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Friends with benefits thoughts
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I've not had a fwb when I was apart of a couple but yes done it when single and you guys should try it I had a good few holidays nights away movie nights meals drinks hotel breaks all good fun I'm sure you guys will love it. |
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I wonder sometimes how many couples, who have been friends for years, have a situation where the husbands fancy their friend's wife and visa versa?
I know it is frustrating to have this societal pressure not to touch so it must be great to have finally made the step into having sexy fun as well as social fun.
When I had a couples profile I met people through Fab who became friends. We socialised before bed, during and after and it was great. |
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"What are your thoughts
Has anyone got friends with benefits
Not a relationship
Eg
2 couples who socialise, holiday,etc
But also have naughty fun
Pros,cons
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yes I have had and it works well but a totally different situation to your relationship  |
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I had a FWB for about 5 years. Her social life was almost non existent so it worked.
There was a strict NSA understanding which isn't as easy as it seems after all that time.
Mutual benefits without the palava. As long as anyone doesn't get hurt, it works a treat. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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This is what we are trying to find ideally as a couple.
We did sort of have this with a couple on here for a while until they showed a different side to them that was pretty disrespectful, not spoke to them since. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I meet BJ through site and 2 start with it became a serious relationship. But in time we found it didn't work as we had a few differences but we Aired them to each other and we became closer as really really good friends and we are stll actively great FWB/ Fuck Bubbies etc .
Go on holidays , have each other round for dinner, go out for drinks and odd nights away Canny beat it I say |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"What are your thoughts
Has anyone got friends with benefits
Not a relationship
Eg
2 couples who socialise, holiday,etc
But also have naughty fun
Pros,cons
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Cons: that football strip
Pros: she’d look brilliant in a Glasgow based red and yellow shirt instead 
I was fwb with a girl on here who I am still very good friends with. It works well if you communicate clearly and have the boundaries. As with everything in life, communication is key. That’s the only way to navigate through the murky waters of sex and emotional attachments |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Much like all relationships there’s no simple guide that will give a “recipe” for the perfect FWB. Whether you’re married, with someone, FWB, friends or even family, any relationship can be fantastic or troubled. It’s what two people put into any relationship that makes it work. That includes highs lows and everything inbetween  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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People are kidding themselves on that it's not a 'relationship' when I'm have it very much is. If you are doing all these things together and sex, it's a relationship. To me fwb and FB are basically the same, it's sex with NSA. That's it .. dates, holidays is a relationship.
Any protestations are from pedantic mindsets. Call a spade a spade then everybody knows where they stand. |
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"People are kidding themselves on that it's not a 'relationship' when I'm have it very much is. If you are doing all these things together and sex, it's a relationship. To me fwb and FB are basically the same, it's sex with NSA. That's it .. dates, holidays is a relationship.
Any protestations are from pedantic mindsets. Call a spade a spade then everybody knows where they stand. "
Or roll over and agree with you?
FWB I would say is have the occasional drink with, cinema perhaps.
FB. Sex. NSA.
Done the latter for years. It worked. No relationship except the best 2 minutes she ever got in her life repeatedly. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Any fwb I’ve had in the past has always ended badly.
If I got into a relationship with someone else it would become awkward having my fwb as part of my life (without the benefits) mainly due to the nature of the relationship we had and out of respect for my new partner.
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I currently have a friend with benefits. It’s great. We get on well and spend loads of time together and do stuff gigs shows etc and when the itch needs scratching we scratch it. She’s not on here. It’s difficult on here even with socials etc but one day I will get a fwb who’s into this lifestyle too |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I was seeing more than one woman on a regular basis up until end of last year. I always made things clear that I was seeing more than one woman. I also got into a relationship with a married woman but i didn’t tell her my lifestyle. It all became so much that I just had to stop it. I got to attached to the married woman and she knew this. I see one woman now she is so into me but I just can’t stop thinking about fucking other woman. The married woman has started contacting me again it’s just a total head fuck. If your wanting fwb or NSA I would say be cautious, all sounds good but can also be bad. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Think for it to work
For us
All like same naughtiness and click as friends
It's like having regular friends but with a added bonus "
Lots of couples on Fab I’m down south staying and it seems like it’s all couples hear. I’m surprised the couples can’t seem to get together and see if use click. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I know
It should be easier but I don't know what makes it hard
Guess they need to like similar stuff
Some attraction
And if it's friends also they need to be similar x"
It don’t really know the answer to your question, probably what everyone says is to social events but that maybe isn’t for everyone. Why don’t the couples organise a weekend away to a hotel spa etc. I’m sure different couples could put up posts on the forum to judge intrest and take it from there. |
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