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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As someone who is fairly new to all of this, I have been toying with the idea of going to CJs for a while but I have always been too shy.
Whether it would be about seeing someone that I know there and the fear that my "cover" might be blown or something, I have always been too reserved to go.
I was just wondering if anyone would be kind enough to share their experiences with me in the hope that it would give me that bit of extra confidence needed to take a leap of faith and visit for myself. Thanks x |
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"As someone who is fairly new to all of this, I have been toying with the idea of going to CJs for a while but I have always been too shy. This
Whether it would be about seeing someone that I know there and the fear that my "cover" might be blown or something, I have always been too reserved to go.
I was just wondering if anyone would be kind enough to share their experiences with me in the hope that it would give me that bit of extra confidence needed to take a leap of faith and visit for myself. Thanks x"
I know exactly how you feel, I'm in the same boat.
I've decided to go to a social meet first. Hopefully meet some nice people who can put me at ease and encourage me to take that final step so to speak. |
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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago
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there and the fear that my "cover" might be blown or something,
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I suppose you being the international man of mystery this would be a concern but even Austin Powers was a swinger lol.
Stop being a woose and get along you will meet lots of like minded friends and so what if u meet someone you know. they are there for exactly same reason. you might find yourself a nice kinky neighbor of yours who is right into extra marital fun etc or somthing similar.
Its dead relaxed and believe me on mon morn while at the coffee break at work when asked what you got up to all you will do is have a huge smile on your
face while saying watched a bit of telly.
while replaying the events in your head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think ill see if there is someone to go with, that way less daunting if going with a friend rather than alone
(if that makes sense, maybe im just babbling) |
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Cj's is wonderful, not a thing to worry about there. I was like a kid in a candy shop once I saw the rooms. I did have a play on the swing before a lot of people turned up, but it was all very relaxed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the messages It's comforting to know that there are a lot of people in the same boat as me as well as a lot of folk who are helping to put my mind at ease. I appreciate your comments (even you're S and G haha)!
I am busy tonight but I think I might make the step for the next one (as long as you are all there to hold my hand)! :p
Just out of interest, who is going tonight? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just remember that you have to put your name down as places are limited.
And I meant what I said about S (no doubt he will kick my arse for that). x"
Will do, should I just contact the CJ profile on here?
Haha I dont mind S! He can't be that bad, is he? :p x |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Just remember that you have to put your name down as places are limited.
And I meant what I said about S (no doubt he will kick my arse for that). x
Will do, should I just contact the CJ profile on here?
Haha I dont mind S! He can't be that bad, is he? :p x"
Go into club section, scroll down to Scotland clubs and you will get a link to CJs website. From club section you can also read reviews from all the mad people that attend.
And yes, S IS that bad, but plays a mean set of pipes at New Year |
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"Go into club section, scroll down to Scotland clubs and you will get a link to CJs website. From club section you can also read reviews from all the mad people that attend.
And yes, S IS that bad, but plays a mean set of pipes at New Year "
There are a few regulars and a lot of people who seem like they would be more than willing to take this fledgling under their arm and corrupt me! Haha
When you talk about pipes, is that a euphemism? :p x |
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