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It’s not something I use that often but there are 4 profiles on mine
The honeys
Swingingmafia
Naughty nat
Roxy red
All 4 have been messaged at some point and only 1 replied with a “not my type” so I might need to rethink it  |
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"Wouldn’t it be good to know whose hotlist you are on, if any ? Lol"
it’s not important to me although I do get the odd message to say I’m on someone’s hotlist .
I have a couple on mine but not many  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"I would stop using mine if sone folk knew they were on it. I use it as a not list too  "
I use the hotlist just in case I decide to try my luck sometime in the future lol.
To be fair, I delete from list if I’ve messaged and not had positive response. I think I’d be best to clear it out TBH as it’s doubtful anyone will message back a positive response LOL LOL |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"Wouldn’t it be good to know whose hotlist you are on, if any ? Lolit’s not important to me although I do get the odd message to say I’m on someone’s hotlist .
I have a couple on mine but not many "
From a nosy point of view, I’d really love to know if I’m on anyone’s hotlist LOL  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"It’s not something I use that often but there are 4 profiles on mine
The honeys
Swingingmafia
Naughty nat
Roxy red
All 4 have been messaged at some point and only 1 replied with a “not my type” so I might need to rethink it "
Me too, I think I need to clear out my hotlist. Just nosy to find out if I’m on anyone’s hotlist LOL LOL |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"What is this 'hotlist' thing that people talk about?  you mean I ain’t on yours ? Tut tut lol "
I don't need a hotlist to think about someone whom i could look into their eyes and melt  |
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"It’s not something I use that often but there are 4 profiles on mine
The honeys
Swingingmafia
Naughty nat
Roxy red
All 4 have been messaged at some point and only 1 replied with a “not my type” so I might need to rethink it "
I need to catch up with my Fabmin.....I will reply! lovely to know I am on someone's list x |
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By *ags73Man 46 weeks ago
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"Haha never thought of using it that way. Just think it’s a bit weird when people are like you have been on my hotlist for awhile, why not just message? I don’t bite. "
I think to some extent I used to have people on the hotlist that I wouldn’t have a chance in hell with in real life and some part of it is fantasy, also maybe a danger of putting someone on a pedestal and that makes it even more unlikely to happen.
But no harm in believing, but a dose of reality with it too. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Wouldn’t it be good to know whose hotlist you are on, if any ? Lol"
Don’t know if I am, never worried before but for anyone it would be nice to know, including myself as I’m quite shy and not very confident and need my self esteem boosted
My own hotlist. Well I left fab for a few years and came back just under a year ago and have a few on my hotlist whom I have met previously, sociably or fun or some I think I’d have a brill time with, again, socially and or fun wise
Been reading that some use the hotlist to avoid, nawww, I just use private notes for those peeps |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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I've 3 on my hotlist, one I'm in regular contact with, one who was a friend but she's disappeared and one who I'm 2 years too old for in her 'looking for' list. A guy can hope eh?..lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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I also use the hotlist for the people I would like to catch up with if I was ever fortunate enough to.
That being said, I’m not the best with my messages (ahem) and I don’t often stroll upto women at events and such as I don’t like the idea of appearing creepy….
….so instead I just add their profiles to a list that will allow me to see their continual updates and stuff… |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"It’s not something I use that often but there are 4 profiles on mine
The honeys
Swingingmafia
Naughty nat
Roxy red
All 4 have been messaged at some point and only 1 replied with a “not my type” so I might need to rethink it
I need to catch up with my Fabmin.....I will reply! lovely to know I am on someone's list x"
Good things come to those who wait, I hope lol x |
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"I also use the hotlist for the people I would like to catch up with if I was ever fortunate enough to.
That being said, I’m not the best with my messages (ahem) and I don’t often stroll upto women at events and such as I don’t like the idea of appearing creepy….
….so instead I just add their profiles to a list that will allow me to see their continual updates and stuff… "
Good job you have that telepathy then |
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By *ags73Man 46 weeks ago
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Good job you have that telepathy then
I get the odd “have I been friendzoned” question but I’m pretty much like nah, I’m just a bit dim "
Is it more Shagzoned in a Fab sort of sense? Presumably you’re friends. |
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"Wouldn’t it be good to know whose hotlist you are on, if any ? Lolit’s not important to me although I do get the odd message to say I’m on someone’s hotlist .
I have a couple on mine but not many
From a nosy point of view, I’d really love to know if I’m on anyone’s hotlist LOL "
I’m extra nosey, me too |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Wouldn’t it be good to know whose hotlist you are on, if any ? Lolit’s not important to me although I do get the odd message to say I’m on someone’s hotlist .
I have a couple on mine but not many "
You are on mine x |
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