It’s something I really wanna do but I’m having a hard time finding the right guy. Plenty have expressed an interest but they then treat me like some weird horny bloke, sending me pictures of their gaping buttholes, telling me they’re a little slut who needs punished, putting it on me by going “I bet you’d love to..” when they’re a literal stranger I know nothing about. Often with no pictures and no profile written out.
It’s an extremely intimate act which is what makes it hot, I get zero pleasure from simply poking about a strangers bumhole |
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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"It’s something I really wanna do but I’m having a hard time finding the right guy. Plenty have expressed an interest but they then treat me like some weird horny bloke, sending me pictures of their gaping buttholes, telling me they’re a little slut who needs punished, putting it on me by going “I bet you’d love to..” when they’re a literal stranger I know nothing about. Often with no pictures and no profile written out.
It’s an extremely intimate act which is what makes it hot, I get zero pleasure from simply poking about a strangers bumhole"
I hear ya sister, some of the messages I’ve had are so disrespectful! And oh dear god, seriously why would anyone send a pic of a gaping butthole. Urgh!!
There are definitely some great guys out there that enjoy it without it being a dominatrix type dynamic. I have no interest in punishing anyone, that’s not my kinda thing, it’s just a different way to have sex for me.
Feel free to send me a message if you want to chat sometime. |
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"I hear ya sister, some of the messages I’ve had are so disrespectful! And oh dear god, seriously why would anyone send a pic of a gaping butthole. Urgh!!
There are definitely some great guys out there that enjoy it without it being a dominatrix type dynamic. I have no interest in punishing anyone, that’s not my kinda thing, it’s just a different way to have sex for me.
Feel free to send me a message if you want to chat sometime."
(Plz excuse all the deletes, having a hard time with the formatting aha been a while since I used a forum)
After reading your profile, I think I love you. You’ve hit the nail on the head with the part about it not being about emasculation. I couldn’t quite pin point it but it’s exactly that. And they think emasculation means feminisation and their idea of feminisation is always deeply misogynistic.
See I know the butthole thing is common for gay men although the ones I’ve asked have always told me they don’t find close up pics off buttholes sexy. I dunno if they’re lying, I just happen to know the ones not into it, or if it’s more of a code, like an up front way of saying you wanna be penetrated. Either way, ain’t no woman strumming away at the sight of that |
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"It’s something I really wanna do but I’m having a hard time finding the right guy. Plenty have expressed an interest but they then treat me like some weird horny bloke, sending me pictures of their gaping buttholes, telling me they’re a little slut who needs punished, putting it on me by going “I bet you’d love to..” when they’re a literal stranger I know nothing about. Often with no pictures and no profile written out.
It’s an extremely intimate act which is what makes it hot, I get zero pleasure from simply poking about a strangers bumhole"
Fair point. What would constitute "the right guy" for you?
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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Now this is something for a trusted friend or someone who you trust and is into it. Love to try this but need to get to know the person. "
Interesting that mention trust and knowing a person before you try it. I may be wrong, but I’m gonna assume that need less trust and don’t need to the person so well for regular sex. Why is that do you think? |
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Well maybe I've phrased it wrong but for want to try being pegged like to at least know the person for that situation. Never tried it before so like to know whom ever it happens with are just going to nail me hammer and tongs lol . |
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By *melfCouple
over a year ago
Stoneybridge |
"Well maybe I've phrased it wrong but for want to try being pegged like to at least know the person for that situation. Never tried it before so like to know whom ever it happens with are just going to nail me hammer and tongs lol . "
Hammer and tongs is good, just not for the first time.  |
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"Now this is something for a trusted friend or someone who you trust and is into it. Love to try this but need to get to know the person. "
Definitely need to know and trust the other person x |
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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
It’s a real shame more women aren’t into it. There’s so many guys out there that enjoy it or want to try it.
It’s definitely seems to be getting more popular, almost hetero normative and that suits me just fine. Having a female pegging partner in crime would be fun  |
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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Just added a new pegging video...
We love it
Damn it, now I want a cock that lights up
If i ever get lucky I’d like it to light up and play a tune too .   "
Well it’s never gonna give you a happy ending, so it might as well play a fanfare or something |
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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Never tried it but I always wander why called pegging 
I have a very thorough answer to this here...
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1356416"
Thanks for this
Funny to think that I was pegging guys before it even had a name
Glad there’s more guys around these days that are open to it. I used to get some priceless reactions years ago. |
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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"I’m still wanting to try eventually but I don’t think I’d be confident enough. There’s far too many things I’d worry about"
I wouldn’t worry about it too much, it’s no biggie. Just chill and go with the flow |
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By *oight68Man
over a year ago
inverclyde |
Ive lived being pegged over the last 10 years as ex wife wouldnt wven dream of it. Theres plenty of women i can thank for making this happen time and time again even feminized by few women to serve them. Hope for plenty more. |
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