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Is social meets only acceptable
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By *ndk OP Couple
over a year ago
LEVEN |
Do people meet for socials only on here?, with the knowledge that no naughtiness is on the cards.
We are taking small steps, and think coffee would be next for us, but don't want anyone to think we are just wasting their time? |
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It's like the best way to get to know someone pal also gives a person the option to just leave rather than feeling awkward if they was to just meet up with a stranger at a hotel or there home for sex then turned out they had catfished them with pics of when they was way younger or Snapchat filters a social is a great ice breaker and if goes well there's nothing to say a social couldn't turn into fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people meet for socials only on here?, with the knowledge that no naughtiness is on the cards.
We are taking small steps, and think coffee would be next for us, but don't want anyone to think we are just wasting their time?"
Socials are a huge part of the swinging community in Aberdeen. Lots of people use the site for social interaction. Use it how you wish it’s your profile and your choice at the end of the day.  |
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Aye, the whole point of a social meet, especially as a first meeting, is to sound everyone out. I mean, you'd view a house/car before taking the plunge...for a lot of people there needs to be a level of connection and comfort with a person/persons before the fun stuff happens.
You can only tell so much from a few words and photos on a profile. I always find you will learn more watching a person and talking to them for 5 mins than if you just message back and forth for a fee weeks.
Unless you're a rampant shagger that is. Then socials are kinda pointless... |
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We tend to have a social meet 1st before any plays Iv started to hold private social meets weekly in my pub in fife and people seem ti be enjoying it only coming up for the 3rd night but for the response iv been definitely would say socials are a good thing not all about the sex I personally feel like am part of a community in swinging with real good freinds met along the way x |
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By *bostCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Do people meet for socials only on here?, with the knowledge that no naughtiness is on the cards.
We are taking small steps, and think coffee would be next for us, but don't want anyone to think we are just wasting their time?"
That’s our approach at all times, visits to a club being the exception. We are very much that if we don’t get on or there isn’t a connection when we have our pants on, then there never will be when the pants come off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally think socials are amazing and for me are an absolute must before a meet. It allows for the he vibe to be assessed and properly get to know each other. Enjoy the site how you feel and never let anyone pressure you into anything you don’t want to do |
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By *oyfulduoCouple
over a year ago
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Like everyone else has said, socials are fabulous, best way to be able to meet and check out if there is attraction, but also just to be able to talk about this subject matter in a safe place with like minded people xx |
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By *nn1330Woman
over a year ago
glasgow |
It's pretty much all I do now , unless I have a huge connection with a person but would take a lot , I make sure the other person knows that's its purely social, up to them if that's enough, if not they can move on |
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Already got your answer multiple times over, socials are very much a big thing in our community so social away OP and go at your own pace as there will still be ample people willing to meet you both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Were more of a social couple. It's def more about quality than quantity for us. And we fade in and out of swinging . We go to alot of socials and we love it! We've made loads of friends and hope to make many more xx |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
Of course it is acceptable. Trouble is getting people to turn up. We were let down once again while we were visiting our friends camp field near Perth Easter weekend. It gets a tad tedious being let down without a courtesy message to say why or even can't make it. There are lots here on fab disrespectful and think people are just a commodity. Hope you have all the luck of the Irish OP. We definitely don't mind a coffee with folk, in fact there are lots who will say social first   |
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By *haifuarMan
over a year ago
Dumbarton |
Socials are great, I've made some long-lasting friends where there wasn't that mutual sexual spark but we both appreciated the honest company. It can be hard to talk freely about your kinks but with friends you meet on here you always have someone capable of discretion and understanding. |
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Completely agree and it’s on my
profile although the amount of times folk have wasted my time chatting and even arranging to meet then when I say it’s just a social they say it’s not worth their while .
How do you know if you ll connect ?
Also the time wasters that don’t show .
As a single female it’s also for safety |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Fabbers usually fall into two groups. Those who like a social meet and those who just want to play and go.
Look out for social events on the forum if you want to meet up with others as a group or meet for coffee with anyone you’re interested in. There’s no obligation to play if you decide to go to CJs anytime either. Many of us socialise there and don’t play.
Have fun. |
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Defo social 1st
It’s like the best kind of foreplay & build up, I also know within minutes of a social if i like or don’t like someone
I’m clear in our profile social is a must, dont get me wrong i get some whollopers who clearly didn’t read profile but helps out the weirdos
I like a few socials a week  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials are a good way forward.
There are times when you meet people and with 4 people (more or less) you all need to feel an attraction to take it further.
with a social you can still have a fantastic night without that attraction via chatting, a meal, drinks.
we all have vanilla friends we go out with and have a good night out without the sex. A social is just like that. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Socials are not only acceptable but the norm for many people.
It’s a no pressure way of seeing if there is a connection plus if neither party can accommodate then you can see if people get on before booking a hotel for a second play meet.
We’ve got a social only meet today.
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Certainly so. Most social meets I've had involve trying to sound each other out. It's always a dangerous game to rip each others clothes off in Cafe Nero...
Then again. I've had a rock climbing social...which was very nice for checking out the glutes on the lady I met with |
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