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The Top Ten Rules to Success on Fab
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Spoke to loads of folks on here. Just about all of them talk about experiences they've had and the rules they've set themselves because of them.
So, if there was a top ten of really well advised 'rules' that could be made up based on everyone's experience, what would they be?
I think I'll categorise this into rules for men, women and couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Treat fab like any social media. Sign up to events, share your own photos and talk to friends. The rest of swinging happens in real life
Jigs x "
Follow these rules and you'll be swinging in jig time 
Love a good Dad joke lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you message someone do it as you would in a pub or elsewhere when you want to meet someone..
that is, don't have your dick out, don't ignore anyone, be polite and have fun. "How are you, what you into, can I fuck your mrs" really are not good chat up lines.
Be yourself and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Treat fab like any social media. Sign up to events, share your own photos and talk to friends. The rest of swinging happens in real life
Jigs x "
That’s pretty much the advice to take. I’ve found meeting people in person has been far more rewarding than making opinions based online. Get yourself to the socials chum  |
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"There shouldn’t be any rules for anyone just do you and if you appeal to anyone then ul have a good experience !
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That always irks me - profiles stating "Don't send cock pics, no one-liners, don't be lewd" etc etc. I say don't let those guys conceal their natural instincts. If they really think the aforementioned is a good way to make a good first impression, then training them to behave otherwise is merely opening yourself up to disappointment further down the line.
Block the erses and pick me instead! |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
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Learn the rules of spelling and grammar and write well in messages. If you seek class then come across as classy.
Don’t have a profile without public photos. There is no reason not to have public body photos. It makes some people suspicious as to what you are hiding. |
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1.get get green tick verified
2. If you are intrested read a profile
3. Dont send copy paste mail .every1 is dif and every 1 has dif needs
4. Dont spit the dummy if u get a no to a meet or no reply(women&couples get 100mail a day)
5.dont treat people like esscorts have a bit of respect
6.dont send a dic pic in 1st mail.keep that to ur profike photos . A face photo does really help
7.take a no as a no . No point waiting a few weeks then asking again
8.dont use the words use abuse ruin & slut in mail unless u know that person likes it
9.be patient
10.understand that every 1 has a life outside of fab respect that no1 is sat on their bed 24/7 waiting for mail
Not sure if they apply to every1 |
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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago
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"1.get get green tick verified
2. If you are intrested read a profile
3. Dont send copy paste mail .every1 is dif and every 1 has dif needs
4. Dont spit the dummy if u get a no to a meet or no reply(women&couples get 100mail a day)
5.dont treat people like esscorts have a bit of respect
6.dont send a dic pic in 1st mail.keep that to ur profike photos . A face photo does really help
7.take a no as a no . No point waiting a few weeks then asking again
8.dont use the words use abuse ruin & slut in mail unless u know that person likes it
9.be patient
10.understand that every 1 has a life outside of fab respect that no1 is sat on their bed 24/7 waiting for mail
Not sure if they apply to every1 "
Pretty good list here tbf, definitely agree with what she said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Understand that the person you want, May not be the person you get. It's the equivalent of Gregory's girl, only Clare Grogan may actually be Bill Grogan and you end up rolling with it as they are actually a decent person and make you forget your not supposed to like that type.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Empathy and respect are also important components of niceness. During your day, try to see things from the perspective of the other people on Fab and think about things that we can do to respect their needs. Even if you disagree with what someone else is doing, try to treat them with niceness and respect. There's multiple nice people on here however there's multiple not so nice people at the same time. Being good, kind and respectful costs the same amount as manners. |
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