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over a year ago
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verified and first post woohoo
we are thinking of going to violate in january, is it worth going to, i know its not strictly a swingers club although many swingers attend, we thought it might be worth a look to socialise with other swingers and dress sexy.
so is it a good night at violate and what sort of things go on at the club and do many people from here go there ?
cheers
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It's definitely not a swingers night although, as you say, many swingers do attend.
It's not as glamorous as, say, Club Noir but there'll still be some ourageous costumes, a bit of partial nudity, dancing, decent grub and a good, if often overly busy bar.
It's perfectly OK to go along, pay your money and just enjoy the sights. No participation required although joiners-in are always welcome. |
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"verified and first post woohoo
we are thinking of going to violate in january, is it worth going to, i know its not strictly a swingers club although many swingers attend, we thought it might be worth a look to socialise with other swingers and dress sexy.
so is it a good night at violate and what sort of things go on at the club and do many people from here go there ?
cheers
Adam"
Voilate is definitley NOT a swingers club even tho a few ppl who swing do attend it.
It's a bdsm/fetish club and gives ppl who are on that scene a chance to meet up and have a bit of a gibber and, if they want, a bit of a play (although there are other clubs on other nights that cater solely for that).
Pull on your pvc and go along. You'll be made most welcome, as the ppl who attend are a very friendly bunch.
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Violate as the others have said is NOT a Swingers Club but some swingers do attend...including some from this site.
Violate is though a FAB night out with some very sexxxy outfits & bodies on show in a very safe & discrete & at times erotic enviroment...I just love going along & have met many "friends" there.....Go along for yourselves & have a look...Im sure you will love it. |
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as others have said it is a BDSM club and not a swingers club and some folk can find it a bit weird. there are better clubs as the location of the club is not great but if you go with an open mind you might find it fun . just don't gock at the folk everyone to their own |
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lol i want to gawk at folk, just kidding, its it a bit of an eye opener then lol
sounds like its worth a visit just once to see if its my cup of tea 
my partner has outfits to wear but i have nothing, whats the cheapest basic thing a bloke can wear to comply with the dress code ? |
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"lol i want to gawk at folk, just kidding, its it a bit of an eye opener then lol
sounds like its worth a visit just once to see if its my cup of tea
my partner has outfits to wear but i have nothing, whats the cheapest basic thing a bloke can wear to comply with the dress code ?"
Black shirt and black trousers will suffice.
Don't wear a t shirt or jeans. |
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as stated check the website and make the effort to dress up
try and go with other members as well, it is a great night to go and chat, chill and even see what turns other on
also take id with you as well, and get a membership on the night or contact them beforehand
have fun |
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