The girl becomes the centre of attention whilst her partner shares her with other guys/ girls or just watches, or you split up and she plays with lots of guys whilst the man plays with other girls in the same room, or you opt for a private room with as many guys as you wish to invite. Or you go to separate rooms to play with others. It depends what you wish to do as a couple. |
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"The girl becomes the centre of attention whilst her partner shares her with other guys/ girls or just watches, or you split up and she plays with lots of guys whilst the man plays with other girls in the same room, or you opt for a private room with as many guys as you wish to invite. Or you go to separate rooms to play with others. It depends what you wish to do as a couple. "
Exactly
That's how it works.... |
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"The girl becomes the centre of attention whilst her partner shares her with other guys/ girls or just watches, or you split up and she plays with lots of guys whilst the man plays with other girls in the same room, or you opt for a private room with as many guys as you wish to invite. Or you go to separate rooms to play with others. It depends what you wish to do as a couple. "
Thanks, that's really helpful. Maybe the private room sounds more appealing where you can at least be selective about who you invite. Couldn't think of anything worse than a free for all where people you wouldn't choose to play with can just touch indiscriminately |
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"The girl becomes the centre of attention whilst her partner shares her with other guys/ girls or just watches, or you split up and she plays with lots of guys whilst the man plays with other girls in the same room, or you opt for a private room with as many guys as you wish to invite. Or you go to separate rooms to play with others. It depends what you wish to do as a couple.
Thanks, that's really helpful. Maybe the private room sounds more appealing where you can at least be selective about who you invite. Couldn't think of anything worse than a free for all where people you wouldn't choose to play with can just touch indiscriminately "
You can tell people to keep their distance. Only invite those you fancy to get up close and personal x |
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"The girl becomes the centre of attention whilst her partner shares her with other guys/ girls or just watches, or you split up and she plays with lots of guys whilst the man plays with other girls in the same room, or you opt for a private room with as many guys as you wish to invite. Or you go to separate rooms to play with others. It depends what you wish to do as a couple.
Thanks, that's really helpful. Maybe the private room sounds more appealing where you can at least be selective about who you invite. Couldn't think of anything worse than a free for all where people you wouldn't choose to play with can just touch indiscriminately
You can tell people to keep their distance. Only invite those you fancy to get up close and personal x"
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Oh you can say No to anyone, that’s where your partners strength is, the first time he should be spotting for you and telling the guys no. We have a discussion before I play and my partner always knows the guys I don’t want to play with so he tells them if they come close. I’ve also said No during play and asked guys to stop and they’ve always respected this. I also have some pre agreed hand signals with my partner and if he sees them he’ll intervene and tell a guy to back off or let me breathe You’re always in control of who plays with you. The first time can be quite intimidating as you’re seen as ‘new fresh meat’ and the pack will follow you so your partner needs to be strong and control this/tell them to back off. CJs also has the wonderful Maggie and Nico working upstairs and they keep an eye on what’s going on in the room and will ask if everything’s alright if they see it’s getting a bit busy around you. As far as playing in a public room, head for the couples room at the top of the stairs and get the furthest away bed from the door, your partner goes between you and the wall which means he can see everyone coming towards you. As he has that side covered you then only have guys coming up from the bottom of the bed or the one side and usually it’s harder for them to get in from the side as another girl will be on the next bed. |
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As others have said no means no, I have a strong no and nobody should touch without permission
Maggie would likely batter fuck out them, if 1st time at cjs too likely you’ll be kept a closer eye on too & maggie or nico will continually double check your ok |
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Thanks for reassurance but reading between the lines we're not really sure this will be for us. We'd rather control who we want to join us, not have to continually fight people off. Just the mere thought of being followed is off putting. |
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Hi, I don't think reading between the lines is necessary as imo the information provided is accurate. The venue and staff has great reviews. But absolutely if you want complete control on the environment then a 'public' venue might not be the right place. |
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"Thanks for reassurance but reading between the lines we're not really sure this will be for us. We'd rather control who we want to join us, not have to continually fight people off. Just the mere thought of being followed is off putting."
You still have the choice of who to play with. You can get followed on a Fun For All night as well so it’s not unique to a GG night.
You should go and at least see what it’s like for yourself before making a final decision. |
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"Thanks for reassurance but reading between the lines we're not really sure this will be for us. We'd rather control who we want to join us, not have to continually fight people off. Just the mere thought of being followed is off putting."
I've been to cjs many times (never a gg event) and I've always felt very much in control. I've had gang bangs also but you're right, that couples explanation makes it sound absolutely horrendous |
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"Thanks for reassurance but reading between the lines we're not really sure this will be for us. We'd rather control who we want to join us, not have to continually fight people off. Just the mere thought of being followed is off putting.
I've been to cjs many times (never a gg event) and I've always felt very much in control. I've had gang bangs also but you're right, that couples explanation makes it sound absolutely horrendous "
And that is where the sixth sense kicked in. We'd rather not have to deal with it than gamble it might not happen. Thanks for picking up on that too x |
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"Thanks for reassurance but reading between the lines we're not really sure this will be for us. We'd rather control who we want to join us, not have to continually fight people off. Just the mere thought of being followed is off putting."
You are always in control. You can chat to folk downstairs and invite the people you like to go upstairs with you. Get yourself in a private room and lock the door x |
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"Thanks for reassurance but reading between the lines we're not really sure this will be for us. We'd rather control who we want to join us, not have to continually fight people off. Just the mere thought of being followed is off putting.
You are always in control. You can chat to folk downstairs and invite the people you like to go upstairs with you. Get yourself in a private room and lock the door x"
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"Thanks, that's really helpful. Maybe the private room sounds more appealing where you can at least be selective about who you invite. Couldn't think of anything worse than a free for all where people you wouldn't choose to play with can just touch indiscriminately "
Our thinking, too. |
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"Thanks, that's really helpful. Maybe the private room sounds more appealing where you can at least be selective about who you invite. Couldn't think of anything worse than a free for all where people you wouldn't choose to play with can just touch indiscriminately
Our thinking, too. "
I'm not sure how this thread has got to this....
A greedy girls gang bang is exactly what is says.
But at NO point do people touch without permission it's against CJ's rules.
Yes you might find guys following behind you as you walk through the corridor upstairs but let's be honest that happens on ffa nights also, it's a corridor 
It's cheap enough that you can go and find out for yourself if it's for you or not rather than keep speculating on what it's like as everyone's opinions are going to be different.
But in NO way is it a free for all anything goes.
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