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over a year ago
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I think it happens to most guys especially if you’re new to the fab scene. There is other dating sites remember this. I got a compliment from a woman the other night and next day deleted lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly 
Maybe one day ill get a shag then  "
Do you not have friends with benefits outside Fab if you don’t well happy wanking  |
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"Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly
Maybe one day ill get a shag then
Do you not have friends with benefits outside Fab if you don’t well happy wanking "
Yeah but looking for more thats why im here
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I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again |
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"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again "
Is it santa. Please tell me it is. |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again "
Is there an explanation or what does he say when he reappears,
sorry don’t mean to pry, but, I’m just thinking how?
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"It's not just men, believe it or not. It doesn't feel great, but most of the time it's probably not personal. Life happens, Fab is a small slice of it for many of us. Don't fret. "
Without getting too deep, no-one likes rejection and unexplained is worse with the doubts, questions and insecurities that we all have.
Certainly know I’ve questioned myself, ‘what did I say/do’ but as you say, it happens.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it happening to all guys on here or just me, happened a few times, decent converstion, no cheekyness, then bam, nothing...... "
Just wait till you decide to venture into the dating scene where you are actually ghosted in the way where is actually does frustrate. You speak, you get on, arrange to meet up and they don’t turn up. Atleast on fab you just get ignored after a few emails.
Dust yourself down and move on buddy, it’s really not that bad considering |
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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again
Is it santa. Please tell me it is. "
This! Lol |
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"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again
Is it santa. Please tell me it is.
This! Lol "
Ladies do you know him too - I knew we weren’t exclusive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens to females as well...chat for a good while then nothing for weeks then a massage pops up you think wtf I say move on in my mind it's his loss"
Deffo, you chat get on arrange to meet then boom nothing, aw well... next!! |
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I remember it happening to me years ago we were getting on so well chatting away for weeks and she encouraged me to book a hotel room for us and even night before she still confirmed and said she was looking forward to it.
So on the day hear I nothing all day and then try and phone and I'm blocked so instead I had a pity party with all the crisps and sweets I bought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember it happening to me years ago we were getting on so well chatting away for weeks and she encouraged me to book a hotel room for us and even night before she still confirmed and said she was looking forward to it.
So on the day hear I nothing all day and then try and phone and I'm blocked so instead I had a pity party with all the crisps and sweets I bought. "
That's actually tragic  what a scutter! The crisps and sweets probably tasted better anyway  |
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We got ghosted by a couple a few months ago who still look at our profile EVERY SINGLE DAY haha
Our profile is probably the most boring one on fab and hasn't been updated in months so God knows what they're actually looking at
Nowt stranger than folk |
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"I remember it happening to me years ago we were getting on so well chatting away for weeks and she encouraged me to book a hotel room for us and even night before she still confirmed and said she was looking forward to it.
So on the day hear I nothing all day and then try and phone and I'm blocked so instead I had a pity party with all the crisps and sweets I bought.
That's actually tragic what a scutter! The crisps and sweets probably tasted better anyway "
Haribo I bought aswell her loss lol |
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"We got ghosted by a couple a few months ago who still look at our profile EVERY SINGLE DAY haha
Our profile is probably the most boring one on fab and hasn't been updated in months so God knows what they're actually looking at
Nowt stranger than folk"
lol aye thats weird if they keep looking at profile everyday after ghosting yous as you say nothing stranger than folk. |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"We got ghosted by a couple a few months ago who still look at our profile EVERY SINGLE DAY haha
Our profile is probably the most boring one on fab and hasn't been updated in months so God knows what they're actually looking at
Nowt stranger than folk"
Very weird.
Added some fabs as it’s Xmas time |
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"Is it happening to all guys on here or just me, happened a few times, decent converstion, no cheekyness, then bam, nothing...... "
To be fair, it's probably me that they are flocking to instead of you lot. I am absolutely waist deep in the Klungeverse at the moment, beating them off with shitty nunchucks as I wade through the fanny. Maybe. |
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"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again "
I'll give you a shout in January then |
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"I think it happens to most guys especially if you’re new to the fab scene. There is other dating sites remember this. I got a compliment from a woman the other night and next day deleted lol. "
It is really weird though. Wink or message, you reply back, then blocked. Or variations on the theme.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, has happened to us too. I honestly do not understand why some people have no good manners just to say "sorry I/we have changed our mind, we will not come".
For us to get out is a big commitment. We have to arrange our childcare. Very frustrating, time and efforts wasted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people just get a thrill from the 'chase', then when it comes to actually meeting.....they dissappear. Probably never even had the intention of meeting! |
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"I think some people just get a thrill from the 'chase', then when it comes to actually meeting.....they dissappear. Probably never even had the intention of meeting! "
The fear of living up to that "top shag 2023" moniker they label themselves with.
"I'm going to do nasty things to you..." aye, like melt away like a caburys flake in a hot car. |
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"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again
Is it santa. Please tell me it is.
This! Lol
Ladies do you know him too - I knew we weren’t exclusive "
Shhh. Don't tell him but I'm shagging Mrs Claus. She's Amy panther. |
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