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Initial Messsage on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve found that if someone writes a message and you can see they have taken the time to read your profile. Use common sense on whether they have the wants of the person. Eg height, build, or similar interests and it’s not copied and pasted I try to always give a response. It’s polite even if it’s just a no thanks.
Short messages or dick pics tend not to gain my interest and I’ll just delete them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ugly fingernails and ugly feet . Dealbreaker
John... You on the sauce pal? Is this not meant for the turn offs thread?"
Ah been a long day….. still …… got a response mind you
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"Ugly fingernails and ugly feet . Dealbreaker
John... You on the sauce pal? Is this not meant for the turn offs thread?
Ah been a long day….. still …… got a response mind you
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Dopey bastards who post on the wrong threads |
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I always check out someone profile and at a glance, I would pass you by.
Since you didn't ask for profile advice I can't comment on specifics.
As for messages. Avoid dick pics especially on first messages and profiles. Show you read their profile, maybe comment on something they've said.
Jump into the forums. They're a great place to meet people and it can easily segue into a private chat through some of the games. Much more natural that way. |
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"You could do with a name change too
Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities.
I go Commando so one less piece of clothing to take off  "
I heard it was to air your arsehole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could do with a name change too
Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities.
I go Commando so one less piece of clothing to take off "
You must be on the wrong thread too . And going commando means if you follow through there’s no way back |
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"And the OPs advice will never get to him thank to hijacking of his thread asking for genuine advice. No wonder some people never come back to the forums."
He can read all of the advice that's been given.
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"You could do with a name change too
Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities.
I go Commando so one less piece of clothing to take off
You must be on the wrong thread too . And going commando means if you follow through there’s no way back "
That's very true. I never pull out, that's why they call me Daddy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the OPs advice will never get to him thank to hijacking of his thread asking for genuine advice. No wonder some people never come back to the forums."
That's a bit grumpy
Some people don't use the forums because they're boring and no fun. |
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Why do feel the need to describe yourself as professional, anyone in paid employment is professional. Also zero pictures is an instant red flag, there are plenty of men with pics to choose instead. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do feel the need to describe yourself as professional, anyone in paid employment is professional. Also zero pictures is an instant red flag, there are plenty of men with pics to choose instead."
Good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do feel the need to describe yourself as professional, anyone in paid employment is professional. Also zero pictures is an instant red flag, there are plenty of men with pics to choose instead.
Good point "
Backtracking now ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve found that if someone writes a message and you can see they have taken the time to read your profile. Use common sense on whether they have the wants of the person. Eg height, build, or similar interests and it’s not copied and pasted I try to always give a response. It’s polite even if it’s just a no thanks.
Short messages or dick pics tend not to gain my interest and I’ll just delete them "
We will second this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please? "
Always lead with FAF ,and deffo put a picture of your penis in the first message,and just to seal the deal,send them a friend's request right away.
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"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please?
Ok, look man I’m not the type to go two footed into other guys as I am a single guy here too so I can relate to some of the issues. Some fems and couples have blocked me and called me out for often trying to sympathise which is fair enough.
That being said, no matter what you send in a message, your profile ruins it. That profile is shite matey. Fab is easy, there’s loads of lovely friendly people here, they just ask that some effort is put in.
Your profile photo is a good one, your dick pic is utterly disgusting, pure sweaty pubes and all. I’d honestly suggest you go with the faceless shadow as a profile photo and out the suit one as a public image rather than what you have. You won’t be successful if you don’t change these things up fella and I mean this all in the best way possible "
How the fuck did I miss the sweaty pubes pic?! I'm losing my touch on here. |
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If you can fuse just the correct amount of empathy, a dash of humour, a hint of intrigue, mystery, self-deprecation and perhaps a small titlating addition, then attach a face pic showing a rugged, chiseled coupon with a cheeky grin and a glint in your eye, then you're chances of success will rise to around 2%.
It's no worth it, mate. Just do you. |
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By *eg2509Woman
over a year ago
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Hey OP, if I receive an initial message that has an interesting photo attached I will have a look at their profile. So that’s the initial attraction. I’ve gone in for a look at your profile and I have to say it needs work. We ladies receive numerous D picks per day, I have to say that some of them are cracking pics with tidy pubes and a nice clean looking cock. Your pic shows longer pubes and your cock is wet with pre jiz or something. It’s not a great look - IMO.
I guess what I’m saying is, you could have the best introduction ever but spoil it with no profile pic, awful profile content and a greasy looking cock |
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"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please? "
I don't think there is an easy answer as everyone is different
For us
Will meet now
Is a no thanks
Or al shag Ur Mrs for you
No thanks
Or rude
For us
We like honest
What you are looking for social,or more
When you are free
Few messages
See if you are similar
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to see your advice to the guy trying to tell the woman with the baggy fanny he didn't feel anything. That was all "be tactful and let her down gently" "the truth isn't always the best if it hurts a person's feelings".
Well played mate. Well played"
Oh man that’s easy, the guy just decides not to be a nasty bastard and says no to any future meets with said woman as perhaps he didn’t feel the chemistry.
I sadly didn’t get your sarcasm  |
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