Anyone else find the site challenging in Scotland?, find the people are very ignorant and weird instead of being upfront and honest, after all we are all adults, we have no problem while away, just when we are at home? Place is mad lol x |
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Just mean it's a little ignorant the way folk are. instead of messing people around a simple yes or no would be sufficient. Instead you get bs and lies and ignored lol, can't figure some folk out, never seem to have the same problem abroad with people x |
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I have I only meet at clubs on my profile. Doesn't stop people messaging me to meet now & me to accommodate.
I always point out that they should have read my profile. I get called ignorant stuck up bitch.
I don't care what anyone thinks of me & I don't give whoever has messaged a second thought on here.
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By *uffinMan 48 weeks ago
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I'd say it's elitist, judgemental, completely in cloud cuckoo land and completely unrealistic.
I still crave the day I meet another person who realises normal people with lumps and bumps exist here other than Adonis. Non judgemental of people who are in trapped relationships just looking for a bit fun or couples who look for more than a 5 minute fumble and the missionary position.
It still happens that those who apparently swing are so single minded set upon something beige but only with Adonis which ultimately results in failed meets and complete disappointment.
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Thanks for your opinions folks, we will do just fine but just thought we would ask a question. think it will be the last time we post here. guys giving English lessons out ain't for us. He must be really exciting company to go for a pint with lol take care folks x |
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"Just mean it's a little ignorant the way folk are. instead of messing people around a simple yes or no would be sufficient. Instead you get bs and lies and ignored lol, can't figure some folk out, never seem to have the same problem abroad with people x"
That's still rather vague. Do you mean that people have arranged to meet you and then not turned up/cancelled, or do you mean that you've been chatting with people and then they've just stopped, or just didn't reply to your initial messages? |
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"Thanks for your opinions folks, we will do just fine but just thought we would ask a question. think it will be the last time we post here. guys giving English lessons out ain't for us. He must be really exciting company to go for a pint with lol take care folks x"
I wouldn't let anyone put you off posting. Didn't think there was anything wrong with the post.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I find it strange when folk can't see it for what it is , long and short of it if they wanted to message you /meet you they would . If someone's into you they would be replying a meet would've happened ..
A non reply is a not interested , sometimes things seem to go well and for whatever reason something can be said or done that puts the other party off , it happens ..
You've just got to roll with the punches it's not a one size fits all , and to be totally honest this kinda post comes across as a big red flag . |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Thanks for your opinions folks, we will do just fine but just thought we would ask a question. think it will be the last time we post here. guys giving English lessons out ain't for us. He must be really exciting company to go for a pint with lol take care folks x"
You seem lovely…can’t see why you’re getting pied at all..  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Nah, ima bite, can’t help it.
You can’t really come on and whinge, having a snide pop at a guy, not like the feedback and then take the victimised I’m going home attitude. It’s a case of come on, speak to others how you wish to be spoken to and suddenly the thread changes to a much brighter mood.
It’s hardly splitting the atom. |
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"We don't do forums or lounges usually. just thought we would ask a question, won't be asking anymore so all good, we will take our red flag and do one, thanks anyway folks. "
Hi guys
When you say abroad
Do you mean you meet people via this site? Or clubs etc?
And we get what you are saying
There are some really decent people on here
But there are also a lot of people who
Our experience is
Inundated with males
Males who pretend to like similar then it's just to see the mrs
Say one thing on profile and another in a message
The people who continue to message after you say that it's not what you want
The people who cancel
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Thanks for your opinions folks, we will do just fine but just thought we would ask a question. think it will be the last time we post here. guys giving English lessons out ain't for us. He must be really exciting company to go for a pint with lol take care folks x"
 I was highlighting the double standards on your profile.
I don’t struggle for meets in Scotland, you clearly are struggling if you’re having a wee forum moan about it. Enjoy your pints |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Blocked for the red flag comment .. now if only that applied to the forum oops ! .. probs could saved yourself the bother as I had no intention of contacting you  |
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"Blocked for the red flag comment .. now if only that applied to the forum oops ! .. probs could saved yourself the bother as I had no intention of contacting you "
It's not just you. I'm blocked too lol.
Was going to contact them to see if they wanted that pint and verification
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I am as honest as I can be with any messages. Most messages I have sent are polite hello one as I have looked at their profile a few times. What I have on my profile is all true and mostly explains my situation, and if people want to know more I would be happy to explain and answer questions. |
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