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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anything"
you should try being married on here and trying to talk to some folk.   |
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anything"
Tell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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often too many messages to even contemplate replying and people put up preferences because thats what they actually are looking for but too many, especially single males, tend to ignore the profile statements |
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"so from what i can tell from this, is that all the females are rude while the males are just wanting to chat lol. kiddin girls, lol"
Or maybe it's guys that mail you without respecting what the ladies want that are rude  |
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"so from what i can tell from this, is that all the females are rude while the males are just wanting to chat lol. kiddin girls, lol"
Don't think you're going the right way to make friends and influence people mate.
Understand it's a bit frustrating for single guys, trust me I KNOW!
But be patient and respect the people on here, that'll get you further than being rude, trust me.
Good luck!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i guess who your messaging may likewise want to do as your doing,,browse the site...message who interests them, and get a wee bit too many messages to deal with to the point they may seem dissmisive. a theory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent."
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!! |
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!"
My whole point is u dont reply to every email or junk mail you recieve at home so why should it be any diffrent on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!My whole point is u dont reply to every email or junk mail you recieve at home so why should it be any diffrent on here?"
And my point is that you opt in to recieve that junk mail at home! But you do opt in to recieve messages on fab when you create a profile! So, my point is, whats junk mail got to do with recieving messages on fab!
Junk mail through the letter box has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do with getting mail on fab!  |
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!My whole point is u dont reply to every email or junk mail you recieve at home so why should it be any diffrent on here?
And my point is that you opt in to recieve that junk mail at home! But you do opt in to recieve messages on fab when you create a profile! So, my point is, whats junk mail got to do with recieving messages on fab!
Junk mail through the letter box has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do with getting mail on fab! "
your obviously not getting my point so i wont bother with my time explaining any further i think its actually self exlainatory  |
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"OK, in my best scouse accent,
"Calm Down, Calm Down".
Ain't we all here to have fun, not bicker over the small stuff?
Anyone up for a shag????
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yeah snog fuck and avoid till next time...oppps wrong post hee hee |
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"OK, in my best scouse accent,
"Calm Down, Calm Down".
Ain't we all here to have fun, not bicker over the small stuff?
Anyone up for a shag????
yeah snog fuck and avoid till next time...oppps wrong post hee hee "
DOH! Blonde moment again??
Or just trying to lighten the mood?
In which case, what makes ye think i'd LET ye fuck me?!?! |
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"OK, in my best scouse accent,
"Calm Down, Calm Down".
Ain't we all here to have fun, not bicker over the small stuff?
Anyone up for a shag????
yeah snog fuck and avoid till next time...oppps wrong post hee hee
DOH! Blonde moment again??
Or just trying to lighten the mood?
In which case, what makes ye think i'd LET ye fuck me?!?!"
eh aint all guys desperate on here opppps silly me thought they were hee hee...kidding of course guys .
Nah ud let me alright lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always try and answer all our msgs even if its a no thanks! I personaly dont see the point in chattin through mail to some1 that we arent going to meet, in sayin that if we are in the chat rooms we chat to people even if we not interested coz its only chat and thats wit the rooms are for  |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!"
Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.
You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.
Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!
Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.
You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.
Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile."
Thats what filters are for. If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them! |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!
Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.
You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.
Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile.
Thats what filters are for. If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them! "
We don't filter as there will be occasional people we chat to outwith our meeting preferences.
If someone clearly hasn't read the profile then they don't deserve a reply. It doesn't bother us as it's their own time they are wasting. And they can waste even more time if they want to whine about it on the forums. |
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" If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them! "
That would only be valid if there were many many more filters than there are just now.
We can't filter by distance, marital status, can / can't accommodate, height, sexuality.......(to name just a few)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dare I ask what these mails contain?
I could have a wee guess at the gist.
Subject "hi"
Body "how's u"/"want to chat"/"what u into"/"nice tits"
?"
you forgot.....
wanna fuck
I'm passing your way in an hour
great profile
great pictures
you're sexy
I'm parked up in my lorry just up the road
what kinks are you into
are those your legs
i know i'm out your age range, but....
you're up late
you're up early
what size are those tits
etc etc etc
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Dare I ask what these mails contain?
I could have a wee guess at the gist.
Subject "hi"
Body "how's u"/"want to chat"/"what u into"/"nice tits"
?
you forgot.....
wanna fuck
I'm passing your way in an hour
great profile
great pictures
you're sexy
I'm parked up in my lorry just up the road
what kinks are you into
are those your legs
i know i'm out your age range, but....
you're up late
you're up early
what size are those tits
etc etc etc
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I think you have captured most of them lol that's why I have over 400+ unread!
Ooops did I just admit that
Plus I look at the profile before the message and if they clearly do not meet what I am looking for, why the hell should I bother? |
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"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.
What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?
NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!
By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!
Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.
You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.
Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile.
Thats what filters are for. If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them! "
I do have filters in place but that doesnt mean that every Tom Dick or Harry that mails me deserves a reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dare I ask what these mails contain?
I could have a wee guess at the gist.
Subject "hi"
Body "how's u"/"want to chat"/"what u into"/"nice tits"
?
you forgot.....
wanna fuck
I'm passing your way in an hour
great profile
great pictures
you're sexy
I'm parked up in my lorry just up the road
what kinks are you into
are those your legs
i know i'm out your age range, but....
you're up late
you're up early
what size are those tits
etc etc etc
I think you have captured most of them lol that's why I have over 400+ unread!
Ooops did I just admit that
Plus I look at the profile before the message and if they clearly do not meet what I am looking for, why the hell should I bother? "
yep.....sometimes it's just plain bloody boring |
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