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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After a while, I'm back here again.
Unfortunately, I cannot say that with joy. This site and other apps make me feel overstimulated and focus only on sex. SEX, SEX and more SEX, the more the better..It seems that I never manage to be satisfied with my encounters and this sadly make me think that it's more psychological than a real need. I wonder if maybe this happens because of a lack of affection?
I really think life's more than an addiction (I guess this must be called like that). I know there're more things that can fulfil my soul but meanwhile I am here.
Just want to share this with all of you.
xx
Juan |
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We were talking about a similar issue at work...
The confusion between sex and loneliness.
There is a lot of people that are lonely and isolated due to our culture of "online" and social media. Which limit the amount of social contact or interaction people have.
This produces a subtle but ever growing loneliness that many tend to want to extinguish with a sexual encounter. This is great for the moment but the after glow fades quick and people search for the next sex fix....
Only concentrating on meeting for sex only fuels the loneliness and reduces the chance to find a lasting relationship.
It's just a conversation at work but I think there is some truth in it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say that the more you dig deeper the more you might find it will relate more towards your attachment style. Also making the link between sex and affection, attention, care and love which can be difficult when the other person, or persons, sees it as a casual sexual encounter only.
Personally buddy, I would go and speak to a psychologist or the like. Perhaps looking into what creates this addiction/ need is a better long term choice than being on sites and feeding it.
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By *oyfulduoCouple
over a year ago
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A very interesting thread… we agree, loneliness is a large issue, the disconnect of human interaction and fear when meeting new people in day to day life and not knowing what is right or wrong to say anymore has created a community of separation...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being lonely is no joke that's for sure. I find being older. I get the sorry said more than a few times. I have been in a long time relationship and for a time we were on here as well. She got all the attention. Me not so much. But it can be difficult to balance yourself and life. Its something we all face. We all go through peaks and lows. Lets hope for more peaks. |
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