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By *hebirds OP Man
over a year ago
Haddington |
Shared lots of chat with two couples on here, things were looking promises but a niggle in my head had me do some due diligence checks. One was pics taken from an American onlyfans account, the other is from Coventry not Edinburgh and other pics she shared are not her. Google images checks saved me from making more of a tit of myself than i already had |
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over a year ago
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"Shared lots of chat with two couples on here, things were looking promises but a niggle in my head had me do some due diligence checks. One was pics taken from an American onlyfans account, the other is from Coventry not Edinburgh and other pics she shared are not her. Google images checks saved me from making more of a tit of myself than i already had "
its no big deal, its quite common in fact. You just have to ask the right questions and make sure you do the right checks to make you feel comfortable but personally, if in any doubt, just drop, not worth the hassle  |
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By *hebirds OP Man
over a year ago
Haddington |
"If they are using others pics report them to the site management"
Got one couple kicked off, the other sent me st**en photos in messages, the ones on their page are apparantly them, or are they? They definately lied about their location though.
Top tip to the fakes out there: dont use a pic that you use elsewhere. The lady of the latter couple used the same pic as her profile on here and on linkedin. My due diligence checks picked this up easily. Feel a bit bad i had to snoop but glad i did. |
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By *hebirds OP Man
over a year ago
Haddington |
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Top tip to the fakes out there: dont use a pic that you use elsewhere. The lady of the latter couple used the same pic as her profile on here and on linkedin.
Why does that mean she is fake ?"
We had be speaking for months and she claimed to be in Edinburgh.
Using the same photo on linkedin and here doesnt mean she is fake its how i confirmed my suspicions of her fakeness as it showed she lived elsewhere. Other more graphic pics she sent me i then found to all be lifted from porn sites. |
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Remember that, just because someone is verified, it doesn’t meant he pictures they’re sending you privately are of them.
I’ve had well verified profiles sending me pictures that have been lifted straight from google |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember that, just because someone is verified, it doesn’t meant he pictures they’re sending you privately are of them.
I’ve had well verified profiles sending me pictures that have been lifted straight from google "
Would have thought that would be more difficult to do with a well verified profile, but then I don't see many being bothered enough to contact the verifier to ask if a certain individual is who they say they are.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That’s what I thought. But I’ve seen a verified profile and a man sending pics privately of someone else entirely……
It’s so strange! "
Yeah, don't really get that. Ultimately that's going absolutely nowhere.
Verifications themselves can be difficult to interpret at times anyway as they're mostly complimentary. We only use them to verify that they're capable of turning up. The rest is personal preference. |
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We still wonder what they're getting from doing this apart from wasting time?
We have been focused on being and showing out most genuine selves. Are we gonna be everyone's cup of tea? No, but at least we're who we say we are  |
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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago
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Blessing of being plus sized nobody is stealing my pics.
There's fakes everywhere not just on here that's why I only do a wee coffee first if they don't show then it's only an HR wasted rather than a whole night off. |
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"Shared lots of chat with two couples on here, things were looking promises but a niggle in my head had me do some due diligence checks. One was pics taken from an American onlyfans account, the other is from Coventry not Edinburgh and other pics she shared are not her. Google images checks saved me from making more of a tit of myself than i already had "
Thank god we got you calling everyone out  |
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By *hebirds OP Man
over a year ago
Haddington |
"Shared lots of chat with two couples on here, things were looking promises but a niggle in my head had me do some due diligence checks. One was pics taken from an American onlyfans account, the other is from Coventry not Edinburgh and other pics she shared are not her. Google images checks saved me from making more of a tit of myself than i already had
Thank god we got you calling everyone out "
?. Do not understand your point |
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I don't see the point in using fake pics. People arrange meets away from the house first as a precaution. So if you go to the meet and you aint the person in it pic it's a bye bye to you. That is why people ask for a face pic first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you sure it was a real couple and it was the ‘woman’ you were talking with? We find there are so many fake couple profiles where it’s just a man pretending to be in a couple. God knows where these parasites get their photos from! |
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"After chatting we ask for a selfie with our name wrote on paper, find that's the best way to find the fakes. "
This works really well for us
Maybe has put off a few genuine ones too but it’s very effective |
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By *hebirds OP Man
over a year ago
Haddington |
"I know that sometimes people use different names so if you look up their pics it might look like a fake profile on here "
Thats different, perfectly reasonable to use a pseudonym on here. To use the pics of an onlyfans model who is in California is a fake. To say you live in Edinburgh when you live in Coventry and to send pictures taken from porn websites is a fake. |
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