female.
Both chatted, no nastiness, got on well but female just said that he wasn't for her so to save hassle she just blocked, which the Op needs to realise, on here that it totally fine and should just move on. So to me the OP has had correct answers.
2 the post has grown in cross proposes about blocked in general about what happens in chat exchange like: nasty messages, arguments, not getting on, not for each other etc.. the list goes on and on.
Simplistic things: If you think your having a decent chat but the person is not for you and they become nasty then i think this is great as that person gives you ahead up that they are a tool, so just block. as I said to some this is a sex site, to some this is a swinging site and to some think its both then there's no harm in blocking someone if not for you. The person blocked should not take offence and just move on
That's my take on the 1 part and the 2nd part
Your take on part 1 is still wrong
Oh fiddlesticks I need to start proofreading twice
1. The actual OP's experience in this one exchange of messages with a female.
Both chatted, no nastiness, got on well but female decided to block without saying why, confusing OP but most of us think that she just didn't want to waste time as he might not be for her, which the Op needs to realise, on here that it totally common and fine and he should just move on. So to me the OP has had correct answers.
Ya fecking dancer if Ive got it right this time
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