Fab is primarily a resource to chat, communicate, find events, socials and clubs in the swinging lifestyle.
The meets section is a small part of the site.
If you are disappointed or disillusioned with the site, it maybe time to step back and re assess.
Come back fresh invigorated, attend socials, events and clubs. Network and see where it goes.
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It’s what you make of it as with any connection/dating site.
You have to put the effort in yourself to reap the rewards. That means in my opinion a good profile inc pics, good messages sent if you’re sending, engage on the forums to get to know people & how site works, go to socials and clubs too.
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Have you been to a club? Or a social? Or just sent messages that have been ignored? For success on Fab you need some verifications before many will meet you privately. Best way to get a verification is from socials or clubs. It’s not the same people verifying each other, it’s people who socialise and make friends and play at clubs that have success. I won’t meet anyone without verification. Most women and couples are the same because although you may think you’re reliable we have all been burnt by no shows, time wasters and guys that just want a fantasy wank so we pick and choose carefully. Getting your face known through socials and clubs is the best way to win at this game. It shows you’re real and serious. |
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"Have you been to a club? Or a social? Or just sent messages that have been ignored? For success on Fab you need some verifications before many will meet you privately. Best way to get a verification is from socials or clubs. It’s not the same people verifying each other, it’s people who socialise and make friends and play at clubs that have success. I won’t meet anyone without verification. Most women and couples are the same because although you may think you’re reliable we have all been burnt by no shows, time wasters and guys that just want a fantasy wank so we pick and choose carefully. Getting your face known through socials and clubs is the best way to win at this game. It shows you’re real and serious. "
This 100% had lots of fun last time I was on years ago and need to get back to socials etc since returning- solid advice |
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"Thank you all for your messages. I have met and been verified on a previous account. Think I'm just confused with it all. Will take a step back as suggested. Honestly guys thank you "
Maybe try the socials to meet! |
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"And for those that answered ( female) what interests you with a profile? Pic types? Info... I get at the end of the day it's down to attraction "
Usually photos (yours are good), location, then the profile text, maybe interests if listed. |
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As others have said, get yourself to clubs with a no expectation of any play, just be relaxed, approachable and respectful.
If you can get chatting to anyone then ask if they mind leaving a verification. That's the first step, once people in fab can see you are genuine with hopefully a good positive verification or two that will go a long way.
We tend to see fab as a way to keep in touch with people we've met at clubs. Very rarely do we actively try and arrange meets with people from fab if we've not met them at a club, unless we are very horny and looking for a spontaneous meet, both really like the profile and think they are genuine. |
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