I used to be on here as a couple, but now a single male and the messages seem to have dropped off a cliff!
Is it because I’m a single male and over 50 now, or am I making some other Fab faux pas I’m not aware of?
Genuine and helpful feedback appreciated, although I know I could be letting myself in for anything! |
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"I used to be on here as a couple, but now a single male and the messages seem to have dropped off a cliff!
Is it because I’m a single male and over 50 now, or am I making some other Fab faux pas I’m not aware of?
Genuine and helpful feedback appreciated, although I know I could be letting myself in for anything!"
Maybe ask those who you met on your couple account to verify you again on your single account .
If folk see you are genuine and have met they might give you a chance .
Good luck ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Change the photo, looks like you’ve been swimming on a barbers floor.
Remove the bit about being Dominant, that alone won’t put people off but in your descriptors you failed to make the notion that you understand any Dom/sub dynamic isn’t about you being assertive, it’s about the sub holding the ultimate power which is consent.
Remove the bit about teaching people to kiss, it’s just a bit cringey.
Make the profile photo a different one from your only public photo and, by saying you used to be on as a couple but now as a single whilst being unable to accommodate is a wee red flag.
Small chages buddy but they will make a difference. All the best & have a good Xmas  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I've been there when me and the Mrs separated for a bit. Thought I had made genuine friendships through the couples account and didn't think I would off struggled too much.
I was completely wrong but Boy of Wonder above addresses one or two mistakes I had made and I would take his advice on board.
Would also look to add a couple of better photos if you can.
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"I've been there when me and the Mrs separated for a bit. Thought I had made genuine friendships through the couples account and didn't think I would off struggled too much.
I was completely wrong but Boy of Wonder above addresses one or two mistakes I had made and I would take his advice on board.
Would also look to add a couple of better photos if you can.
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Thanks for the advice everyone, I’ll see what I can sort in the next few days - amazing how hard it is to even get a social meet as a single guy! |
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The pic isn't good ..makes you look messy and unkept
The dom bit needs to go it makes you sound bossy
And the if your a good kisser ill show you a thing or two cringe..
Keep it short and sweet .and a nicer pic |
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