Why is it the only thing on the profile that is subjective is our build size
What one person regards as athletic another might say slim
We put our age, height, sexual orientation etc
These are facts but then we get to chose average, curvy, fabulous
I would say i was curvy at a size 12-14 is that accurate ? |
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By *uggy55TV/TS
over a year ago
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Hmm that’s a fair point you raise. I always wonder how often people pay attention to those details? Surely, they could make a better opinion with the photos we share and not worry about ‘average size’ etc.
I would hope anyway….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a bit daft specially since you can't use it in any search criteria and like you say totally subjective I mean fabulous could mean you have a god like physiche but are we talking chubby Buddha or ripped Zues. All a bit redundant  |
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Another part of the issue is how people perceive the descriptions. For example some people will thibk that 'average' is boring and they would rather describe themselves as curvy than average.
For what its worth, I wpuld not consider 12-14 as 'curvy'. That would be average in my view, with 10-12 as athletic and 14-16-18 as curvy. But I am one person and everyones brain and perceptions work slightly differently. |
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I agree the descriptions available aren’t always the best.
For you Little Miss Sassy, and after looking at your rather sexy pics I would put you as curvy. I’d say you are too slim for that.
In the fab terms I’ve seen I’d put you as average as you are slimmer than curvy. But average doesn’t sound right either because I think you look stunning. |
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For what its worth, I wpuld not consider 12-14 as 'curvy'. That would be average in my view, with 10-12 as athletic and 14-16-18 as curvy. But I am one person and everyones brain and perceptions work slightly differently."
I don’t think sizes are a true reflection of how slim,curvy or large a woman Is be cause a 5”2 woman In a size 12/14 dress is going to look totally different on a woman who’s 5”8 in a size 12/14 dress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The shape thing is subjective as everyone sees it differently.
If you've photos not sure how much the description of shape matters anyways you could always add a description to your profile.
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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I like to think I have an athletic build after going to the gym for so long but I know at my age that isn't really possible. I have saggy bits and a bit of a belly that I can never get rid of.
Overall I'd say I have a dad bod and because of that I have average on my profile.
I see guys in the gym around my age who I'd say we're athletic, but they probably wouldn't say they were athletic either. |
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Think its a difficult thing to assess yourself at times
I have curvy ( but in all the wrong places )
Some ladies i have seen have curvy but id say there average
Plus everyone sees others different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it the only thing on the profile that is subjective is our build size
What one person regards as athletic another might say slim
We put our age, height, sexual orientation etc
These are facts but then we get to chose average, curvy, fabulous
I would say i was curvy at a size 12-14 is that accurate ? "
Sassy you have probably put it the best way it could be described on here 
Me personally
I think, I change between curvy to average, subject to each persons view of me.
but best way to describe myself is:
'Good to look at body wise but upstairs is Brain Dead but needs stimulated to articulate'  |
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"Think its a difficult thing to assess yourself at times
I have curvy ( but in all the wrong places )
Some ladies i have seen have curvy but id say there average
Plus everyone sees others different "
Exactly So why is it there at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it the only thing on the profile that is subjective is our build size
What one person regards as athletic another might say slim
We put our age, height, sexual orientation etc
These are facts but then we get to chose average, curvy, fabulous
I would say i was curvy at a size 12-14 is that accurate ? "
You put down what you are most comfortable with, it’s your profile and your body  |
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