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over a year ago
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Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have "
yep, baffles me |
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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that. |
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"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that."
I think a polite reply is preferable to a 'Here's what you could have won' photo |
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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.
I think a polite reply is preferable to a 'Here's what you could have won' photo "
That's good thinking thanks although I'm definitely not a prize either |
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By *ert999400Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff |
"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X"
Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic. |
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"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X
Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic."
They're talking about sending face pics via pm. The vast majority of people don't have public face pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic."
Expecting a woman to publicly have her face on the profile is exactly the attitude not to have chump |
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By *eetootsWoman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X
Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic."
I always send a pic on request ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *eetootsWoman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X
Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic.
Exactly, someone who won't show me their face via messages after ive sent mine but suggests to go to Snapchat makes me think that they aren't single (a few have admitted it when I questioned them) its so easy to upload pics on this so the excuses dont work with me x
They're talking about sending face pics via pm. The vast majority of people don't have public face pics." ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure! "
Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.
Just block these kind of people
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They didn’t block me. Quite possible they couldn’t respond straight away, but understandably most people would take that as a knock back. Anyway, I know we’re definitely not ugly ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!
Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.
Just block these kind of people
" I do block such pests. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!
Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.
Just block these kind of people
I do block such pests. "
Quite right.
But maybe they’ve realise that he / them are not in your league and just thought “f*ck it”
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that."
Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!
Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.
Just block these kind of people
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Wouldn't say its the wrong reasons. Just different reasons to you. So therefore incompatible. Not wrong |
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By *eetootsWoman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.
Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy. "
I do this also as I feel bad and don't want them thinkin it may be someone they know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happy to share a face pic in a message or friends add, I do not put on public pics tho.
Totally agree double standard when someone asks for a pic but will not do the same |
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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.
Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy.
I do this also as I feel bad and don't want them thinkin it may be someone they know "
Just never sure lol tried both ways and have had abuse either way |
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By *eetootsWoman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.
Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy.
I do this also as I feel bad and don't want them thinkin it may be someone they know
Just never sure lol tried both ways and have had abuse either way "
Ye can't win eh |
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I don’t have a face pic public anymore purely for work reasons and where I live (small town) when I did have someone told my ex who used it against me.. I’m happy to share once chatted and there are some on my profile if we become friends… not every silhouette profile is a cheater ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have "
I thought that too |
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"Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have "
Instant red flag and side swipe.. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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100% agree with the OG on this, as a single guy on here it's hard enough at the best of times and if u speak out about things that annoy u then u get shot down in flames in a public forum. Nice to see so many folk agree on something |
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