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Looking for local fab friends for socials and more
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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago
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Im a single mum and work full time.i have social anxiety but have really enjoyed pushing myself and going to arranged group socials.id like to meet more people (females,males.couples) locally for friendship/socials and start enjoying the social side of fab getting out and having a laugh.im in west lothian |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social
Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man  "
Agreed! I always arrange a social first and if they can't be bothered then it's a definite red flag for me!   |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social
Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man
Agreed! I always arrange a social first and if they can't be bothered then it's a definite red flag for me! "
100% …. I like to check they are not a serial killer first  |
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over a year ago
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I am always up and looking for socials,as I do suffer from depression,so I have been well outside my zone but ,I did realise lots of folk are in the same boat.plus we all love more friendships |
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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The socials organised by Pinkandlittlemiss have been brilliant for me and I've now got a wonderful group of fab friends. So much so, a group of us went to Blackpool and another group of us are heading to Leeds next month. There's also the plans of a weekend together in November!
Aww can I come for a weekend away from S x"
Hope u both have a fun naughty time at the weekend away |
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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago
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Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social
Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man
Agreed! I always arrange a social first and if they can't be bothered then it's a definite red flag for me!
100% …. I like to check they are not a serial killer first "
Aye socials in a public place |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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"Im a single mum and work full time.i have social anxiety but have really enjoyed pushing myself and going to arranged group socials.id like to meet more people (females,males.couples) locally for friendship/socials and start enjoying the social side of fab getting out and having a laugh.im in west lothian "
Thank you for this, I  a social and meeting new people and this has resulted in a quite a few new connections! |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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"Sharing is caring .
Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto "
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal! |
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"Sharing is caring .
Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal! "
Did someone mention Haribo??  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"Sharing is caring .
Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal! "
You drive a hard bargain |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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"Sharing is caring .
Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal!
Did someone mention Haribo?? "
Got to be the giant strawberry one's though! |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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"Sharing is caring .
Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal!
You drive a hard bargain "
100%! Go big or go home! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sharing is caring .
Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal!
Did someone mention Haribo?? "
I'll definitely bring you more Haribo |
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"I’m always up for a social, love meeting new people and having a laugh, I’ll bring the custard creams haha
One of my fav"
Yeah everyone loves a wee custard cream,
Do you spilt them in half to eat them? |
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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m always up for a social, love meeting new people and having a laugh, I’ll bring the custard creams haha
One of my fav
Yeah everyone loves a wee custard cream,
Do you spilt them in half to eat them?"
Na just eat them |
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"I agree Finding red flags before a meet/social or just after having 1 is the way forward . . And the social does help you find people u get a great chemistry with
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It's the best way. Plus if free time allows you get to see different locations.
The coffee always tastes better with company |
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I would love to make new friends and contacts, im too much of a shitebag to go to AD etc so a daytime social for walks, coffee or dare I suggest this, a run would definitely be up my alley and help me build those relationships.
I mean I’ve got a pret subscription so I do love a coffee haha
So I’m here if you need a back up back up back up back up back up friend haha
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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thank you to every1 replying. As an adult it is hard to make new friends(with social anxiety its harm to put myself out there) coffee cake a walk all sounds great and meeting new people that are like minded is def what i need |
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Its always got to be a social first for me. Breaks the ice and no awkwardness. If the chemistry is there, the second meet is much better. You cant force the chemistry - if its not there its not happening!! |
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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Its always got to be a social first for me. Breaks the ice and no awkwardness. If the chemistry is there, the second meet is much better. You cant force the chemistry - if its not there its not happening!!"
Alot of mine are massage meets to start as they break the ice .but i want to do social side |
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Outside your age range re fun, which is fine, but would happily meet for social if you’d like. Similar to other posts I’m always up for cuppa and cake, I also enjoy cinema, theatre, gigs etc. it’s a good social scene in glasgow, keep an eye on the forum for organised socials as they are quite regular usually at least one a month often more. |
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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Outside your age range re fun, which is fine, but would happily meet for social if you’d like. Similar to other posts I’m always up for cuppa and cake, I also enjoy cinema, theatre, gigs etc. it’s a good social scene in glasgow, keep an eye on the forum for organised socials as they are quite regular usually at least one a month often more. "
Im never in glasgow .i go to the arranged socials in edinburgh |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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"Crazy golf is absolutely great idea.
I would love to meet people and talk as being roaming alone in city got boring.
Any planned event for social in Glasgow, im happy to attend and make friends "
Therea6a social event next month for crazy golf but think it's sold out. Always a good idea to keep an eye out here for events |
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over a year ago
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I'd be up for a 1:1 social - coffee and cake is good as is a walk in the park,10 pin bowling I'm crap at, but enjoy playing and I'm easily gubbed if you're competitive!  |
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"I'd be up for a 1:1 social - coffee and cake is good as is a walk in the park,10 pin bowling I'm crap at, but enjoy playing and I'm easily gubbed if you're competitive! "
Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro. |
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Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro."
I'm unable to comment re CJs as I'm not a swinger. As to not originally being from Scotland, I would hope that shouldn't be a downfall of any sort. |
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We are a local couple who also love a good social. We are not the most confident couple and its important for us to feel comfortable with someone. Its also lovely just having a drink of coffee with someone who you are not necesarily going to play with. Its good just to be in touch with folk who share our naughty hobby! A lot of people in our society dont understand this lifestyle and how much fun it can be. Even if we are not each others type its good to be in touch! |
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Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro.
I'm unable to comment re CJs as I'm not a swinger. As to not originally being from Scotland, I would hope that shouldn't be a downfall of any sort. "
It's the same when you move to any new country no previous network of friends, and without obvious meeting points such as work nowadays for many its tricky to assimilate. |
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Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro."
Not sure I agree with that.
If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates.
If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone.
When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play? |
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Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro.
Not sure I agree with that.
If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates.
If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone.
When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play? "
Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here.
CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough.
So walk and cake it is! |
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Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro.
Not sure I agree with that.
If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates.
If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone.
When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play?
Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here.
CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough.
So walk and cake it is!"
I'm not local, so i know how it feels. It's hard moving to a different town, let alone a different country. I still struggle a bit where I am now, even after having lived here for 13 years. I think it gets harder to "make friends" the older we get as well. On the countdown now to move back to where I was before we moved to the Borders and hopefully will feel more at home again.
The fab socials are a fantastic way to meet lots of people and a good excuses to get out away for a while. And so are the swingers clubs, but I never go expecting sex to avoid disappointment if it doesn't happen.
Hope you've settled in well in Perth and don't write off the clubs just yet |
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Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro.
Not sure I agree with that.
If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates.
If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone.
When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play?
Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here.
CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough.
So walk and cake it is!
I'm not local, so i know how it feels. It's hard moving to a different town, let alone a different country. I still struggle a bit where I am now, even after having lived here for 13 years. I think it gets harder to "make friends" the older we get as well. On the countdown now to move back to where I was before we moved to the Borders and hopefully will feel more at home again.
The fab socials are a fantastic way to meet lots of people and a good excuses to get out away for a while. And so are the swingers clubs, but I never go expecting sex to avoid disappointment if it doesn't happen.
Hope you've settled in well in Perth and don't write off the clubs just yet "
*good excuse |
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Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man.
A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro.
Not sure I agree with that.
If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates.
If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone.
When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play?
Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here.
CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough.
So walk and cake it is!
I'm not local, so i know how it feels. It's hard moving to a different town, let alone a different country. I still struggle a bit where I am now, even after having lived here for 13 years. I think it gets harder to "make friends" the older we get as well. On the countdown now to move back to where I was before we moved to the Borders and hopefully will feel more at home again.
The fab socials are a fantastic way to meet lots of people and a good excuses to get out away for a while. And so are the swingers clubs, but I never go expecting sex to avoid disappointment if it doesn't happen.
Hope you've settled in well in Perth and don't write off the clubs just yet "
Hi Pringles, that's great to hear, thanks for your kind advice. Better wander back to CJs. . ... |
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