I don’t know if it’s just me but I have some extra nerves about having meets. I am a pretty big girl and just worried about rejection. It’s sort of put the breaks on things lately but I’d love to know if there’s anyone else feeling the same.
Keen to organise a meet maybe with other plus size women/men or couples. |
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Some people like a curvier women even if they are not in the same breath you get curvier woman who don't like that so it depends on the person.
By looks of your profile you have nothing to worry about |
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We are all beautiful in our own way and we can't please everyone and it's a waste of time and energy wishing we could  I knew guys who liked curvy girls only so get on with meeting |
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"I don’t know if it’s just me but I have some extra nerves about having meets. I am a pretty big girl and just worried about rejection. It’s sort of put the breaks on things lately but I’d love to know if there’s anyone else feeling the same.
Keen to organise a meet maybe with other plus size women/men or couples. "
Dont worry about those who don’t won’t to meet you just concentrate on those who do.
You will always have people who’s preferences are for slimmer women but as they have their preferences so do you !
Just have fun !! |
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Don't let other people's perception of you stop you from meeting.
I'd say there's probably plenty of people on here who like 'bigger' women. Women with curves in the right places are incredibly sexy and the ones who own it and are confident with their bodies are even sexier! |
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You're honest about your body type in your profile and your pics give a good idea of your shape and size. Anybody who is contacting you should therefore be attracted to you.
If they're an arsehole about it, tell them to get to fuck. You're not misleading anyone unlike many on here.
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I'm a bigger girl and it definitely put me off getting started. I thought everyone would think I was fat and ugly and there would be loads of embarrassing rejection, but there really hasn't been any.
We are very upfront in our profile about this, but I've actually found swingers to be the most accepting, friendly, least superficial and judgemental group of people ever
I still don't believe it when someone calls me attractive, but its actually really helping my confidence
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Mrs has been put off meets recently until she sheds a couple of lb. Even though she is a fucking sex bomb just as she is. I suppose it's all about feeling confident and comfortable.
I love nothing more than a curvy women, big butt and big boobs  |
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Muffin is exactly the same
We get lots of compliments from admirers of the curvy shape but it’s very hard to accept all the time
We just enjoy the times that the compliments are accepted, play time is even more amazing then. |
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Being skinny doesn't automatically make you good looking. You have pics on your profile so anyone your talking with and is showing interest in you will be attracted. Being confident in your body is the most attractive thing of all, none of this being awkward naked and hiding the bits you don't like |
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"I don’t know if it’s just me but I have some extra nerves about having meets. I am a pretty big girl and just worried about rejection. It’s sort of put the breaks on things lately but I’d love to know if there’s anyone else feeling the same.
Keen to organise a meet maybe with other plus size women/men or couples. "
I had the same worries and honestly, be up front about it. There are people on here for everything and everyone. Some of the men love our curves |
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I've been on and off for years, but it's only recently that I've stopped caring what others may think on here.
I've always been upfront about being a larger lady, and decided it was time to stop hiding behind camera angles etc and put on a pic that backs up my words.
In general the feedback has been positive, which surprised me a bit.
People will always judge regardless, so just enjoy yourself and concentrate on the people who are interested and not the ones who aren't x |
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"I don’t know if it’s just me but I have some extra nerves about having meets. I am a pretty big girl and just worried about rejection. It’s sort of put the breaks on things lately but I’d love to know if there’s anyone else feeling the same.
Keen to organise a meet maybe with other plus size women/men or couples. "
You've got nothing to worry about ,going by your profile pics. Bit of confidence would be all that's needed ?? |
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My advice is get out of your head and enjoy the experience. We are all different. Just because someone is skinny doesn’t make them sexy. I have been all shapes and sizes from size 6 to size 24. In the middle now but I’m happy. I love my body and curves and have has no complaints in the bedroom department. You want to be intimate with them not marry them! They are lucky to be meeting you! Take your power back woman |
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"My advice is get out of your head and enjoy the experience. We are all different. Just because someone is skinny doesn’t make them sexy. I have been all shapes and sizes from size 6 to size 24. In the middle now but I’m happy. I love my body and curves and have has no complaints in the bedroom department. You want to be intimate with them not marry them! They are lucky to be meeting you! Take your power back woman "
This ^^^  |
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