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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
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How would you feel if you had to submit a full body pic before being allowed to attend an event?
Personally it would put me off attending such events as I’d want all my friends to attend and not be judged before being ‘accepted’. |
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"How would you feel if you had to submit a full body pic before being allowed to attend an event?
Personally it would put me off attending such events as I’d want all my friends to attend and not be judged before being ‘accepted’. "
Are you asking hypothetically or are people actually asking for that ?
No i wouldnt as i wouldnt get why full body pic should decide whether i could go to an event or not  |
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"How would you feel if you had to submit a full body pic before being allowed to attend an event?
Personally it would put me off attending such events as I’d want all my friends to attend and not be judged before being ‘accepted’. "
No I wouldn't fancy that would feel really judged, although happy with how I look,I think waiting for a reply after sending would feel horrid, like when the judges on x factor used to sit at the table with all the pictures and select who was desirable, then arriving feeling more nervous than ever predicted  na it's difficult enough |
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over a year ago
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If it’s a private party I think it’s ok to ask. Some people prefer slim and some prefer curvy. Why would you invite someone to your party that you aren’t physically attracted to?
I don’t think it’s much different from asking for face pics and saying you don’t like gingers or bald or beards. If people go out their way to organise and host an event then it’s up to them who comes along and matches their preferences. |
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Depends on the kind of event you mean !?
If it’s a private play meet party then I guess it’s totally upto the hosts the type of people they want there as I’m guessing they only want to play with people with a certain body type .
If it’s just a social event then it shouldn’t really matter . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Does that even get asked? I don’t think it would be the best responded to demand tbh.
I’d say the wanting to see verifications is the best and more approachable way for event organisers to vet people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does that even get asked? I don’t think it would be the best responded to demand tbh.
I’d say the wanting to see verifications is the best and more approachable way for event organisers to vet people. "
You must have seen it on here that some people don’t meet others because of who they have met in their veris. Everything is personal choice if you are hosting an event it’s up to you who you invite they don’t need to come lol. If people don’t like it they could host their own events and be more inclusive.
The fact people are taking time to host and event should be welcomed. The more events the better |
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If it’s a private event some one is organising for a set purpose then I could see why they would ask because they might be after a set look. But for socials or clubs then I would definitely not be happy about that as these should be open to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does that even get asked? I don’t think it would be the best responded to demand tbh.
I’d say the wanting to see verifications is the best and more approachable way for event organisers to vet people.
You must have seen it on here that some people don’t meet others because of who they have met in their veris. Everything is personal choice if you are hosting an event it’s up to you who you invite they don’t need to come lol. If people don’t like it they could host their own events and be more inclusive.
The fact people are taking time to host and event should be welcomed. The more events the better "
I’ve just taken it as a social event chum, I get where you are coming from. That being said, with the majority of society having a fragile opinion of their own body image, it would potentially put some off. For example, I fit between athletic and average, I’d lean more towards average but if I had hoped to go to an event, sent a photo and was told I wasn’t athletic enough, it would be a bitter one to take. But then again, I guess one persons athletic is another’s dad bod so it’s up in the air really.
Think both sides of the coin are probably valid  |
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You know what regardless of opinions people will always do what they see fit in their own eyes, as I said I'd feel uncomfortable with that but yes in a private party situation I get it, I'd guess you'd like to get as close to your fantasy as you imagined
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"How would you feel if you had to submit a full body pic before being allowed to attend an event?
Personally it would put me off attending such events as I’d want all my friends to attend and not be judged before being ‘accepted’. "
Club in London does this. Decided against it and had a mars bar instead |
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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How would you feel if you had to submit a full body pic before being allowed to attend an event?
Personally it would put me off attending such events as I’d want all my friends to attend and not be judged before being ‘accepted’.
Are you asking hypothetically or are people actually asking for that ?
No i wouldnt as i wouldnt get why full body pic should decide whether i could go to an event or not "
For a recent event the organisers were asking for this. |
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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If it’s a private party I think it’s ok to ask. Some people prefer slim and some prefer curvy. Why would you invite someone to your party that you aren’t physically attracted to?
I don’t think it’s much different from asking for face pics and saying you don’t like gingers or bald or beards. If people go out their way to organise and host an event then it’s up to them who comes along and matches their preferences. "
This wasn’t for a private party. It was for an event. |
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"If it’s a private party I think it’s ok to ask. Some people prefer slim and some prefer curvy. Why would you invite someone to your party that you aren’t physically attracted to?
I don’t think it’s much different from asking for face pics and saying you don’t like gingers or bald or beards. If people go out their way to organise and host an event then it’s up to them who comes along and matches their preferences.
This wasn’t for a private party. It was for an event. "
Fuck that  |
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I think it’s pretty disgusting to ask for a full body pic to be allowed to attend an event. The swinging scene is supposed to be accepting of all races, genders, body types, sexual preferences and kinks so this goes against everything I’ve come to love about club visits and events. I understand we all are attracted to different things however hosting an event where you discriminate against people due to body type is shocking and I’ll never attend their events on principle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s pretty disgusting to ask for a full body pic to be allowed to attend an event. The swinging scene is supposed to be accepting of all races, genders, body types, sexual preferences and kinks so this goes against everything I’ve come to love about club visits and events. I understand we all are attracted to different things however hosting an event where you discriminate against people due to body type is shocking and I’ll never attend their events on principle "
The swinging scene is one of the most judgemental scenes you will come across. |
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Not for me I was told I couldn't go to an event because I wouldn't fit in, when I questioned it I was ignored I later found out its cause I'm too large
In my opinion it's bang out of order and shouldn't be allowed |
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"Not for me I was told I couldn't go to an event because I wouldn't fit in, when I questioned it I was ignored I later found out its cause I'm too large
In my opinion it's bang out of order and shouldn't be allowed "
Leaving aside how that must have made you feel, why shouldn't it be allowed? |
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"How would you feel if you had to submit a full body pic before being allowed to attend an event?
Personally it would put me off attending such events as I’d want all my friends to attend and not be judged before being ‘accepted’. "
Wouldn't bother me... At least people would then see what they are getting  |
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