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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot "
Lets stop playing games with each other OP I like you and you like me haha :P
But yeah I know what you mean but I guess some people are good at showing how open they are more than others, I try to make the move if interested and deal with it gracefully if there not.
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"Yeah I can relate. Maybe someone should list all the signs for us for yeah they do and nah they don't. Would make a great forum thread hopey  "
You'd be quicker reading the Encyclopedia Britannica. |
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"Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot "
I think we are related Hahaha I could've wrote that  |
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"Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot "
This is my life haha! |
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"What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room 
Being direct always works for me one way or the other  "
Yip. They would need be to this direct with me. I dont pick up on subtle hints. Just think folknare being friendly. Plus I'm shite at flirting! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room
Being direct always works for me one way or the other
Yip. They would need be to this direct with me. I dont pick up on subtle hints. Just think folknare being friendly. Plus I'm shite at flirting!"
Yea that's fair enough, always two sides to the coin  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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One side has to pluck up the courage to start a conversation and ask them out for a coffee or a drink. I was asked out for lunch a few weeks ago and it’s now going really well.
The opposite is also true. I try to let people down gently but if they don’t get the hint they end up blocked. There’s no need to send offensive messages just because I’m not interested which is what often happens. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Politeness costs nothing I'm a great believer in treat others as you would like to be treated "
Which is what I do try when letting people down if they ask to meet but like a lot of women on here you get a barrage of abuse because you’ve said ‘no’. That’s why many just delete the messages or block people. Guys don’t seem to accept that they aren’t attractive to everyone. |
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I'm just no good at picking up interest ,I can take bugger off hints ,softly or harshly I see it coming but in the other direction I'm not good , I just get lost in conversation a good chat can be inspiring so much you get stuck in there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room
Being direct always works for me one way or the other
Yip. They would need be to this direct with me. I dont pick up on subtle hints. Just think folknare being friendly. Plus I'm shite at flirting!"
Same I tend to think people are just being friendly. |
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