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I'm struggling to find decent chat on here at the moment which would lead to a meet.
Would you not be better making that decision for yourself. No one here knows you better than you
Should I take time away from the site or what?"
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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TBH..I think there are some on this site who are here just for the thrill of being wanted by loads of guys. It genuinely feels like it's a bit of an ego boost for some.
I had 3 friend requests, after I'd sent an initial intro message to them, then zero! Zip..nadda!! What's THAT all about? Its really really difficult getting ANY kinda chat/rapport going on this site. |
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Always do people don't want chit chat they just want to meet and fuck
Hence why I hardly meet anymore I like some chat befire to check to see if ghey are legit and not an ax murderer and to get a frel for their personality plus I don't get much free time |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Hey I also find it hard to get replys
This site is what it is
Many singles cpls have there own circles
And won't reply
Am leaving when site support runs out |
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By *ibliosWoman 40 weeks ago
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I guess it depends on what you mean by 'decent chat'. A lot of people aren't going to be bothered exchanging messages unless the persin actuwlly meets their preferences for potentially meeting, so not likely to get much / any effort into responses if not. Even then, if the opening gambit is "how r u?", "up to much?", "how you finding it here?" then it doesn't suggest much potential for witty repartee (especially when every other message reads much the same).
Might just be a case of adjusting approach. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I hear ya Biblios, but why start by saying hi, sending a friend request, then ghosting you as soo as you accept. And I DO mean literally ghosting you. Its as though all they're doing is 'collecting' friends. It's weird. |
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"I hear ya Biblios, but why start by saying hi, sending a friend request, then ghosting you as soo as you accept. And I DO mean literally ghosting you. Its as though all they're doing is 'collecting' friends. It's weird. "
Going to go out on a limb here and maybe suggest that the people who sent the friend requests aren’t legit. The last thing we would do if we got an initial message would be to send a friend request immediately.
Or the other explanation could be that they are inundated with messages, if that’s the case then seeing your message in amongst the hundreds might be as easy as you may think. |
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