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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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One for ladies. What's two pieces of advice you would give a single guy just joining fab, that would help him get a reply from a message. Mine would be....
1. Always read the profile before thinking of making contact.
2. No sleazy fancy a shag or do you deep throat messages, that's an immediate block, for me.
I could probably list about ten but let's stick with two at the moment. |
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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
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"Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
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Jigs is bang on the money I reckon |
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"Everyone knows it's us guys that are the problem 
True, unfortunately. Even if it's not all the guys. The few bad eggs spoil it for everyone"
How do they spoil it for everyone ?
I’ve said it many times before that each & everyone of us is in control of our own destiny on here .
If your a decent human being then that will out shine the not so decent people & how they behave has no reflection on anyone else but themselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile pic is of your cock - tells us you are a cock.
You have multiple pics of your cock all from slightly different angles - tells us your cock is the most important thing to you and you believe it should be for everyone else too.
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"Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
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Not everyone goes to socials or use forums, if guys aren’t to send message what about all the girls and couples looking for men that don’t attend? |
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By *ogalMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
"One for ladies. What's two pieces of advice you would give a single guy just joining fab, that would help him get a reply from a message. Mine would be....
1. Always read the profile before thinking of making contact.
2. No sleazy fancy a shag or do you deep throat messages, that's an immediate block, for me.
I could probably list about ten but let's stick with two at the moment. "
You're giving the game away for those of us who put a bit of effort in  |
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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
Not everyone goes to socials or use forums, if guys aren’t to send message what about all the girls and couples looking for men that don’t attend?"
Who specified socials? Events on here include anything from private / public meets, club nights, private / public parties or socials. It's how the site was designed. You post and get responses. If, as you say, they don't ever attend events then that's just keyboard swinging and a waste of everyone's time.
Though if you're looking for girls, please leave fab. This is for consensual adults only. |
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"Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
Not everyone goes to socials or use forums, if guys aren’t to send message what about all the girls and couples looking for men that don’t attend?
Who specified socials? Events on here include anything from private / public meets, club nights, private / public parties or socials. It's how the site was designed. You post and get responses. If, as you say, they don't ever attend events then that's just keyboard swinging and a waste of everyone's time.
Though if you're looking for girls, please leave fab. This is for consensual adults only. "
WOW!
Girls as in females, clearly fab is only for consenting adults, that’s a given.
I’ve met people through messaging them, and I’m sure there are plenty others that have too.
I guess we all work it differently, but that’s okay |
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"Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
Not everyone goes to socials or use forums, if guys aren’t to send message what about all the girls and couples looking for men that don’t attend?
Who specified socials? Events on here include anything from private / public meets, club nights, private / public parties or socials. It's how the site was designed. You post and get responses. If, as you say, they don't ever attend events then that's just keyboard swinging and a waste of everyone's time.
Though if you're looking for girls, please leave fab. This is for consensual adults only. "
Get your point in the first paragraph.
Second paragraph is being slightly pedantic though. Lost count of the number of times transvestites or transwomen are referred to as "t girls" on here..And there is never any suggestion or assumption of an underage crossdresser or trans woman. Simply understood as a friendly and affectionate term. |
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"Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
Not everyone goes to socials or use forums, if guys aren’t to send message what about all the girls and couples looking for men that don’t attend?
Who specified socials? Events on here include anything from private / public meets, club nights, private / public parties or socials. It's how the site was designed. You post and get responses. If, as you say, they don't ever attend events then that's just keyboard swinging and a waste of everyone's time.
Though if you're looking for girls, please leave fab. This is for consensual adults only.
WOW!
Girls as in females, clearly fab is only for consenting adults, that’s a given.
I’ve met people through messaging them, and I’m sure there are plenty others that have too.
I guess we all work it differently, but that’s okay "
(....casually whistles the theme tune to "Jim'll Fix It").
The gentleman doth protest too much, me thinks. |
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"Make a decent profile (no red flags, illegal photos etc) and then don't send any messages at all. Just sign up to events, or use forums / chat function. Treat it like any other social media. That way you'll meet people in the real world and be able to make a natural first impression.
Jigs x
Not everyone goes to socials or use forums, if guys aren’t to send message what about all the girls and couples looking for men that don’t attend?
Who specified socials? Events on here include anything from private / public meets, club nights, private / public parties or socials. It's how the site was designed. You post and get responses. If, as you say, they don't ever attend events then that's just keyboard swinging and a waste of everyone's time.
Though if you're looking for girls, please leave fab. This is for consensual adults only.
WOW!
Girls as in females, clearly fab is only for consenting adults, that’s a given.
I’ve met people through messaging them, and I’m sure there are plenty others that have too.
I guess we all work it differently, but that’s okay
(....casually whistles the theme tune to "Jim'll Fix It").
The gentleman doth protest too much, me thinks. "
I’m saying nothing more |
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By *ayco04Man
over a year ago
Stirling |
There's so many basic things that you could say to a guy starting out, like no dick pics, FAF, love your pics etc.
Let them make their mistakes I say, a bit of common courtesy shows a lot in man, and if a guy can't recognise that then maybe that's a good thing.
I always read a profile, look at the restrictions, age, preference. And I'm respectful. If I get a no, it's a simple "No problem, happy fabbing" and no hissy fits.
Respect and communication is key on this site, we are all people looking to have a good time.
I would say to any newbie on Fab, don't have any expectations to be the hottest guy on here, show some respect, be friendly, and let things develop naturally. This is a community after all, you'll never just walk in and be the biggest man in the room. Get to know people and learn who they are, you'll make so many better connections that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice would be… READ the FAQ’s and the site advice thoroughly (then the forums ) I’d even go as far to suggest a few simple questions before being allowed to join (still fully free, just an added step).
The simplest example of a question I can give that would cut down on sooooo much confusion and mail is….
Q- What does a non response mean?
A - A polite no thanks
Disclaimer:- not 100% but 99.9999999999999 %  |
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