It’s always a struggle unless you can get yourself along to the socials or a club and get verified and make new swinging friends - I know not everyone wants to / can attend socials but it will help.
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Fab is hard work ,has been for years, saturated with fakes and dreamers. Clubs seem to be the way ahead as guaranteed a good night even if no play involved. |
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"Fab is hard work ,has been for years, saturated with fakes and dreamers. Clubs seem to be the way ahead as guaranteed a good night even if no play involved."
Agreed. We only ever go to clubs now. Can't be bothered with all the hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Having been on and off the scene over a good few years it is really clear that it is now more hard work than fun to sort actual swinging meets. Thoughts?"
Fab has always been hard, not everything is laid on a plate for us all. Agreed, its worse than it was before but is still great. Timewasters, fakes etc... are frequent on here but the only ones to blame are ourselves. If there's a doubt then bin and move on as your usually right.
Many say go to clubs and I have been and was 100% correct why I already had doubts. Clubs are good for many and some wonderful people to meet on fab at clubs but for me, they are a deffo No No. Best is the big social events, small socials, house parties or arranging a meet is always best.
Just get yourself out there, be known and it wont be that hard on fab. If these are for you then its just a little harder
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It's all about your enjoyment and if your not enjoying it then as said before either take another break or its time to stop as someday everyone of us will stop, its just a matter of when!   |
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"The time wasters on here don't help us genuine men at all. but that's just life onwards and upwards I guess "
Wish guys would stop blaming others for their lack of success. If anything the fuds help the half decent ones seem better than average.
We only have control over our own game. Let others do as they will. It only affects them in the end |
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all be it a bit nerve wracking 
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