So, someone sends you a Wink. You're interested so send a wee message to say hello and reference something in their profile etc.
They read the message and then...nothing.
Canny comprehend that one myself  |
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I have had this with the same lack of response (in fact the last one the message was never read) But you just have to put your big boy pants on and move on. Single blokes are a massive majority here so the single ladies and couples have loads of messages and even more choices. |
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over a year ago
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It is just not you.
As a couple we get winks from other couples.. we wink back to let them know of our interest or message them and hear nothing.
It's FAB.. you just move on although sometimes they reply months later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It could have been that your message was shite, as brutal and crap as that sounds, maybe you tried too hard or warbled pish. We have all been guilty of it, I sure have.
It’s fab mate, don’t overthink it. Just one of those things that happen  |
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"I had a couple wink at me, I winked back then they added me as a friend. I then messaged them to say thank you for the invite....nothing back so I deleted my message. "
They just wanted to look at your pics |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"I had a couple wink at me, I winked back then they added me as a friend. I then messaged them to say thank you for the invite....nothing back so I deleted my message.
They just wanted to look at your pics "
I have more public than private. The mind boggles.  |
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"I had a couple wink at me, I winked back then they added me as a friend. I then messaged them to say thank you for the invite....nothing back so I deleted my message.
They just wanted to look at your pics
I have more public than private. The mind boggles. "
People are strange |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"I had a couple wink at me, I winked back then they added me as a friend. I then messaged them to say thank you for the invite....nothing back so I deleted my message.
They just wanted to look at your pics
I have more public than private. The mind boggles.
People are strange "
On a plus note I got to perv, eh eh admire their photos.  |
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"So, someone sends you a Wink. You're interested so send a wee message to say hello and reference something in their profile etc.
They read the message and then...nothing.
Canny comprehend that one myself "
perhaps the wink was accidental or maybe they didn’t like the context of your messages .
Or maybe they winked because they liked the look of your profile but weren’t looking to meet at that point .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got winked a few weeks back by a couple, so I winked back and started chatting, They then proceeded to tell me everything that was wrong with me,and insult me ,im not reporting but have since blocked,still a bit pissed with that behaviour even now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep get that stuff all the time , especially from couples. They contact me first and then blank me if I reply
Had one of those yesterday"
Can't understand why they wouldn't want to reply to you both, especially after first contact. Seems strange.  |
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I use them as a way of showing interest ,if I get a return one I'll drop a message to introduce myself if nothing ...hell that's fab, I'm learning to just leave the perogative to them if I've winked back in interest ,heh it's fab |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"I had a couple wink at me, I winked back then they added me as a friend. I then messaged them to say thank you for the invite....nothing back so I deleted my message.
They just wanted to look at your pics "
Thanks to you and the others.
I don’t have ‘couples’ as a preference just women and have had a couple of wink - wink sort of things and no messages from them and I couldn’t work out what it was all about |
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"Yep get that stuff all the time , especially from couples. They contact me first and then blank me if I reply
Had one of those yesterday
Can't understand why they wouldn't want to reply to you both, especially after first contact. Seems strange. "
They weren't even local to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve had this with a few couples. They wink. We wink back. Then nothing. Maybe they have a different interpretation of what a wink is.
Can’t all be clicking wink by mistake. "
Happens a fair bit, if we wink and no-one replies, no problem, but if we receive a wink, we always wink back, then mostly nothing. A bit strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a bit annoying if a couple wink us, we return their wink then..nothing. It’s as if they want us to do all the running. I think if you wink someone, they wink back then it’s up to you to follow that up with a message? |
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over a year ago
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We get it alot. We'll usually wink back and send a wee message saying tha k you for the wink lovelies. Latest one viewed us three times, winked, we sent the above. They then viewed another twice and then deleted and blocked  must of been one shit come down they were on |
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"I got winked a few weeks back by a couple, so I winked back and started chatting, They then proceeded to tell me everything that was wrong with me,and insult me ,im not reporting but have since blocked,still a bit pissed with that behaviour even now "
Snap. I wonder if it was the same couple. I blinked first to reveal face, they then started going on about 'we now control YOU' fucking odd. |
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"I had a couple wink at me, I winked back then they added me as a friend. I then messaged them to say thank you for the invite....nothing back so I deleted my message.
They just wanted to look at your pics
I have more public than private. The mind boggles.
People are strange "
when you're a stranger? |
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