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By *nox.Woman 49 weeks ago
Glasgow |
Do they have veris tho?
I don't get it at all, yes we are all adults, yes we are all to varying degrees looking to have sex but the same could be said about any bar but you don't see anyone whipping the goods out giving it 'hello I want I want to lick your arsehole how about it' in bars without risking a black eye and getting tossed out. No strings doesn't have to mean no manners. |
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"Do they have veris tho?
I don't get it at all, yes we are all adults, yes we are all to varying degrees looking to have sex but the same could be said about any bar but you don't see anyone whipping the goods out giving it 'hello I want I want to lick your arsehole how about it' in bars without risking a black eye and getting tossed out. No strings doesn't have to mean no manners."
totally agree, why’s it acceptable here? or other social media places? what really goes through the guys head, i really want to know out of pure curiosity |
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By *awk3y3Man 49 weeks ago
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You wouldnt walk into a pub with yer whopper hanging out and hand out postcards with " wanna fuck " on the back .... Checking the size of each others with the sky remote from the bar and swordfighting with the biggest cock in the room .... But that's the real life equivalent... |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"I think some guys can end up feeling disillusioned and think "fuck it". So they make very little effort and take the easy option of umpteen cock pics."
Instant delete from us when they do.  |
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"I think some guys can end up feeling disillusioned and think "fuck it". So they make very little effort and take the easy option of umpteen cock pics."
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This ^ is one plausible explanation. If you throw sufficient darts at the board eventually one will stick and someone with a penchant for roadkill images of cocks will reply favourably.
Thankfully these outcomes are the exception and not the norm. They're certainly not my modus operandi when replying to a woman's opening message. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it? "
Never sent a cock pic on here and don't intend too. Very happy with what I have and don't need to show it off.
It hasn't stopped me from meeting, yes I'm a single male and its hard for all males but I have respect for myself and anyone I'm interacting with so cock pics is a no no.
I admit, I shake my head on any profiles with a cock pic on or in their profile thinking, why oh why.
Oh and I have had some fems or cpls wanting a cock pic first and quite clearly, they're binned, no hesitation
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It’s not just here they do it, I’m on dating sites looking for different to what I look for here and still get doc pics sent.
One guy from a dating site stayed near me and wanted me to meet at his house for a coffee however I refused multiple times having never met him before so he sent an unwanted pic to show me what I was missing 
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"It’s not just here they do it, I’m on dating sites looking for different to what I look for here and still get doc pics sent.
One guy from a dating site stayed near me and wanted me to meet at his house for a coffee however I refused multiple times having never met him before so he sent an unwanted pic to show me what I was missing
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well, you must of went straight round after that? haha |
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From the DMs that female friends have shown me, many men struggle to string a coherent sentence together, so cock-pics run in a similar Neanderthal train of thought.
Also, for many men, their genitalia is - at least in their own minds - their most impressive feature (though they should consider that, even if it is, it still doesn’t mean that it is actually impressive, much less that anyone wants to see it).
Finally, a lot of men don’t seem to understand that men and women aren’t just mirror images of each other. Some seem to think, “I would love if women just sent me a photo of their private parts*…so women would surely love it if I sent photos of mine to them!”.
[* - Personally, no, thank-you.]
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Any guys been sent a random fanny picture ? I did one time on another site.
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Yes, frequently. I treat them with the same disdain as women do in their contempt."
Just curious to ask, I asked this said woman for a picture as in face and got a fanny instead. I just told her it looked like it had seen some action, she said no it’s really tight. |
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"It’s not just here they do it, I’m on dating sites looking for different to what I look for here and still get doc pics sent.
One guy from a dating site stayed near me and wanted me to meet at his house for a coffee however I refused multiple times having never met him before so he sent an unwanted pic to show me what I was missing
well, you must of went straight round after that? haha"
Practically moved in  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"It’s not just here they do it, I’m on dating sites looking for different to what I look for here and still get doc pics sent.
One guy from a dating site stayed near me and wanted me to meet at his house for a coffee however I refused multiple times having never met him before so he sent an unwanted pic to show me what I was missing
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'pof' plenty of f@nnies. |
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"It’s not just here they do it, I’m on dating sites looking for different to what I look for here and still get doc pics sent.
One guy from a dating site stayed near me and wanted me to meet at his house for a coffee however I refused multiple times having never met him before so he sent an unwanted pic to show me what I was missing
well, you must of went straight round after that? haha
Practically moved in "
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"Any guys been sent a random fanny picture ? I did one time on another site.
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Yes, frequently. I treat them with the same disdain as women do in their contempt.
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Just curious to ask, I asked this said woman for a picture as in face and got a fanny instead. I just told her it looked like it had seen some action, she said no it’s really tight. "
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If a woman feels compelled to inform me that her quinny is tight I will believe her without hesitation. I don't need to sêê any photographic evidence.
I mean, I love a porcelain smooth pussy like the next man but I don't need to see it in full inglorious technicolour.  |
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Sending unsolicited dick pictures is a form of harassment.
Male entitled egos seem to think that because its a swingers site, or in their mind a sex site, it is an acceptable form of approach and communication.
Here is my dick. Worthship my dick. You will have sex with me now!
It's quite pathetic, really.
They wouldn't get their dick out public to a woman, they'd be banged up. Why would they think it is acceptable to do it in a message!
I will put a caveat on it, though. There will be a small percentage of woman that will enjoy getting dick pics and will get a thrill and perhaps arousal from them.
This massages and fuels the male egos which in turn creates the element of unwanted dick pics to others. Bit of a vicious cycle scenario.
Only way to truly change attitudes is to repeatedly report and block offending individuals.
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it? "
Although dick pics are not encouraged I get more offended by the attitude some guys have towards women due to their own insecurities. There are some totally disgusting men on fab who think being abusive is OK.
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it?
Although dick pics are not encouraged I get more offended by the attitude some guys have towards women due to their own insecurities. There are some totally disgusting men on fab who think being abusive is OK.
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yep, totally agree, and it’s unfortunate, iv seen some of the messages ladies get, and it’s actually really quite sad |
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it?
Although dick pics are not encouraged I get more offended by the attitude some guys have towards women due to their own insecurities. There are some totally disgusting men on fab who think being abusive is OK.
yep, totally agree, and it’s unfortunate, iv seen some of the messages ladies get, and it’s actually really quite sad"
It's not just messages. Some sad folk even go ballistic at women on the forums when they Tey to give advice and it's taken the wrong way |
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it?
Although dick pics are not encouraged I get more offended by the attitude some guys have towards women due to their own insecurities. There are some totally disgusting men on fab who think being abusive is OK.
yep, totally agree, and it’s unfortunate, iv seen some of the messages ladies get, and it’s actually really quite sad
It's not just messages. Some sad folk even go ballistic at women on the forums when they Tey to give advice and it's taken the wrong way "
I'm trying to master the art of giving detailed advice and feedback on profiles as requested whilst simultaneously saying fuck all that could be deemed offensive or cause a manchild to spit the dummy.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it?
Although dick pics are not encouraged I get more offended by the attitude some guys have towards women due to their own insecurities. There are some totally disgusting men on fab who think being abusive is OK.
yep, totally agree, and it’s unfortunate, iv seen some of the messages ladies get, and it’s actually really quite sad
It's not just messages. Some sad folk even go ballistic at women on the forums when they Tey to give advice and it's taken the wrong way
I'm trying to master the art of giving detailed advice and feedback on profiles as requested whilst simultaneously saying fuck all that could be deemed offensive or cause a manchild to spit the dummy.
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I think not giving to much advice is a better option, it can just get a reaction from you that the op maybe looking for. |
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it?
Although dick pics are not encouraged I get more offended by the attitude some guys have towards women due to their own insecurities. There are some totally disgusting men on fab who think being abusive is OK.
yep, totally agree, and it’s unfortunate, iv seen some of the messages ladies get, and it’s actually really quite sad
It's not just messages. Some sad folk even go ballistic at women on the forums when they Tey to give advice and it's taken the wrong way
I'm trying to master the art of giving detailed advice and feedback on profiles as requested whilst simultaneously saying fuck all that could be deemed offensive or cause a manchild to spit the dummy.
I think not giving to much advice is a better option, it can just get a reaction from you that the op maybe looking for. "
You're probably right |
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"so, i would never do this
but a dick pic as an opening ‘hello’ surly this doesn’t actually work?
but then i think it must, or why would so many do it? and continue to do it?
Although dick pics are not encouraged I get more offended by the attitude some guys have towards women due to their own insecurities. There are some totally disgusting men on fab who think being abusive is OK.
yep, totally agree, and it’s unfortunate, iv seen some of the messages ladies get, and it’s actually really quite sad
It's not just messages. Some sad folk even go ballistic at women on the forums when they Tey to give advice and it's taken the wrong way
I'm trying to master the art of giving detailed advice and feedback on profiles as requested whilst simultaneously saying fuck all that could be deemed offensive or cause a manchild to spit the dummy.
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That could take a feckin lifetime |
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