Just a bit of a role call for all those active members in the scene here as we surely must have missed some people . The scene seems incredibly quiet compared to Edinburgh ect or people are reluctant to meet incase you know them . |
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Hi Curious AK - you’ve looked at my profile a few times. I can’t message you as I’m effectively blocked although you say you’re looking for a bi curious male. Ping me a private message if you fancy a chat x |
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"Just a bit of a role call for all those active members in the scene here as we surely must have missed some people . The scene seems incredibly quiet compared to Edinburgh ect or people are reluctant to meet incase you know them . "
There are plenty of willing participants in and around Carlisle but for us clubs are far easier and much less hassle. |
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Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “
Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right  |
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By *rMisterMan 26 weeks ago
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"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “
Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right "
Not sure if you are aware of 'fishing'. I live in the boarder region, been here for 17 years , it's a small place, everyone knows each other so people shy away. It was very vibrant 10 years ago with house parties, 1 to 1 dogging etc. Then a friend got into problem, just a neighbourhood dispute but made it in the local news with mention of nasty things like selling his wife etc. Everyone since went underground, many just travel to Blackpool or Manchester clubs all the time, some do fishing  .
Fishing is basically to come to fab, have a few meets, build reliable network of contacts then either delete the profile or hide it, then meet the contacts regularly using WhatsApp etc. So there are still plenty of swingers in the area, just not on fab. Some do come back to replenish their contact list and disappear again when they have enough. |
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By *uffinMan 26 weeks ago
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Borders is scary - everyone knows each other in one way or another. Hell I know at least 4 people who don't realise I know they are here, nor do I want them to know about me....
The ladies also seem to avoid the guys and couples don't want single guys unless your well fit. Hmm I'd like to know some who are open and can be trusted even for the odd game of strip poker but I'd probably end up with a mates neighbour or sister n law.
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Most borders folk I arrange meets with cancel and make excuses..
Don't bother now and go to club Shhh these days or meet Edinburgh/Glasgow areas..
I've seen several folk in their day to day life and don't care. It's ment to be discreet fun after all... |
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"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “
Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right
Sounds like legitimate swinging Vs the fraud version typical on the site
Not sure if you are aware of 'fishing'. I live in the boarder region, been here for 17 years , it's a small place, everyone knows each other so people shy away. It was very vibrant 10 years ago with house parties, 1 to 1 dogging etc. Then a friend got into problem, just a neighbourhood dispute but made it in the local news with mention of nasty things like selling his wife etc. Everyone since went underground, many just travel to Blackpool or Manchester clubs all the time, some do fishing .
Fishing is basically to come to fab, have a few meets, build reliable network of contacts then either delete the profile or hide it, then meet the contacts regularly using WhatsApp etc. So there are still plenty of swingers in the area, just not on fab. Some do come back to replenish their contact list and disappear again when they have enough. "
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"Most borders folk I arrange meets with cancel and make excuses..
Don't bother now and go to club Shhh these days or meet Edinburgh/Glasgow areas..
I've seen several folk in their day to day life and don't care. It's ment to be discreet fun after all..."
Club shhh is cool  |
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"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “
Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right "
Would you want to meet your sister on here! |
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I'm here in the bleak dark hinterland of South Lanarkshire. Across the moor the vast Upper Clydesdale emptiness nudges up against the disinterested end of Dumfries & Galloway. While on the other side of the moor, Scottish Borders simply runs out of any useful comparative paradigm.
Please help. |
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