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Same as leia, I ignore webcam veris. In person veris let me know they turned up and give a general feeling of how the meet went.
I know some have said they hide their verifications to give privacy to those they have met, not sure I entirely understand that one though. |
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By *andN2Couple
over a year ago
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We just use meet veri’s to kinda confirm they are real and genuine. Outside that, what it says doesn’t matter as if you believed what was written then FAB is full of Carlsberg shaggers lol
Webcam veri’s and photo verified we just ignore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do usually check them, one thing give quite a bit of weight to us is who has given them, most specifically, how many other verifications do they have, 1-3 verifications from people with 50+ of there own is almost certain to be legit, 1-3 veris from people also with 1 or 2 only still might not be
To be honest we don’t bother really obtaining or giving then now (unless asked) after get 6 or 7 think the point is proven |
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"How much does a verification count to you when reading bios , do you even read them ,and why do some people choose not to show them??"
As long as they are verified I don’t need to read about all their meets !
I think you know why I don’t display verifications lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only look at verification summary.
Have they actually met and how recently etc. Couples with a constant stream of meet today flags but have a single meet 3 years ago from one male rings the alarm bells.
I really have no interest in the badly written porn that passes for a verification on here quite often  |
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I'll likely skim over them - delving any deeper often serves to give me a complex (see Carlsberg shaggers above), and my insecurities are best kept filed away in dormant brain cells. The way I use Fab; I'm gonna know someone pretty well before I'll even consider taking it to the outernet, anyway - my own verification process beats a third party's.
As for not displaying mine, I'm not party to advertising something that I feel should be kept between the people in question. If you're considering meeting me and my axe, you'd probably best make your own mind up as to my worthiness. One person's Carslberg is another's Tennents. |
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"I know some have said they hide their verifications to give privacy to those they have met, not sure I entirely understand that one though."
Yeah … if someone leaves a veri that implies they want it to be shown. Unless they tell you otherwise!) |
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Think we give more verifications than we receive now and most of ours are social but if we receive one with to much detail to a play meet we don't usually display it just our preference. But we usually do read people's verifications gives a little insight before meeting also let's you know if it's both parts of a couple meeting regularly or just one half |
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I read them, too many time wasters and it’s a start point on whether folk are genuine
I display mine, the ones that aren’t displayed are where people have left and the veri goes too, but not from the summary |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site. "
So anyone with more than 6 veris is a slag?!  |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
So anyone with more than 6 veris is a slag?! "
Hope not |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
So anyone with more than 6 veris is a slag?!
Hope not "
Well I have 32 on show so I must be a right goer!  |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site. "
That's a bit of a generalisation! The vast majority of my veris are from social meets, but according to you, I pass myself around like a used porn mag!  |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
So anyone with more than 6 veris is a slag?!
Hope not
Well I have 32 on show so I must be a right goer! "
What does this say about us we have been verified by 310 people with 192 currently showing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like anything on here we check ourselves and we have been asked on several occasions to verify someone we have never met.
They are important but hate the ones that are like a trip advisor review of sex. The only thing missing is the star ratings. |
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"Most of the messages I get from females mention that they messaged me primarily due to my verifications so I think they're pretty important. "
Seriously!? Maybe that's why I'm missing out. I'm gonna display my best one and wait for the floodgates to open. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
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We don’t meet anyone without at least a couple of in person verifications from other people who also have other verifications. We’ve had too many unverified people who just can’t handle a meet or disappear from the site.
Also we read the veris as there are a few people who only seem to have socials and never play as far as we can see. We also now avoid them too as we are not just here for socials, although we like them. Veris are useful to read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve recently returned and I will still not show my veris. The amount of times over the years I get messages asking about people I’ve met is worrying.
The last straw for me with it was a message from a much older guy asking me how my meet was with a certain female, listing her name, place of work, where she walked her dog and a potential address (thankfully incorrect).
Not too long after she had to get the police involved as he was following her.
So, only the summary is ever shown for me |
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Always surprised by the number of people who say they won't entertain someone who has countless verifications.
You do realise they could be getting rattled every night of the week by a different person and just not post an update to Fab about it? |
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"Always surprised by the number of people who say they won't entertain someone who has countless verifications.
You do realise they could be getting rattled every night of the week by a different person and just not post an update to Fab about it?"
This, nail on the head!! For me veri's should be used for an indication the person is genuine, play by plays are not required ha |
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow Scotland |
I am verified. I don’t show my verifications, purely because I think just because someone may have said x,y and Z about me, doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s going to be that way with someone else. If someone wanted to see some I would show them. The summary as well I don’t think gives a true indication as was pointed out before. I have had fwb that have left the site, come back and verified again under a different name. Not needed but added to the numbers. To the guy who pointed out that over 6 must be sleeping with the site, that’s rubbish. Some people have been on here for years so if that was the case for me it would be an average of 2 a year!
If me not showing a veri stops me meeting then so be it. I Do read veris and I do get put off if I see certain names etc, but I wouldn’t go checking out the profiles of people who have verified them . That’s a bit creepy |
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We post some of ours; if detail is too specific or anything play-related we’ll leave off the displayed list but generally like to show we are still seeing folk or acknowledge a host who’s maybe done an event/social night.
Millie & Ian x |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
So anyone with more than 6 veris is a slag?!
Hope not
Well I have 32 on show so I must be a right goer!
What does this say about us we have been verified by 310 people with 192 currently showing "
Professional? |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site. "
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner. |
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"How much does a verification count to you when reading bios , do you even read them ,and why do some people choose not to show them??"
I have 64 verifications and only choose to show 3 from clubs/ events cause i can and its up to me.. iv had guys message me and ask me about other people who have left me verifications and also had messages from people who have said iv also been mentioned in messages cause they have seen my verifications on others profiles. What I do when I'm with others is my business and if I choose not to tell the whole of fabs members that's my choice simple |
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I've been lucky enough to meet some fantastic people both social and otherwise who were kind enough to verify me.
I think they are important to anyone who is relatively new but maybe not so much after being on here for a while |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner. "
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon. |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon. "
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up. |
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"Always surprised by the number of people who say they won't entertain someone who has countless verifications.
You do realise they could be getting rattled every night of the week by a different person and just not post an update to Fab about it?"
And that's the point
If you feel you NEED to post a review every time you get laid there's a problem there. It's not the getting laid that's the issue.
It's the mentality. |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up. "
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
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Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
That's a bit of a generalisation! The vast majority of my veris are from social meets, but according to you, I pass myself around like a used porn mag! "
That isn't what I said
I said " I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site"
I've seen people with a list of verifications that are from the same 2 people leaving a review everytime they meet. I mean who opens the window after a fuck and tells their neighbours they just had sex lol
I find that equally as weird as ones who have a list from 50 different people all saying "can't wait till the next time " which Apparently never came lol but 50 others did
No ta ill pass on that nonsense
One or two verifications saying the person was real , met , turned up or whatever is all I need
Everything else is a big hint at insecurity to me . |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
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Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
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So why are you here then? And you haven't answered my question. |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
So why are you here then? And you haven't answered my question."
Why am I here? To meet people obviously, which I do regularly.
Sorry apart from that one what was your question? |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that "
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive. |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive. "
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
So anyone with more than 6 veris is a slag?! "
Ah was this your question?
If so that isn't what I wrote.
It's more the NEED to display them that bothers me.
I don't believe anyone here without a huge list of verifications is a virgin.
P.s I don't leave ebay feedbacks either |
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"We don’t meet anyone without at least a couple of in person verifications from other people who also have other verifications. We’ve had too many unverified people who just can’t handle a meet or disappear from the site.
Also we read the veris as there are a few people who only seem to have socials and never play as far as we can see. We also now avoid them too as we are not just here for socials, although we like them. Veris are useful to read. "
Those ones are hilarious too
" had a lovely cup of tea today "
I think covid caused a lot of mental health problems. |
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"How much does a verification count to you when reading bios , do you even read them ,and why do some people choose not to show them??
I have 64 verifications and only choose to show 3 from clubs/ events cause i can and its up to me.. iv had guys message me and ask me about other people who have left me verifications and also had messages from people who have said iv also been mentioned in messages cause they have seen my verifications on others profiles. What I do when I'm with others is my business and if I choose not to tell the whole of fabs members that's my choice simple "
That's classy ?? |
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over a year ago
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I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale . |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive.
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it "
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive.
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it
Deff both!"
Personally I think you have an inferiority complex .
And are deflecting .
Maybe just stop replying as at this point I fail to see what you hope to achieve by it.
You seek attention.
You've had enough of mine. |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive.
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it
Deff both!
Personally I think you have an inferiority complex .
And are deflecting .
Maybe just stop replying as at this point I fail to see what you hope to achieve by it.
You seek attention.
You've had enough of mine. "
Do you keel replying to prove my point?
Maybe you have an inferiority complex due to not getting any verifications for 8 years lol. And don't say its all cus you don't want them. You do come across very bitter and defensive and also with a touch of jealously thrown in. It screams I can't get a meet. You now trying to turn your attention seeking round on me. It won't work. Read my verifications to find out more about me if like. 
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive.
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it
Deff both!
Personally I think you have an inferiority complex .
And are deflecting .
Maybe just stop replying as at this point I fail to see what you hope to achieve by it.
You seek attention.
You've had enough of mine.
Do you keel replying to prove my point?
Maybe you have an inferiority complex due to not getting any verifications for 8 years lol. And don't say its all cus you don't want them. You do come across very bitter and defensive and also with a touch of jealously thrown in. It screams I can't get a meet. You now trying to turn your attention seeking round on me. It won't work. Read my verifications to find out more about me if like.
Good luck"
You're hilarious. I've read your verifications and your girlfriends who also took offence at me having an opinion.
From them I can see why.
There is certainly nothing there that I could possibly ever find to be jealous about 
You should spend more time on your education than on here it would improve your text immensely.
Now be a good boy and go learn something |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive.
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it
Deff both!
Personally I think you have an inferiority complex .
And are deflecting .
Maybe just stop replying as at this point I fail to see what you hope to achieve by it.
You seek attention.
You've had enough of mine.
Do you keel replying to prove my point?
Maybe you have an inferiority complex due to not getting any verifications for 8 years lol. And don't say its all cus you don't want them. You do come across very bitter and defensive and also with a touch of jealously thrown in. It screams I can't get a meet. You now trying to turn your attention seeking round on me. It won't work. Read my verifications to find out more about me if like.
Good luck
You're hilarious. I've read your verifications and your girlfriends who also took offence at me having an opinion.
From them I can see why.
There is certainly nothing there that I could possibly ever find to be jealous about
You should spend more time on your education than on here it would improve your text immensely.
Now be a good boy and go learn something "
I thought you were not be replying anymore? Hahaha. You are so right, you have clearly got be sussed out. I'm clearly Uneducated and must do better. Maybe you could help me with that and I could help you get a meet. Just dm for hints and tips, happy to help.
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale . "
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive.
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it
Deff both!
Personally I think you have an inferiority complex .
And are deflecting .
Maybe just stop replying as at this point I fail to see what you hope to achieve by it.
You seek attention.
You've had enough of mine.
Do you keel replying to prove my point?
Maybe you have an inferiority complex due to not getting any verifications for 8 years lol. And don't say its all cus you don't want them. You do come across very bitter and defensive and also with a touch of jealously thrown in. It screams I can't get a meet. You now trying to turn your attention seeking round on me. It won't work. Read my verifications to find out more about me if like.
Good luck
You're hilarious. I've read your verifications and your girlfriends who also took offence at me having an opinion.
From them I can see why.
There is certainly nothing there that I could possibly ever find to be jealous about
You should spend more time on your education than on here it would improve your text immensely.
Now be a good boy and go learn something
I thought you were not be replying anymore? Hahaha. You are so right, you have clearly got be sussed out. I'm clearly Uneducated and must do better. Maybe you could help me with that and I could help you get a meet. Just dm for hints and tips, happy to help.
Don't tell me.... you are not going to reply again. "
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"But in interest of the thread verifications describing someone's bedroom antics give me the heave.. no one needs to see graphic details x"
Probably the same folk that post their cornflakes and microwave dinners on Facebook. |
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale .
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
"
There was zero need for the thread to be taken down the petty route because you don't agree with someone else's opinion about verifications of all things .. would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic .. and in the interest of transparency I've never spoke to you before or know who you are .. think it speaks volumes when a couple almost tag team an individual in order to impose their views on another .. I say use the site how you wish ,it is no one else's buisness veris or not !! X |
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale .
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
There was zero need for the thread to be taken down the petty route because you don't agree with someone else's opinion about verifications of all things .. would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic .. and in the interest of transparency I've never spoke to you before or know who you are .. think it speaks volumes when a couple almost tag team an individual in order to impose their views on another .. I say use the site how you wish ,it is no one else's buisness veris or not !! X "
And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way. |
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale .
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
There was zero need for the thread to be taken down the petty route because you don't agree with someone else's opinion about verifications of all things .. would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic .. and in the interest of transparency I've never spoke to you before or know who you are .. think it speaks volumes when a couple almost tag team an individual in order to impose their views on another .. I say use the site how you wish ,it is no one else's buisness veris or not !! X "
Well he's pretty much stated he's had 7 fucks in his life. So I can understand his frustration.
After all he hasn't met anyone if he doesn't have it displayed eh? Going by his logic |
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale .
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
There was zero need for the thread to be taken down the petty route because you don't agree with someone else's opinion about verifications of all things .. would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic .. and in the interest of transparency I've never spoke to you before or know who you are .. think it speaks volumes when a couple almost tag team an individual in order to impose their views on another .. I say use the site how you wish ,it is no one else's buisness veris or not !! X "
P.s apologies he's now going to troll you for responses instead.
It's like a kid in a playground.
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
So why are you here then? And you haven't answered my question.
Why am I here? To meet people obviously, which I do regularly.
Sorry apart from that one what was your question? "
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way. "
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x |
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
So anyone with more than 6 veris is a slag?!
Ah was this your question?
If so that isn't what I wrote.
It's more the NEED to display them that bothers me.
I don't believe anyone here without a huge list of verifications is a virgin.
P.s I don't leave ebay feedbacks either "
So when you said 'anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague' what did you mean? Are you aware that comes across as looking down on other people because they don't do what you do? |
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale .
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
There was zero need for the thread to be taken down the petty route because you don't agree with someone else's opinion about verifications of all things .. would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic .. and in the interest of transparency I've never spoke to you before or know who you are .. think it speaks volumes when a couple almost tag team an individual in order to impose their views on another .. I say use the site how you wish ,it is no one else's buisness veris or not !! X
Well he's pretty much stated he's had 7 fucks in his life. So I can understand his frustration.
After all he hasn't met anyone if he doesn't have it displayed eh? Going by his logic "
Your lack of education is showing now. As I previously stated and I will get the crayons out if needed. I give verifications for new meets, social and or play. I know you don't understand that. I do fine on here (unlike some) and all of your replys are very childish. Its almost as if you can't think of something constructive to say.
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"Most of my meets have been with people with none or 1 or 2
Anyone with more than 5 or 6 I avoid like the plague lol.
I prefer a few regular partners than working my way through the site.
Don't know whether to laugh or cry at this comment. Most ridiculous comment of the day winner.
Your opinion which you're entitled to , but I don't need to display a list of often hilarious verifications to get any action.
Having read a lot of them over the years some of the folk leaving them sound like they've not had a good fuck in years lol.
They're as amusing as the reviews left on amazon.
You sound very bitter. People can choose to do what they want with their page and verifications. They can be giving for a host of reasons.
No one needs to display them and that's OK. But why have a go at those that do. Maybe you need a good verification to cheer you up.
No thanks. I make a point of not leaving any or receiving any.
And I'm not bitter because I don't agree with a mentality that you need to announce everytime you've fucked.
But I ain't a swinger either. And I don't use the platform for that purpose. If it floats your boat to receive and leave reviews you go for it .
I just offered my own opinion on the verification process . I'm on 5 other platforms that don't have this idea and I meet a lot less timewasters on them than I do here.
Who says folk do a veri everytime they play. I don't. I do verifications for people new that I meet, be that social or otherwise. We all use them diff because we can. They clearly bother you though. For me it's a good tool.
Well then I obviously wasn't talking about you then , so you're taking offence on someone else's behalf
Can't help you with that
I haven't taking any offence at all. Simply pointing out that we all use veris and the site in general different. Your argument doesn't add up and are coming across very defensive.
So first I'm bitter
Then I'm defensive
Make your mind up
You chose to take offence at my "opinion " on the verification process .
Since then I've simply answered you.
I'm not having an argument I'm just saying for me the verification process is pointless.
It puts ME off more than it appeals
If for YOU that's different good on you .
I thankfully don't need it
Deff both!
Personally I think you have an inferiority complex .
And are deflecting .
Maybe just stop replying as at this point I fail to see what you hope to achieve by it.
You seek attention.
You've had enough of mine.
Do you keel replying to prove my point?
Maybe you have an inferiority complex due to not getting any verifications for 8 years lol. And don't say its all cus you don't want them. You do come across very bitter and defensive and also with a touch of jealously thrown in. It screams I can't get a meet. You now trying to turn your attention seeking round on me. It won't work. Read my verifications to find out more about me if like.
Good luck
You're hilarious. I've read your verifications and your girlfriends who also took offence at me having an opinion.
From them I can see why.
There is certainly nothing there that I could possibly ever find to be jealous about
You should spend more time on your education than on here it would improve your text immensely.
Now be a good boy and go learn something "
Just to clarify, I haven't taken offence at anything. Disagreeing with someone doesn't automatically mean offence is taken, its just having a different opinion.
I'm wondering why you're referring to people having more veris than you deem necessary in a derogatory manner. If you don't like the number of verifications people show you very much have the option not to look at them. Solves the problem, no? |
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale .
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
There was zero need for the thread to be taken down the petty route because you don't agree with someone else's opinion about verifications of all things .. would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic .. and in the interest of transparency I've never spoke to you before or know who you are .. think it speaks volumes when a couple almost tag team an individual in order to impose their views on another .. I say use the site how you wish ,it is no one else's buisness veris or not !! X "
Sorry, wasn't aware that being in a couple meant that we were only allowed one opinion 
Duly noted though, we'll make sure to coordinate our opinion in future so we're not 'tag-teaming' anyone. And if we're in any doubt we'll run it past you first to check it's ok |
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"I really don't get why this thread has turned out the way it has .. the guy just said his opinion on the verification process which is the whole point of this thread .. and he's been berated whether that's intentionally or its just the way it reads .. everyone has their own reason for being here I'd say the vast majority of users on here aren't "swingers" but they pay their supporters and sign up for the site and are accepted on to it .. different strokes for different folks .. I know this probably willnae be recieved we'll as I've went against the pale .
People don't like opinions that don't match their own
There was zero need for the thread to be taken down the petty route because you don't agree with someone else's opinion about verifications of all things .. would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic .. and in the interest of transparency I've never spoke to you before or know who you are .. think it speaks volumes when a couple almost tag team an individual in order to impose their views on another .. I say use the site how you wish ,it is no one else's buisness veris or not !! X
Sorry, wasn't aware that being in a couple meant that we were only allowed one opinion
Duly noted though, we'll make sure to coordinate our opinion in future so we're not 'tag-teaming' anyone. And if we're in any doubt we'll run it past you first to check it's ok "
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x "
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble. |
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble."
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius  carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !! |
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble.
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !!"
Seems I'm no the wan needing to give ma head a wobble .. I'm no the ones arguing over verifications! |
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble.
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !!
Seems I'm no the wan needing to give ma head a wobble .. I'm no the ones arguing over verifications!"
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble.
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !!"
Knickers aren't twisted at all love because I couldn't give a shit about the opinion of random strangers on the internet but you do you  |
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Knickers aren't twisted at all love because I couldn't give a shit about the opinion of random strangers on the internet but you do you "
But yet you seem awfy hostile ..so far I've been called genius and love by you . Are ye raging you seem raging.. I couldn't care a jot about others opinions so I feel no need to be having petty arguments on a forum.thread about verification .. as I said my opinion wouldn't go down too well as it goes against the pale ! .. but I'm a big lassie n I can deal wae that .. I suggest you do the same because that's why your arguing on a forum . |
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble.
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !!
Seems I'm no the wan needing to give ma head a wobble .. I'm no the ones arguing over verifications!
Just other people's comments on them. "
There we go !! Nah doesnae affect me in the slightest was more pointing out that 2 grown men having an argument over verifications is embarrassing it got personal and heated from both sides ! And kinda proving the point about tag teaming if I do say so !! |
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble.
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !!
Seems I'm no the wan needing to give ma head a wobble .. I'm no the ones arguing over verifications!
Just other people's comments on them.
There we go !! Nah doesnae affect me in the slightest was more pointing out that 2 grown men having an argument over verifications is embarrassing it got personal and heated from both sides ! And kinda proving the point about tag teaming if I do say so !!"
"Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience "
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble.
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !!
Seems I'm no the wan needing to give ma head a wobble .. I'm no the ones arguing over verifications!
Just other people's comments on them.
There we go !! Nah doesnae affect me in the slightest was more pointing out that 2 grown men having an argument over verifications is embarrassing it got personal and heated from both sides ! And kinda proving the point about tag teaming if I do say so !!"
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And yet......
It's a public forum. The point you make is the point I and others have already said. Everyone uses it differently. No right or wrong way.
The guy got asked why he was here then .. its not for others to decide whether someone should be here .. I get its a public forum and healthy debate is part of it or should be but when it gets personal then it's not a debate anymore .. everyone's entitled to use the site in which ever way they see fit . I'm not starting arguments but it did get rather uncomfortable reading and that's not a go at yourself just more so all involved .. when it gets personal the arguments lost and gets embarrassing for 2 grown men who are arguing over the verification process x
The reason I asked him why he was here then, genius, is because he's claimed that he has more success on other sites. So I was wondering why people in general would stay somewhere if they had more success elsewhere and it was mostly timewasters here, and that's definitely got worse here in the past few years. It was a genuine enquiry, not a demand for him to leave. Give your head a wobble.
Don't get ur knickers in a twist .. but it's none of your buisness as too why he's here .. haha genius carry on way ur day !! Have a good one .. getting personal eh lol .. as you were !!
Seems I'm no the wan needing to give ma head a wobble .. I'm no the ones arguing over verifications!
Just other people's comments on them.
There we go !! Nah doesnae affect me in the slightest was more pointing out that 2 grown men having an argument over verifications is embarrassing it got personal and heated from both sides ! And kinda proving the point about tag teaming if I do say so !!
"Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience "
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Lesson for you to learn. You keep replying lol. |
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"It's ridiculous when you have to resort to blocking folk on here because they can't control their need for validation and attention.
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We would like to be able to put up verification anonymous as in if we meet single guys ever now and again we get inundated.Also it can be upsetting if verification are reciprocated and we have met then they decided not to put it up.It would we feel our personal opinion be better not to verify at all.
Guess verification are abit like a reference as in you are genuine. |
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"I know some have said they hide their verifications to give privacy to those they have met, not sure I entirely understand that one though.
Yeah … if someone leaves a veri that implies they want it to be shown. Unless they tell you otherwise!)"
Why would anyone verify if they don't want it shown doesn't make any sense. |
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Verification for us are like reference.We obviously wouldn't give them if we actually didn't click & certainly wouldn't not show them.Although it has happened where people haven't shown ours so we then don't put theirs up. We would not give ones that were not nice either.
We do wish they could be put up anonymously as in if we meet single guy's sometimes we then get inundated & that can be annoying. |
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"I’ve recently returned and I will still not show my veris. The amount of times over the years I get messages asking about people I’ve met is worrying.
The last straw for me with it was a message from a much older guy asking me how my meet was with a certain female, listing her name, place of work, where she walked her dog and a potential address (thankfully incorrect).
Not too long after she had to get the police involved as he was following her.
So, only the summary is ever shown for me"
Holy moly that’s so crazy!!  |
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