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Still haven't had my first meet on here yet
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"Anyone give me some advice on what I'm doing wrong on here please im a verified gold site supporter and for some reason I'm not getting any ones attention will appreciate any advice thank you ?? "
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I usually incur a ban when I comment on these threads so I’ll keep it as tactful as I can 
Your status update isn’t drawing me in for a start.
Your bio needs a bit of work. A description you have written doesn’t match with a pic provided.
As ninja says, getting out to socials and clubs is the best ways to meet people. Face to face interactions are more beneficial for people to build bonds and get to know you a bit before thinking of getting jiggy.
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"Anyone give me some advice on what I'm doing wrong on here please im a verified gold site supporter and for some reason I'm not getting any ones attention will appreciate any advice thank you ??
Be careful how your first message comes across. "
Aye, it’s a swinging site not a guaranteed fuck site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ummm based on you asking for advice, I am going to offer advice...
Put the dick pick on friends only, or have just one on there and take a couple of clear photographs.
The vile status update doesn't help either. |
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Get proper verifications, write more about yourself, watch what status you pop up. Genuinely there’s currently nothing appealing about your profile that would want to make me meet you. Best way to get proper verifications and meet people is try going to clubs or socials. |
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"Ummm based on you asking for advice, I am going to offer advice...
Put the dick pick on friends only, or have just one on there and take a couple of clear photographs.
The vile status update doesn't help either."
Anyone with come to me so I can unload statuses go right on ma block list. Some guys think we are just a free orifice for their pleasure. Honestly they just embarrass themselves really. |
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow Scotland |
Have to agree on the status update. Just no. Do men think women are sitting here waiting and licking their lips for a 7 day load? Nope.
Also you say you are straight but your cam verification is from a TS/TV. Not saying that you can’t be verified by someone that’s not who you intend to play with, but it wouldn’t make me think it was real.
I haven’t attended any socials yet, but I do appreciate it seems to be a way for a lot of single men to get verified and meet people also.
I know dick pics put a lot of women off. It’s not a deal breaker for me, but there a thousands of them on here, so they are not really needed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ummm based on you asking for advice, I am going to offer advice...
Put the dick pick on friends only, or have just one on there and take a couple of clear photographs.
The vile status update doesn't help either.
Anyone with come to me so I can unload statuses go right on ma block list. Some guys think we are just a free orifice for their pleasure. Honestly they just embarrass themselves really. "
Same for me, and guys who ask for 'anyone' I know for a lot of guys any holes a goal but it just smacks of desperation |
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Thanks everyone for your advice it's very much appreciated and will get using this advice straight away on the plus side I am going to afterdark on the 27th my first social hopefully after that I will post on here again to let you all know how it went ?? |
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By *ac995Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Ummm based on you asking for advice, I am going to offer advice...
Put the dick pick on friends only, or have just one on there and take a couple of clear photographs.
The vile status update doesn't help either.
Anyone with come to me so I can unload statuses go right on ma block list. Some guys think we are just a free orifice for their pleasure. Honestly they just embarrass themselves really.
Same for me, and guys who ask for 'anyone' I know for a lot of guys any holes a goal but it just smacks of desperation "
That’s the mistake single guys make having that mindset a hole is a goal.
Social first and let things flow through, always works best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's Wrong for a guy to have a dick pic.But OK for women to flash the gash & a cock up there arsehole"
This 100% .. double standards at its best , ye cannae moan about dick pics if yir empty cornish pastie shells all over your profile ! |
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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Get rid of the dick pics and work on your bio a little more and get yourself out too the socials and things will fall into place for you"
.... But you have your vagina out 
You do you but if your suggestion is no dick pics then surely the same applies to the vagine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get rid of the dick pics and work on your bio a little more and get yourself out too the socials and things will fall into place for you
.... But you have your vagina out
You do you but if your suggestion is no dick pics then surely the same applies to the vagine?"
Especially when they are held open like an orca’s mouth at the dentist |
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"Get rid of the dick pics and work on your bio a little more and get yourself out too the socials and things will fall into place for you
.... But you have your vagina out
You do you but if your suggestion is no dick pics then surely the same applies to the vagine?
Especially when they are held open like an orca’s mouth at the dentist "
 I hate fanny pics more than dick pics. Sorry folks….personal opinion is all  |
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"Get rid of the dick pics and work on your bio a little more and get yourself out too the socials and things will fall into place for you
.... But you have your vagina out
You do you but if your suggestion is no dick pics then surely the same applies to the vagine?
Especially when they are held open like an orca’s mouth at the dentist
I hate fanny pics more than dick pics. Sorry folks….personal opinion is all "
Aye nae bother |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
glasgow-ish |
"Get rid of the dick pics and work on your bio a little more and get yourself out too the socials and things will fall into place for you
.... But you have your vagina out
You do you but if your suggestion is no dick pics then surely the same applies to the vagine?
Especially when they are held open like an orca’s mouth at the dentist
I hate fanny pics more than dick pics. Sorry folks….personal opinion is all "
I’m really not a fan of the ones that get right in close.
I don’t mind ‘naked and there’s the fanny’, but some can be quite scary.
Each to their own, just can’t scroll quickly enough past those. |
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"It's Wrong for a guy to have a dick pic.But OK for women to flash the gash & a cock up there arsehole
This 100% .. double standards at its best , ye cannae moan about dick pics if yir empty cornish pastie shells all over your profile ! "
Cornish pasty she'll . I'll never be able to eat one again without thinking about that line  |
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"Anyone give me some advice on what I'm doing wrong on here please im a verified gold site supporter and for some reason I'm not getting any ones attention will appreciate any advice thank you ?? "
You actually look like a "baddie" from Thunderbirds and that look went out a wee while ago. |
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By *mortMan
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Anyone give me some advice on what I'm doing wrong on here please im a verified gold site supporter and for some reason I'm not getting any ones attention will appreciate any advice thank you ?? "
Fabswingers is a marathon not a sprint, hard work and a whole lot of patience is required. Mind you "moral" police element on the site, is not helpful. Stick at it, you will succeed.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's Wrong for a guy to have a dick pic.But OK for women to flash the gash & a cock up there arsehole
Aye. It is.
Fucking magic being a woman on here sometimes. "
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